69, or separate BJ and DATY?

All of the above please.

Katie

If I had to choose, I would choose separate bj and daty.  I enjoy  focusing all the attention on either giving or receiving the pleasure.  I find 69 to sometimes be too distracting, not to say it's not enjoyable, though!!

I absolutely agree with you!  I love all of the above, but I do prefer it separately, because, like you...I like to FULLY concentrate on either getting or receiving.  Wow!  This made me realize how lonely I am tonight!  : (    

Definately separate daty and bbbj about 80% on the time.  The other 20% of 69s is initiated by the woman of the moment.  I have do admit I am partial to 69 rimjobs.  That a spicy hot variation on the theme.  Watch out for abdomen muscle cramps due to the increased angle of munch.

probably separate bj and daty.  rather concentrate on one thing at a time.

Swim

69!!

Je t'aime le soixante-neuf plus que la vie lui-même !

(Translation: I love 69 more than life itself!)

I didn't know how widespread that sentiment was or if it was just something about me.  I'd like to hear from more of the ladies on this too.

Separate BJ and DATY. Why? Because it's much more relaxing and enjoyable. I will not cum if I'm holding myself up and concentrating on you, too. I have never understood the fascination with 69. Most women actually hate it, but they won't tell you. I don't mind doing it. It's fun to experiment, but it's much more romantic and relaxing (and stimulating) one on one.

Hugs,
Ciara

but for a number of reasons, it pays to do them seperately.  Focusing in on one thing and not having the distraction is one, and being in my fifties, I'd rather not have the charlie horse the next day.

Over the course of a session my ATF and I do both but we both prefer separate BBBJ/DATY. Seriously, once she starts licking and sucking I lose my concentration and can't pleasure her nearly as well as when I am just concentrating with my mouth and hands on her.
We do fall into some pretty hot 69 during the course of things though...

The turn on of hearing a woman moan and sigh during DATY is so intense, can't get that with 69. I do like a little 69 for a couple minutes before the main event. It just gives a little extra start up boost to the whole thing.

get pretty intense when it is working especially well for both- sparks start to fly and it is awesome!  When she is bucking, squeezing her legs against my face, and grinding in to me while heating me up to over the edge with her oral, I wouldn't trade it for anything!

But like others have said, probably 90% of the time it is distracting to try to have two things going on at once!

Separate for the reasons stated above by several posters.  I would rather concentrate on pleasing my date and allow her the same opportunity.  Slow and sensual is my prefered style.  There is no rush to climax together orally.  Other times climaxing together is good but not in a rush.

uh, I mean I'm lousy at it.  Sure wish I could concentrate with that pretty pussy in front of me but I'm not "ambi-dick-ter-us" - I'm thinking "lick and suck that pussy good!"   But I'm realizing "wow, does that feel good on my dick!"

Inept.  Sad.  Poor lady is getting a "26" from me which is far less than half of 69.

All are hot!  At my last meeting early this week, I enjoyed all three.  Generally, I would say separate BBBJ/DATY are necessities 100% of the time, and 69 happens maybe 25 - 33% of the time, but I like it when all three happen.  If I had to choose...all three!

Definitely separate.

It's like trying to text on a Blackberry upside down.

Separate.  Why?  I'm 5'0 and most of the time our body's dont mesh.  

But, when in 69, I prefer to be on bottom because I had a car wreck a few years ago and broke both my wrists and ever since then it's hard for me to hold myself up in a traditional 69 postion, but will do it regardless, just not for very long.

It's not a case of either/or.

I've found that most providers who allow DATY  will opt for the full menu.  And, if you're a hair trigger like me, who excites easily, the changing of positions allows for some "cooling off."

If the mood strikes us... 69 is perfect and if it goes another way... then separate is just right...

If you want me to enjoy myself... do a good job letting me know what feels good...

nothing makes me more turned on

seperate times to dine-much more enjoyable for
both parties.

The sensation is so much better when they are separate. Maybe someday we can experience this together....

BJ for sure...involves no work