I had an amazing multi-hour session recently.  Play time, then dinner out, then after dinner play time.

Usually I can tell real Os from fake Os... or so I'd like to think, however she turned all shades of crimson during the final round, and I wonder... is it possible to fake that?

...and I mean she really went flush red in the face, neck and a little in the upper body.

Just kidding...sounds like a real one to me. It would be hard to fake blushing. If it is fake, then she's an oscar worthy actress.

But then again...I can only tell when they kick me off the bed =)

Spud

To those who are Hi-Fi buffs, you might know him as the founder of the Bose Corporation which produced some of the most celebrated Hi-Fi speakers of all times.

He has one very memorable quotation that is very applicable here:

"If you can't hear the difference, then it is all academic."

and at one point I was a bit concerned the occupants of the room next door might complain to the front desk... but it was before midnight, so I shrugged that off and finished the opera (she wasn't at all fat, but boy oh boy did she sing!)

But it's easy to fake the aural aspects of lovemaking, so I'm missing your point, Mr. Fisher.

I honestly cant say Ive ever changed colors after an "O"..and I know Ive had my share of 'em!

If you're having a really good time but you're putting a lot of pressure on someone to cum then perhaps a lady will feel the need to fake one. On the other hand, if her face "turned all shades of crimson" then I seriously doubt it. Unfortunately, now you "might" be looking for everyone to turn shades of crimson. I don't think my face color changes when I orgasm.

Please don't take this personally. This is a subject that gets most women on this board. What is the big thing with women having to have orgasms? All women are not alike. Some will orgasm a lot, some will probably never orgasm and tell you they did (or not) and some will occasionally orgasm. Hopefully, most are honest, but can you blame them? They are trying to do whatever they can to please you (even if it means a fake orgasm). There is already enough  pressure put on escorts now to be more GFE, and men are expecting to make us feel like with every client we will be given the moon, every time. And, a lot of times it's because what makes us cum will make the man cum too fast so we hold off and switch tactics. Then, maybe later, we're too sore or desensitized, or the guy just can't listen to directions.

So, please, please, please stop putting that kind of pressure on us. We're escorts not girlfriends. You are paying us to get "your" rocks off. If we are able to cum then we will. If you listen carefully then we might. But if you have a two-inch penis (not that I'm saying you do, hon) and the lady needs to have sex to get off and you don't listen to her directions, then I doubt she'll have an orgasm. Some women only orgasm with sex, others only with oral sex. Geesh! Sorry, but I get so sick of this subject.

We have enough pressure on us to be beautiful, to have a perfect body, to have a great personality, to be intelligent, to be a great kisser and a lover, to be a psychiatrist, to worry about getting arrested, to worry about diseases, to worry about what score we'll receive later and to worry about being brutally attacked. Now, we have to worry about the guy's feelings being hurt if we don't cum. We are not built like you guys. We cannot always cum if we're not attracted to you, but we try. Even if we are attracted to someone it may not happen.
Men: just because we may not orgasm doesn't mean we're not having a good time, just like some men who occasionally cannot have one and tell us, "It's not your fault and I'm still happy." There should be no blame, no guilt on your part. I know a lot of men feel good when we cum, but you are not paying us to cum, so please just relax and enjoy the date. We are pros. Some of us see many in a day, or some may just have an off day and cannot cum.

Now, with that being said, I can tell you that I know how to make myself cum, but there is still pressure for me, too.

Hugs,
ciara



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Pertty face does not change color, but you beautiful eyes glaze over and roll back in your head and you sweet lips they just .....and your hips gyrate and your whole body quivers.......Oh, well that is how it was in my dream last night.


Thank you
2008=27

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Yeah, maybe she finally counted the donation and thought, "I've been screwed!"

always cum...   however, what keeps 'em coming back is the fact that if they have a nice time, are comfortable in a gent's presence - and can have sex that is promising - well, those are all plusses....

and while for the most part, there are those ladies I've been with who have had an orgasm... that is real - you cannot fake physiological responses... I live for those - but if that does not happen - I am still grateful to the lady for having taken the time to be with me - paid or not.  And there are women who just make ya feel special - and you sweet lady are one of those!  Happy belated 4th!

In agreement absolutely...what are you picking your great experience apart for? You say it was top notch and now you r picking it apart one play at a time.  There are times I don't orgasm not your fault or mine but that doesn't mean I didn't enjoy myself. It happens that way sometimes. Too many men spend too much time asking if you orgasmed. God believe me if I did, usually I do, you'd know it.

When everyone is relaxed and enjoying the pleasures of each other it usually works out well for both parties.
Just enjoy your time together and stop picking it apart.

sounds about right to me...

Yes that dream was about a week ago.

Thank You
2008=27

anyone else, however I think you may have read into my query much more than I had ever intended.

I don't always O, and I don't expect my partner to alway O either.  I dated a girl for almost two years when I was 22 and she was 28 (so we were both rather close to our sexual peaks) and while we had a LOT of sex, she was very quiet.  She told me frankly that sometime she did, and sometimes she didn't, but she always enjoyed the sex.  In those two years, there was only one time I could tell for sure she had the big O.  But I've strayed far off my point...

This was the first time I ever had a partner go flush like that (and I'd be happy to have it happen again, but don't expect it) and was curious.

Final thought... if every time my partner reacted like Meg Ryan's scene in "When Harry met Sally", I'd be bummed.  The variety of O types is one of the great pleasures and adventures I seek out.

She insisted that i take back some of the donation because she had such a wonderful time.

Not bragging, but this just happened to me this weekend.

NS

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fake or real O's.....Just date "squirters"  But be careful...cuz if she is on your face when it hits....you will start telling EVERYTHING you know....because you think you are being waterboarded   LOL

the real point is, if she behaves that way a woman does while having an orgasm; that is, flushed skin color, heavy breathing and heart rate, look of ectasy on her face, palpitations coming from the vaginal area; then who cares if she is faking or not?

Either she is having the real McCoy, or you are experiencing that performance of a life time.

Either way, you're a winner.