Retract your claws please. My comments were neither unkind nor snide(I do have a gay uncle) and the only men I know that advertise parts of their sexual organs in such a obvious manner(T-shirts etc.) are gay men. So if anything it was an honest mistake. As for going up to strangers...I'll think twice before I ask a stranger anything...it might be you and Lord knows what reception I might get.

I'll rephrase my question for those who didn't get it the first time(part of my initial post was the story)...why would a guy(any guy) hang "balls" off his car?

I am guessing the general consensus so far is that I was inappropriate for even asking. Oh well I guess I can attribute my forwardness to not being raised in the US. Sorry if I offended anyone here and I did apologize to the poor gent. Where I am from...it would not have been such an issue.

As for worrying about my face still being in the same place...he had more to worry about than I ...very few men expect a well trained lady.

Re: Sexual orientation aside

It's a redneck thang, you wouldn't understand.

You know I really am flattered at the concern over my face and now my dental work. If a man is going to end up in hospital and then jail for retaliating that strongly to that question when he's the one with the silly "balls" hanging off his truck, then so be it.

I have already conceded that my level of forwardness does not go down well here. Duly noted but what comes across to me loud and clear is the possible threat of violence intimated by not one but two people for asking the question. What does that say?


Jeez people, it wasn't like I had said I had just emptied out his beer fridge.

And if you think that's bad..try going out on a Friday night and listen to some of the dumbass(include rude and snide and anything else you want to add) questions guys ask. Not to mention the rude, inappropriate and disgusting comments/questions some men make in emails/phone. It takes very little energy to hit the delete button or hang up the phone than to threaten violence because of someone else's curiosity or request.

Look, honest mistake and now realize that some men are way too sensitive...especially ones with "balls" on their vehicles. Maybe they need to get some real ones and play less with the car accessories.

OH and BTW I get everyones drift...

That was laugh out loud funny, man. I'm shocked he didn't punch you.

I'm laughing again just picturing that conversation & the follow up one he had in his truck while driving away....