Has anyone here been a member of adultfriendfinder.com?  Is it a legitimate sex-dating site or another scam?  I have been a gold member for a week and have not received any responses to my emails and flirts.  The only emails or flirts I am getting are from members who live far away and whom I have no chance of meeting.

you're much better off here for P4P... and match.com, if you're looking for a civvie girlfriend.

good luck!

Tabu of S FL

I have had good luck.  Both civies and very attractive providers. Yes they want dick pictures.

Geez,someone posts a simple question on the board expecting a half-way serious answer and gets the ridicule instead.Pardon the 'morally superior' sarcasm for which I don't have due to being aware this is a fuck board,but I would like to offer a straight answer.I know a co-worker who a couple of yrs ago became a member and found it was a total bust.There was an overwhelming number of males as members compared to females and getting a response was a joke.He did get one but it was an escort in Texas offering her services NOT for free,of course.He said there are many profiles either fake or not active and may get spammed!To top it off,he had troubles cancelling his membership when they kept rebilling him.He did joke that if you give being gay or bi a chance,then you'll definitely get responses. LOL Sorry to hear what you're going through,but at least I won't bore you with the 'get a life' sarcasm.

8"+ dick and look at least as good as Bradley Cooper, you've wasted your money.

connected with several women on the site, wish I hadn't!  Gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross, gross.

Oh, did I mention the fact that the women I met were gross?

I met two women on atf. Hooked up with one and had fun at the time, but felt gross after.

The second woman I met was married. She was sweet, but told me she was having an affair because her husband was impotent. I felt bad and told her I did not want anything to do with the situation.

There were only a few other women who were interested in meeting and I had no interest in meeting them.
Also, alll the dudes talk about their 8+ johnsons, I can't compete there...

EHarmony is a great site to meet women, I was matched up with many teachers and they were sweethearts... and they are not prudes, either.  

My friend is on Match and has slept with three women since the fall. And we are just regular dudes, not players at all.

So, stay away from AFF, it is not worth the money, unless you are into honey boo-boo's mom, with no teeth.

KingBuffet

Thanks for all your replies.  It is what I suspected, a waste of time.  I have already canceled my membership.

if you are under 30 you would have a better chance of success. I am over 50 have joined for three months, then joined again a year or two later and see the same user names on line. So I am not sure what they are looking for. Also the male/female ratio is over 5 to 1 some the women can be fussy.

It's an attempt to separate you from your money.  The replies you get are probably bogus, from AFF themselves to keep you interested.

I stopped using AFF years ago. I got a lot of BS from that site, and decided that it wasn't worth using anymore.

and more like 7+" and I actually do resemble Bradley Cooper, does that mean I have not wasted my money. Regardless I know for a fact I have NOT wasted my money.

but you say you are 7+.  That doesn't compute based on her size limitations.

never went all the way in and I'm not a pound and ground fuck. Read what she says and you will have your own answers on her. She ia a great girl