Something I've mused about:

The clients are provided reviews, websites, photos, bulletin board comments, and backchannel communication...all of which they may use to make a choice.  Sure, photos may not be exact, but we've got a generally decent idea of what to expect.

What about "the flip side of the coin"?  I've wondered what it must be like for a provider who's seeing a new client for the first time. What thoughts go through her head? What are her concerns/anxieties?  ("Geez, I hope *this* one used mouthwash"?)

What would life be like if providers asked for a photo of a client before agreeing to see him?

What if providers rated clients on a 1-10 scale?
What would be required of clients to score above a 7?
("Removes toupee before DATY"?)
What attributes would providers find important enough to regularly mention? ("Clean fingernails"? "Showers"?)



-- Modified on 12/30/2003 6:11:01 PM

I think then they would be paying us....

I'd be on a plane to California tonight.

But now that you've got me worried, I've made an appt. with my ATF for 11:46 a.m. tomorrow...just in case...


-- Modified on 12/30/2003 7:05:19 PM

-- Modified on 12/30/2003 7:09:33 PM

BRING IT ON!  LOL

Mel

This already happens to some degree. They too, have the tools of "ladies only" forums, and back channeling. I even had one ask for a faxed or emailed picture with my photo ID as her screening. This is  especially true when it comes to giving screening references for each other.  I know some gossip between a couple of local ladies has occurred behind my back. What came to mind for me is when a provider asked for a reference and then at our first meeting knew exactly what activitites I would enjoy along with other aspects of my personal/professional life. Things that only my ATF would know, and of course you can figure out who the reference was.

But that aside, an interesting point nonetheless, I am amazed that these ladies put aside their feelings and serve clients they would rather not be with.
best regards, mr.man

Pandering there, aren't you, Mel?

And I suppose this reply amounts to CONSPIRACY to commit pandering...

I won't quit my day job just yet, but I wouldn't miss a chance to be paid and reviewed.  

Note:  I plan to be easy, but NOT CHEAP!

Or is it: cheap, but not easy?  

I'll decide later.  I've got to work on my webpage!

-- Modified on 12/31/2003 2:48:01 AM

You don't even have to pay me!

DR

I'm sure that the ladies share information on clients.  I actually would expect them to.

Security issues, hygiene (I still can't believe that some guys just don't get it) and if he is a nice guy are all things I would want to know.

I have encouraged providers to share about me. Even to the point of asking for refrences to another provider. I'm not worried, I  usually get invited back.But then I really like women and having FUN with them.

Ahhh, but I would love to pay you, just for the excitement of it

Cum to Boston, and I will set something up, where you will come to me, and I will give you a fee But, I would need that guaranteeeeee, that I can review you

Mel