Are the majority of guys under 30 assholes?

Perhaps because the guys above 30 tend to be less picky!!!?

Hope I didn't alienated the providers who indeed follow this policy!

RELIABILITY. When a younger guy has all the time in the world to goof off, when he "knows" everything, when he is out to prove that his time and his needs are more important than treating the provider like he wants to be treated, it can make life pretty miserable for a girl, who is expected to give all.  All too common. Now, perhaps you are not that way, but the girl needs to feel comfortable to make that choice.

BEHAVIOR. Except for the foulest of men no matter the age (and I've met them), usually after 35 most men are entrenched in business, have families, or something where they have something to lose; and they've learned by then that to get what they want, they need to behave courteously.  It's just a law of good business, or just good human relations.  The bullies are NOT going to make points with the ladies! No matter what age, or $$$! They are the ones who remain clueless as to why provider after provider will not warm up to them.  they then write the nasty reviews. Now perhaps you are not that way , but the girl needs to feel comfortable to make that choice.


Now I have met guys, age 24, 26, 27 who are exceptions and I pray they will never change.  But who knows, through the journey they might just meet some selfserving bitch who will sour them.  Now perhaps you are not that way, and we can only hope.

Does that answer your question?



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Guys under 30 are classless asshole who would just pound away at a girl for no reason other than they havent come yet.
Guys over 30 would have the forsight and experience to think...
maybe I should use some lube.

just an educated opinion

HLH

...is that many, not all, men under 30 are less respectful, just pound away with disregard for the lady, and are not yet grounded enough in their lives to understand, for lack of a better term, the politics of provider dating.

Older guys, for the most part, are more grounded and stable.  They generally are more gentlemanly, and tend to treat their dates more kindly and with more respect.  They're also, in general, more affluent.

Now there are certainly many exceptions to this statement, so all you youngun's out there, please don't flame me.  There are lots of younger guys that I hear are perfect gentlemen.

But providers play with the percentages the same way we hobbyists do.  For example, if BBBJ is a requirement for a date, you're not going to call a provider whose profile indicates CBJ and hope she treats you differently.  You're gonna go with more of a sure thing and select a provider you know will do this.  Well, providers have the same situation in reverse.  They may feel that the chances of them meeting a guy who is more grounded and gentlemanly, that won't pound her pu**y in chopped sirloin, but treat her right, is in that 35+ year old guy.

My opinion is that providers certainly are within their rights to see whomever they chose for any reason.  And many of them have an age restriction, probably more than they would have, say, a race restriction.

Just my .02.  Comments, as always are welcome.

F.

I think the biggest problem is that guy's under 30 have not become "Gentle"men yet.

They haven't had enough experince yet to understand the tenderness we ladies enjoy.

They are also still into the wam-bam-thank-you-mam sex, which is not what we are looking for.

One other thing is that at a younger age you are more likely to be LE.

Also your no-show rate is very high.

Just my thoughts.

Hugs,

Tammy

However, I'd have to be honest and say that guys under 30 are more likely to cancel appointments at the last minute.

Now here is the CynicalMan influence, LOL:  men above 30 are usually more established in their careers, more financially successful, which leads to a better chance of them being regulars and better tippers.

Same reason some of us like to see moms in late 20s or older.

They are more likely:

Discreet, reliable and safe.

Same reason some of us like to see moms in late 20s or older.

They are more likely:

Discreet, reliable and safe.

one gal told me that once in a blue moon (emphasis on blue) she just needed a thunderous mother-of-all-f**ks and for that she had a nice young 20-something "buck" stashed away that she would summon at her beck and booty call (he still had to pay, of course

goes to show you, exceptions prove the rule.

sincerely,
Buck Singleton, 35+, younger in spirit (and maturity)

And that they are ding us a favor by seeing us" My response used to be simple and true: The men I see don't "HAVE TO" pay for it-they "CHOOSE" to...for whatever reason that is motivating them and many many times it has nOTHIg to do withs ex, but some other need...

never "thrust" a guy under 30!

