So much talk about guys following the "wrong head" when arriving at a bait & switch or an appointment that is going down hill for whatever reason, sooooooooooooooooooooooo how do you finally get smart enough to follow the right head?  

I definitely do not think any man should feel obligated to pay a woman that has deceived him in any way.  

My funniest story was a woman had stolen my pictures years ago.  
When I contacted her to tell her to take down my pictures she was very apologetic- not the reaction I was expecting- but she did quickly remove them. I gave her the name of my photographer and told her to book with him.  

So a week or so later I was discussing what had happened and who the girl was with a client--- he was cracking up telling me do you know she is not even white??????? Sure enough I googled her and she was very dark skin. I sat there thinking WTF.... I emailed her and asked her how the hell did she think she was going to pull that off when a client arrived expecting to see a white girl??? She really did not have an answer and I still just can't believe some of the crazy shit girls pull on innocent men just trying to take a break.

I do see a lot of newbies and so I hear a lot of newbie horror stories. To me it would be easy to just say hell no, but I am not a guy so I guess I just do not understand how the other head could possibly throw common sense out the window.
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and not everyone is a Mensa member, as your story so vividly shows.

It's great the we have TER so that newbies have some chance of learning the easy way.  Back when I started is was all live and learn

To some of us it is like a buffet.  We pick the next one out of an assortment of many.  So when we get there and it a different version -- well we weren't necessarily highly committed to the first one -- so what the heck.

Of course some guys have very specific requirements and would be the ones most likely to walk away

It pritty easly with a bait and switch simple the gril in photo was a turn on whe one in real life is a turn off. But there are scams let face a guy may not get away if he believe to have 500 plus dollars on him. More street smarts the better. I always tell I will get her ss then If she good after a few dates I may upgrade. If you don't use the head on top the the head on bottom not happy.

So true. TER is an excellent guide if you do your research and read reviews.

Trust me- we women can make some very questionable decisions following around our little little head. I know this because I have done it more times then I care to remember!

Some guys here give up highly personal info i.e. real name, home city, employer info, etc so when they walk into a bad situation, they go through with it not bc the little head wins, but bc the big one did.

They are worried they could be outed bc of the "crazy shit girls pull on innocent men" and their lives would be ruined. They go through with the session to avoid a potentially life altering retaliation from a BSC girl.

Some things are not as they initially appear.

the number of things I learned the hard way when starting out.  I didn't find TER until about nine months in, so those first months were one disaster after another.  

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Only once has it happened. Funny story. The first woman I ever banged in p4p was a gorgeous Latina from Craigslist. Just a smoking hot body and beautiful face. Classic. She rocked my world several times. After that I was hobby hooked. Well, she falls of the radar and reappears about a year later.  

We arrange to meet and she shows up quite a bit heavier. Not fat fat but way heavier. Her face changed a bit too. After a decent fuck I asked her what was going on. She confessed that she was the fat sister. Maria had retired. Never saw either again.

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I just thought she put on a few lbs in her absence ... once things heated up ... pop goes the diesel!

I would have even considered getting into the hobby if not for TER and the impeccable guidance and reassurance it provides.  Period.

Cognitive dissonance

In psychology, cognitive dissonance is the mental stress or discomfort experienced by an individual who holds two or more contradictory beliefs, ideas, or values at the same time, performs an action that is contradictory to one or more beliefs, ideas or values, or is confronted by new information that conflicts with existing beliefs, ideas, or values.

We are on one path and resolve ourselves not to be manipulated.  Then there is an overload of oxygen to BOTH heads and a rush of hormones (male/female) throughout our system, that affects us physiologically and psychologically.  Then it happens, we fail to rely on our better judgement.

Whether they understand this intellectually or not, the bait and switch crew realize the opportunity to successfully pull off this deception more times than not.

now I have confirmation from a woman! Thanks, Lopaw!

It has only happened twice and both where upsell situations. I just put my flip floppers back on and walked out. The main ingredient and I know this is redundant is research. Never see the unreviewed doesn't matter where you find their add from BP to P411. No reviews equals no contact. It's reall that easy.