Listen to what she tells you to do. She’s a freak on anal so she knows how to do it and what she likes, eg how much lube, entry speed, thrusting speed, adding a vibrator etc.
Rules 2 and 3 - see Rule #1. One of my favs is a “freak” on anal (and on sex in general) and with her it was a LOT of fun. And if I were you I wouldn’t assume anything. Let her know in some subtle way that you’re accepted her offer... without getting into specifics of course.I have never been turned on by anal, however I soon will be seeing a lady who is a freak in this area. Never too old to try something new.
My Questions are:
As a gentlemen, what should I do to maximize her pleasure?
What can expect and is it fun?
Definitely will be covered, and I have read up on the risks.
Finally, she is proactive on offering it to me, so I assume she will be prepared.
Thanks
Listen to what she tells you to do. She’s a freak on anal so she knows how to do it and what she likes, eg how much lube, entry speed, thrusting speed, adding a vibrator etc.
Rules 2 and 3 - see Rule #1.
One of my favs is a “freak” on anal (and on sex in general) and with her it was a LOT of fun.
And if I were you I wouldn’t assume anything. Let her know in some subtle way that you’re accepted her offer... without getting into specifics of course.
Ok, you got this one right. I really have nothing to add to the advice you have given except to agree with it.
Like the OP, I am not a huge fan of anal, but like they say in the reviews if a girl offers it, AND it turns HER on, "who am I to refuse?" lol
Sometimes it's ok, actually more than ok to let the woman take the lead. I would have to agree this is one of those times.
And I ain't joking here....Have some slow dance music in the background. Isaac Hayes, "I never can say goodbye" is a good song.It starts slow, and has a nice ending, the way you want it. Or some Barry White, not the disco shit... Then grind her to the rhythm, once you made your grand entrance.. ...lol
If it's incall...well then fuck it, never mind.
You really need to let her know you're down for it BEFORE you get there. It requires a little bit of preparation on her part in the form of an enema/douche to clear a path for you. Without the prep on her part, you can still do it, but expect that when you pull your dick out, it will likely be followed by a turd making a break for it before the door slams shut.
As far as fun, Anal sex usually feels a lot tighter than vaginal sex. The sphincter is a muscle that is easily contracted to make it even tighter. Kegels often need training to achieve an advanced level of tightness. You will probably finish quicker than usual. At least that has been my experience.
Whatever you do, don't pull out of her ass and reinsert into her vagina, covered or not. Its very risky for her from a bacterial standpoint, and likely to get you a freakout that will completely ruin the moment. I've read a few reviews where guys claimed to have done this, but I think its either a fake review, or a newbie provider that doesn't understand the risks she is taking with such a move.
Which is a good way to give her a vaginal infection. That said, you seem to be confusing an enema (which is correct prep for anal) with a douche, which is how she cleans her vagina and has nothing to do with anal.
Please "bone up" on the proper care of lady parts. Having been married twice, I have been forced to learn the difference.
In my experience, providers will request an up charge of $100-400 for Greek. It may be included for multiple hour bookings with certain providers. I have found the occasional k-girl provider in the LA market who included it in the past. You should not only be clear that you want it ahead of time, but also agree on pricing! That will please her as much as the session!
I had and SB offer anal for my first time. It turns out that neither anal nor doggie style really seem stimulating to me. All I can see is the back of the person and I could as well be banging a guy. My arousal seems to depend on seeing their face, their tits, their pussy. The only reason I do doggie style now is because many girls like it. Missionary or cowgirl (or any bj position) are my main courses (and oral on her too.)
You can kiss the girl by leaning forward. And you can kinda see pussy when you do short strokes. If there are her balls there, you have a problem lol
Lazy dog is also popular and very intimate position. Obviously, to each his own.
I love DS. Most of the time I cum while banging is in DS. Can't remember the last time I came in cg, which I really like too, but for different reasons.
and yes, that includes both missionary and cowgirl.
Personally I prefer a nice wet pussy over a butthole with no natural lubricant, but I have to confess I really do like the visual of my dick sliding in and out of a hot woman's ass. PLUS some women love anal and I have had more than a couple literally beg me to "Fuck their ass".
If some chick begs for anal, i am not going to deny her. But generally that hasn't happened. The only time actually was when we were talking about it and the SB wanted to introduce it to me. I think we tried it once again after that. I'm not being prudish or anything. In fact I am sort of pervy. I think A2M porn is kind of hot.
Here’s a video that shows a good example of what I’ve found to be relatively typical warm up for anal. Especially with smaller Asian girls. Typically, the smaller the girl the more care and time that will need to be taken to warm her up. But there are exceptions to every rule. Just like the “always use plenty of lube” rule. There are girls who get so wet that no other lube is required by the time you get to their little starfish.
