Use an alias if you need to.  Give us the inside scoop.  How can we improve?

When I asked her what she likes. She said "treat my clit like a butterfly you're trying to catch"

But what I can tell you is that many guys do it too rough, too soon. I have never had a bad experience with a woman, so that should tell you something. Maybe you should watch some g/g DATY-focused porn to get an idea of what to do and what not to do.

Better to save this question for just before you actually do it. Reason being the answer will be perfectly tailored to the victim eh I mean target of your oral.

and I have no idea if you one of the guys or a porn star (alias),
do you like the butterfly, the flick or .... and no, I won't be jerking  
off to your answer. I have a good pussy licking video I star in ...lo

...I slowly lick up with a flat gentle tongue while staring into your eyes, ending with a sensual kiss on the pussy lips....before going speedy gonzales with the tongue?

should go back to the newbie board or attend a class at JDU.  

...Truth is I've forgotten more about DATY than most guys will ever learn. And I'm more than happy to help those who ask. But no in person demos!

I gave her a hard time not all that long ago for reminded us with every post that she is both a she and an avid whoremonger, excuse me "whoremongress" maybe I was wrong and she NEEDs to remind the board with every post because its' apparent that some of you didn't get the memo

surprised anyone would think I did. But ... I'm over it.

I'll explain this is in simple English and make every attempt to use proper grammar.... I KNOW LOPAW ... not personally tho(ough). Gotta make that clear too. My comment was tongue in cheek.  

From my experience, some women love just the tip, with very light pressure. Some like more pressure and the whole tongue.  Some don't want fingers inside while others love it, even demand it.  And some love tongue-fucking.  Dislike for beards and moustaches I can understand.  As for eye contact... well I'll try, but frankly the angles just don't work a lot of the time.  

Her tits are too small.

Exactly.
Personally I hate the tip and I also don't like eye contact. It creeps me out. Just goes to show how everybody is very different.

Who would not want to read --or have her partner read-- a hand book of DATY technique written by someone  like you.  I know everyone is different, but as a non golfer I understand no two holes (absolutely no pun intended) are alike yet there are instruction books on golf.
I have read your posts and I would certainly respect your instructions on DATY with tips on how to begin to understand your partners tastes (still no pun) and how to work towards what will make her happiest.  
I have read She Comes First, a book on DATY written by a man,  but how much more valuable would a brief monograph written by an experienced and intelligent woman.  
The adult world is made up by millions of people who either want to learn or who want her partner to learn.  

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Lmao that was funny and spot on

I always use very soft, gentle flicks or strokes of the tongue to start with.  All women are different so you can't really generalize...but at the risk of speaking generally...many women can't take much pressure until they are extremely aroused.  So I like to go slowly...softly...and intermix kissing of the lips...upper inner thighs, etc.   I try and make it a slow build up for her.

Yes, SUCK MY PUSSY. Omg PLEASE SUCK IT.

I am a 34B.. A flat chested B cup. I still dont understand how that worked out, but it did.

34B is the perfect size.  I much prefer small breasts that are proportionate to the woman's size.

It seems that the tiny tittied are the first to rail against a tiny titty joke.

make a big tit joke, the girls with the humongous knockers laugh the loudest, but not so with the more modest-titted girls with the small tit jokes.

I grab your head and push it toward the clam. But when I press on your forehead, that means go back to being a feather. If I tug the back of your ears or hair, that means a little more pressure, but don't go nuts.

but I still used it lol!

You had best have a base methodology, then adapt as things unfold.

I simply thought that your post was a good example of how every woman is different relative to the topic of this thread. You have your preferences and stated them.  I mentioned some examples from my experience and commented on yours.