They evaluate our initial contact, check references, sometimes read our reviews, then start to form and idea of what they think our "date" will be like.
The anticipation grows...as they carefully choose their outfit...put on music...perhaps light some candles...get that text that we have arrived...and wait, anxiously, in those emotionally charged, almost electric, moments right before the door opens and they see....





US! In all our glory!! Their every dream fulfilled!

D'uh

I found that gem off BP. A "diamond in the rough". She's not like the rest, though. Special.
The $257 was for the time...AND a tip.

I'm a baller....yo

As guys we have access to your reviews and websites with your photos, measurements, etc.
When I respond to a lady's post I already have a mental image of what she looks like because I've looked at her website (even if the face is blurred there is so much there about her looks and personality)
Assuming we have never met in person - do you ladies ever imagine what we look like just from interacting with us on the board and by PM?
Do you automatically picture us as old, fat, and bald? Or do you picture us as young strapping studs just waiting to rock your world?
LOL!!!

Imagine us to be Greek Gods, and masturbate to our reviews whenever they are not fucking or sucking...

-- Modified on 2/4/2013 9:17:03 PM

Next newb question!

Ever been to a M&G?  You realize why most of these guys have to hobby.   LOL

Got a problem with that?

Maybe the glasses are the problem?

$ 257  ??????

WTF is that all about?

Sorry...I forgot that the other $ 43 paid for the rubbers and some cheap wine.  Smart move...I take it back  

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Guys can post a pic on their P411 profile.  Or she can check with gals you've seen and at least get a general description.  Also a genital description.

....maybe a tiny bit above avg. looking .... since usually that's what I get (roughly say 70% of the time). I'm usually surprised (use that lightly) if he's way under 40 (or way over 63-ish)  or "of color" (especially black and no I do NOT have an NBA policy lol) or smokin' hot or any combo of these.

The biz don't see anyone without enough sense to find some Rogaine! lol

It would be interesting to know what the people on the other side of the screen look like.  I have a picture in my mind but would guess that I am wrong.  At least based on some of the comments I have read.  

Is that roll between his legs his scrotum?

Now you can just rock me to sleep tonight....

That's what I imagine they look like.  Interesting to know it's correct - at least 70% of the time.  Based on the comments here I assumed they were obese.

-- Modified on 2/4/2013 5:40:20 PM

Please don't be hot. Please don't be hot.
I'm a bit shy enough as it is!  Hehe.

between a guy's board persona, and how he actually looks. I thought our precious macdaddy would be a young, black dude and he was a 60 something white guy lol. I thought ChgoCPA would be some buffed up maniac, and he reminded me of "Danny" from Full House bwahhahaa.

-- Modified on 2/5/2013 2:32:16 PM

Danny, as played by Bob Saget.  Hell, I always assumed CPA was fat and bald.  I guess this is an improvement?

Yea, he said the same thing ha ha. I totally missed that!

The roasters were fucking brutal on Saget...although I think for a good reason.

Yep...he's a "Professional Hobbyist"  

But I think he's a tad partial to the young 'uns and fraternal twin types!

It's a good thing you haven't met me yet.
The illusion is probably much better!

Hawaiian dude lol.

Good! Because at least then you'll be pleasantly surprised instead of disapointed!

Some will ask your provider references for a general description.

i always find it to be an interesting experience when you finally are able to get to put a face to the name.  there are times when you are in chat or you have talked on the phone giving you a little more insight but when you are finally able to meet in person you are able to put the look with the image you had already perceived from your prior conversations.

You want our personal information, but we don't get yours.  That's the biggest difference.

I'm not saying you shouldn't ask for a pic, but honestly...the expectation that things should be equal is for the birds.

Yes.  But did you ever see Saget's bit on the amazing "The Aristocrats?"

unattractive & unhappy w/ life and that they may be obese as well but I never really concern myself with or wonder what board posters look like.

but I always wonder what clients who contact me for a date look like. Fortunately, most times they're handsome at least to me. 40's to 60's, healthy weight (like to play tennis, golf and stay active), mostly white (some others too tho) and cute to me. guess I'm lucky or something.

She said it's nice to know what someone looks like but doesn't require it, which is completely different from requiring screening to be safe.

It's just an extra cherry on the top and if a lady wants to request it as OPTIONAL, there's nothing wrong with that expectation of knowing who will arrive to her door.

Pay attention.

Here is what she said IN CONTEXT:

"why do you think I ask for a pic? not required, but nice to get a visual as to who im speaking with, nothing more after a 'connection' has been established. Jesus, you're not being judged, it's just a nice gesture on the gentleman's part #1 for the ladies comfort and #2 just puts you both on the same playing field...so far i've had no problem with that fact even tho you all think its a retarded request..............again, why we shall NEVER meet lol"

If she is gonna mention a level playing field, then I am going to point out that it's not EVEN CLOSE to one.

her feel comfortable and makes her feel like she's on the same paying field with who she will meet.

Again, she's not saying it's required, but optional and if a guy does it, it makes her feel like she's on the same level field AS FAR AS KNOWING WHAT YOUR STRANGER SEX PARTNER WILL LOOK LIKE,  and nothing else.

That is my understanding. If I'm wrong, she can correct me.

I'm just saying that she mentioned "level playing field."  These were her EXACT WORDS.

So if you are gonna talk about that, I would then ask if she is comfortable giving her real info.  You know...so we are on a "level playing field."

Of course, it's purely OPTIONAL...

There are certain things that are just accepted as protocol here.  I pay the money, and she offers the sex.  She gets my personal info, but in exchange for that, I get an idea of what she looks like, while she has no idea what I look like.

If you start offsetting this in one party's favor, there has to be compensation the other way, so to speak.

I know I'm an average looking guy and about 40 lbs overweight on a 5-11 frame.  That's why one of the nicest things a provider did for me was the look of recognition on her face followed by a smile when she opened to door to me on a repeat visit, over a year removed from the first.   It could have been faked, but I don't think so in this case.

Biz model.
Ex. For me, since I have a real life job, I can be choosy. I can see several men in a month or none. If I wanted to I could see only men i'm attracted to. Which is pretty much what I do. So for a lady who doesn't have to follow some rule, she can ask for whatever likes to make her feel ok w/ having sex w/ a man and he can choose to send that info or not.