I once knew a pretty slim and small Chinese girl that would, after about her 3rd O, quietly change the angle of her hips so you could slowly slip into her tight little ass while she wiggled to get the right angle and degree of penetration. She wouldn’t say a word about it or even help you other than to put herself in position. You just had to read her signals. Well, there was one time when we were OTC and she was sitting on me. She just put her hand on my chest and said, with no question in her voice, “you want to fuck my ass”. Well, I just smiled and did just that.
Note: This is the best link I could find for this particular video. My apologies for the overly aggressive ad links for those of you not running ad blockers. Just keep closing the pop ups and going back to the original tab.
Like the girl in the video, in my experience it has been easier to find Viet girls who are up for anal. Kgirls, unless you have a long term relationship with them, rarely offer anal. Well, even then it is quite unusual. C-girls who offer anal are easier to find. But I think only because there are so many of them that the low percentage of kinky girls is still not a small number. Thai girls and Brazilian girls, again, just my experience, will not uncommonly just expect that you want it.
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Great post!
Yeah kgirls lack of anal love is probably the only blemish on otherwise generally excellent and superior and consistent service overall as far as "race" groups go.
Viet and Thai girls, as well as Chinese/TW girls do accept more guys will like anal,on the Asian side.
And white girls, Latinas and AAs (well, generally bigger girls with bigger asses lol) some of them really are into it.
I'm still kind of amazed when I get with a civvie Asian girl, and she's into anal. Especially if she's a nerdy one (my line of work). I know its largely a dumb stereotype, but something gets me going extra hard when a shy, nerdy Asian girl turns out to be into anal in bed. I guess because anal used to be more taboo or something. Even though I will take pussy over asshole.
There is a good sized Korean population in Brazil. Mostly in São Paulo. But I’ve run into them mongering in Rio as well. In Rio they were mixed Korean. Hot little spinners.
From my extremely small sampling from mongering in Brazil over about 15 visits, I’d say those Brazilian Koreans were some of the hottest, most energetic and eager to please providers I’ve ever met. And far less averse to anal than the average Korean girl.
Those were some good times.
Korean. Its the other Brazilian/Portuguese side that's okay with Anal. Historically speaking the Portuguese were habitually ass-fucked by other Europeans for hundreds of years, so it stands to reason that it is in their genes.
That was funny.
But I suspect the real reason is that Brazilians, especially in Rio, are just way more relaxed about sexuality in general than native Koreans. I tend to believe that anyone, even a Korean, after living in Brazil for a while, would begin to relax about things like anal sex.
This is probably slightly offtopic, but I have been to Brazil and the women there have a completely different mentality from western women. Sex in general is a lot more casual to them and they are more "accessible" so to speak. And I don't mean p4p either. Just regular civvie girls who don't play games. They like you, they're down to fuck. Brazilian girls have thicker bodies and are generally less petite than Asians. So imo the anal stuff can be attributed to size difference as well. But then, Thai and Taiwanese women also fall under that Asian stereotype, and they usually aren't anti-anal
My experience in Brazil is the same as you have described.
What actually surprised me was that the more casual attitudes about sex extends to Korean girls living in Brazil. Though the half Korean girls (I only met a few in Rio though) seemed to be even more like native Brazilians in their attitudes to sex than the 100% Korean girls living in Brazil (that I only saw in São Paulo).
Brazilian girls being DTF is one of the cool things about traveling there. I remember catching a Miami red eye flight to São Paulo back in 2004. A bunch of Brazilian college kids were returning from a concert in NY on the same flight.
The cute little Brazilian girl next to me was chattering away with her friends for the first hour or so of the flight. But then she fell asleep and somehow ended up laying her head on my chest (we still hadn’t even spoken to each other yet). She eventually woke up and was quite startled to see where her head was. I was holding her head with my hand because the seat arm was down and if I didn’t hold her head she would have ended up on my lap.
After she woke up we visited for a good bit. Before we landed she insisted on sharing our contact info so we could stay in touch. She said “because of this one night we slept together”. She gave the very clear signal that we should hook up if our mutual schedules permitted.
She stayed in touch with me for 5 years after that.
So, yeah, Brazilian girls are pretty laid back.
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Must be like receiving anal for the first tme....IN PRISON!
I doubt this is much of a revelation to anyone who has ever read your posts.
Don't worry, we aren't judging. Sure we're not. lol
receiving anal, so I'll take your word for it. I have no personal experience with which to rebut your assertion.
Or will I need to smuggle lube in a condom?
I feel I owe it to the group to confess I am still an anal virgin, which is okay.
We were having so much fun playing around that it never happened. Simple as that. I was so charged up I knew I would blow instantaneously, so I held off to play a whole lot longer.
Hopefully folks found the comments interesting. I value them for sure, in case the opportunity comes around again.
Thanks everyone!
MOST of us on this thread are anal virgins, or where you referring giving rather than receiving?
Giving! I had an enema when I was a kid. I can still feel that damn thing going in my ass and out my nose.
No thank you.
I spit my coffee all over my laptop. LMAO!!!