Thanks everyone. Nice reading all the different opinions.  I'm fairly new to this hobby, so I was just curious.  I do agree with a lot of the things said.  By the way, I happen to be over 30.

I don't have to pay for it, I choose to because it is the safest way to go. Why do I want to seduce some girl and have her make my life miserable.

JAMMER

Some of the posts treaded near this but no one came right out and said it.  Perhaps it actually comes down to performance.

An 18 year-old single stud may require much strenuous more work than a middle-aged, married, less than gorgeous man.  This won't be true for everyone but let's see a show of hands of those of us 35+ who used to fuck like rabbits seemingly forever when we were young. We could get IT practically whenever and however we needed it. Today we're begging for the once-a-month blowjob from the mrs. We can't run a mile without getting winded and we're so tuned up with the stress of work, bills, kids etc... that relaxation is a foreign word.  Now a pretty girl appears. You can justify the expense somehow. (maybe jewelry and a date with your wife would cost as much and not be a guaranteed payoff) You think to yourself - I am gonna fuck her six ways from Sunday. But alas, you're out of practice. Your body is all haywire. She drops to her knees and you can barely hold out long enough for her to breathe on Mr. Happy. Then bammo! Think I'm way off? Check the hundreds of reviews in here from older men who got one shot in a session AND WERE HAPPY!

Now compare that to your youth. If you had your girlfriend back in the dorm room and you knew you had an hour before your roomie came back - you would have banged her for 30 minutes - ordered pizza - went back to workin' it and timed the money shot for the poor bastard from Dominoes to walk in on.

Now put yourself in a provider's shoes. You have to sleep with as many people as your psyche will allow before your body betrays you and demand diminishes. You don't love any of them and probably wouldn't like most of them. Your body and soul can only take so much phsyical abuse. Wouldn't you pick the over-appreciative 45 year old who can't remember the last time his wife said "fuck me now" rather than the young stud who will make you bowl-legged by morning? Heck you might get lucky - the old fart might come in your hands and be done for the night !

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Takes a lot more to get you going so it make take the whole hour to finish whereas some of these youngsters can get 3-4 cups in the same time.
To paraphrase instead of running down the hill to 3-4cups, I find myself stumbling down the hill to one, maybe

and ortho's point factors in as well: do they really like them 30+ because it's "less" work (meaning possibly one pop, as prolonged as it may be) or that Mr. Jack-Hammer ~25 guy is not only tiring but more likely to skip foreplay or be boorish

btw, is it SIX ways FROM sunday  or  NINE ways TO sunday ?? i've always used the latter, wonder if there's one standard form.

sorry--anonymizer problem.

You're excused

I know manyladies do prefer men over 30.  You could likely come up with a list a mile long why.  

Personally, I take each client over 21 case by case.  I don't see under 21 because that is just too young for me to be comfortable personally.  

I have on many occasions entertained younger clients between 21-30 years old.  They are often frustrated that many ladies say they have to be over  30.   If a man of any legal age is polite, mature, and respectful I welcome an opportuntiy to get to know him as an individual.  

Some of my nicest most interesting clients are younger men in their twenties that like women in their early 30s.  I think it is a huge turn on for a twenty something to let me be his Mrs. Robinson!  

Sabra

I have had a few clients under 30 and they were all great guys, but in general, I prefer men over 30 not because of less work, but, as has been reflected in other posts, they are more reliable, financially stable(my donation doesn't put a hurting on their wallets) and, ...a reason a little different from others, but I am young and date men in my personal life who are in the 22-30 range and mentally, I have a hard time sometimes making a distinction between the two...

I'm just finishing up with college in the States(headed to Europe soon) and being intimate with young clients is sometimes like being intimate with a classmate mentally(which isn't, of course totally a bad thing!).Once I've been reassured that the younger client wasn't LE(which is another concern) and was reliable...it's great!  

One last thing..older men in my experience have been more appreciative of the "youth" of my body/appearance and my exotic features and such close contact with them..as opposed to younger guys who may have more access to such qualities with similar young women  in  their work/nightclub/university environments.

-Naomi Madrid