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LongBall 3447 reads
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Recently I ran accross an unflattering review of a lady (B) I've seen off and on for 7+ years (obviously, I like her).  In addition to being attracted to her physical appearance and age, I particularly like the fact that *B* is smart and in control of her situation.  I have had conversations with her that have allowed me to see certain limited aspects of her business and personal lives and to come away with what I believe to be a balanced perspective of her personality.  Sharp lady!

So what do you do as a hobbiest when a provider you like is unfairly reviewed by another hobbiest (whose posts have a history of being unflattering, no less)?  She is not extensively reviewed - a consequence of *her* concern for privacy and security I assume.  I am concerned that this "off the wall" review will harm her financially and potentially cause her to leave the area (actually, I just found her after years of looking for her - after she left the area once before).  This "Sausagehead" criticized her age (which he got wrong by 7-10 years), her appearance (which is top shelf) and her attitude (which centers on client's satisfaction) all because *he* violated some of her rules of contact and potentially caused her embarrasment and/or trouble - to which she apparantly reacted accordingly.

My dilemma is this - should I post what would (obviously) be a strongly favorable review despite her apparant dislike of reviews in order to "balance out" the bad review, or do I let an inaccurate review potentially chase her away (again)?

Ladies, I am particulary interested in your opinions.

LB

Knowledg_IS_Power 3161 reads
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This post got buried fast.

Ask her if she would like you to post an honest review.

If there are outright lies in the review let staff know by submitting a problem report and be specific. There are certain things that are just a matter of opinion and you must take that into consideration.

LongBall 4212 reads
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LOL!

You are exactly right - it was buried until I complained.  In fact I was warned of having more than a "client/provider relationship".  For the record - I do not.

LB

SexyCurvesDC 3005 reads
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She's the one to make this decision, not us!

And I agree with KIP... if a review is full of outright lies, she can file a problem report and discuss it with Staff.  

Hugs*
Nicole

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