Almost always. Why invest good money on a woman with numerous believable reviews. I sometimes check the reviewers and see if bad reviews are their pattern.
Reviews are everywhere, but I’m curious how often they genuinely change someone’s decision. A lot of people say they read them “just in case,” while already knowing who they’re going to book.
Some seem to trust detailed, balanced reviews that mention atmosphere, communication, or small moments. Others ignore glowing praise and focus on the one comment that feels slightly off. A few say reviews matter most when they’re unsure or booking someone new.
It also feels like reviews influence expectations as much as choices. Going in with a certain image in mind can shape how the whole experience is perceived, for better or worse.
So I’m interested to hear from others:
When did a review actually make you change your mind either booking someone you weren’t sure about, or avoiding a booking altogether?
Almost always. I'm particular in what I'm looking for in a lady and I'll usually find out through reviews what she offers or likes to do. 😘😘
Im always making my appointments based solely on reviews.
If their allowed activities (kissing, bbbj) don’t match my desires, will pass. I also check the reviews to make sure they’re not fatter than advertised, though some reviewers are very generous on rating looks.
These days I either get a recommendation from a monger friend (basically a word of mouth review that isn't public) or read public reviews to get the ball rolling.
The only exception being spur of the moment decisions when it's late, availability is limited and I'm super horny. Then I might have to choose only from a very limited selection and then read reviews if I haven't already. Still Id attempt to read the reviews.
I don't trust any ad pics, and with me being a service enjoyer pics aren't that relevant anyway for me.
So yeah, extremely relevant. A review from a trusted monger who doesn't exaggerate is worth a thousand of words in ads, hundreds of glammed up pics, etc
She's much heavier, older...
She didn't allow...
...was an extra cost...
When Did Reviews Actually Influence Your Choice?
Always.
There's really no other way to know who's real and who is a ripoff/LE. And to know whose pictures are *ahem* outdated.
Who wrote the review matters; the reviewer's other reviews (how long have they been reviewing? plausible locations?) are how you know if the *reviewer* is real.
For the record I always completely ignore each lady's one worst review. And for every ten reviews she has, I ignore one more of the worst. Like in high school, when the teacher would drop your worst test score before assigning your final grade.
Pics get me to look while reviews get me to book!
Almost always. Why invest good money on a woman with numerous believable reviews. I sometimes check the reviewers and see if bad reviews are their pattern.
1. No reviews on TER = hard pass
2. TER reviews that don’t jibe with what I’m looking for in exchange for my $$$ = hard pass
…and…no P411 is also a hard pass
I get why some providers have a no review policy. Fine. But to me, in general, if a provider offers good customer service and is polite & friendly, as well as being on top of their game regarding communications, in other words being professional, they’re doing themselves a disservice by not wanting reviews on TER. This site is such a resource; I’ll never TOFTT and can’t imagine booking an appointment without making sure a provider has reviews that align with what I’m looking for in an appointment. I’ve seen dozens of providers from TER and I’ve only had a really bad session and that was due to her showing up completely drunk/high…I guess the law of averages crept up with me a bit. However, how many horrible sessions, along with wasted time and money, did I avoid by not doing my homework? A hell of a lot more than that one bad experience- and yes I gave her an appropriate review along with all the others getting glowing reviews.
When I see a bad review I will probably pass. Too many choices in Vegas. I just move in to the next one with only good reviews. On the other hand. If she has a lot of great reviews and one bad one I will probably try her out. But maybe not until she is the last option
...i mostly just ensure they exist and are legit, meaning they are from a bunch of veteran hobbyists.
Very little written in them at times is useful to me....I am not interested in how big your schong is or how hard you made her cum with your tongue.
Reviews drive most of my choices - in fact if there are no reviews on a provider I find online than I have rarely ever booked them if they're not on TER. I've found most of my fellow mongers do write pretty accurate reviews, however I always read a few of the best, medium and worst reviews for a provider and try to average out what the "reality" might be - I've rarely been disappointed. Everyone has different types/turn-ons so I understand that what may be a 9 rating for one might only be a 7 for someone else either because of looks/performance and/or the experience - so detail is always important. The other thing I check is to see who my fellow mongers in my area have been with, I find many of them have also been with the same women I have had in past and I'll compare what they've rated these girls vs. what I rated - I find if we're rating more/less the same than I can trust their reviews are even more in line with what I'm looking for. The more details on face/body the better, I'm an assman and for whatever reasons most reviewers seem to neglect this - I get most guys want big tits, I like them too, but I'll take an A cup with a great ass and pretty face over a DD cup with a flat ass. I wish TER would actually list this as a body attribute along with weight in their profile questions of the provider.
Outside of reviews, the only thing a client has to go on is the information that is curated and set out by the provider - it is just advertising. I would love that truth in advertising was the norm, but we all know it is not.
I will always consider reviews heavily in making decisions, as they represent independent opinion about the provider and what to expect - by their very nature they are not curated. I do not need all of the graphic detail in reviews (and depart from TER doctrine on this) but having an overall sense of whether we would align well on services and vibe well together is very important to me.
with a provider is in some ways unique, I don't use reviews to select providers, I use reviews to screen OUT the ones that I don't think are a good fit (no pun intended) for me. I'm willing to take a chance on providers who may not great reviews, but offer solid service and a menu of activities that I like. For example, I prefer GFE-only providers, so those offering BBFS are an automatic pass for me and therefore screen themselves out of consideration.
This is very similar to how I would use reviews for screening. For example, if a potential client consistently wrote about rough PSE style activities, bbfs, and/or a disrespectful attitude, I would pass on seeing them. This style of session might work for some girls, but it does not for me, and we would both be miserable, which is not fair to either party.
I read the fantasy reviews to see if we maybe compatible.
I usually wait until a new provider has sufficient reviews that I can throw out the fakes and get a good idea of what to expect. It could be only a few reviews from trusted mongers or a few more if I don’t see a few reviews that sound legitimate. I may also eliminate a girl from consideration if more than one review raises similar red flags. I rely pretty heavily on TER to make the go/no-go decision, so if a provider is not reviewed here, my odds of seeing her drop considerably.
With Tryst and a few other sights being totally worthless and full of scammers I am happy to pay for TER VIP as I have for years. For me its about the time and opportunity to meet a great girl. There is nothing worse than blowing a block of free time for some provider who is not what she claims to be. TER is the best for the eastern USA, as you move into the central US and west other pages are better. I hope TER can gain market share in other areas. Ter reviews are the best indication of who you are going to meet
Whenever multiple reviews state bbfs is available, she goes on my tdl.
Nothing ruins a review more than " she teached for the cover " or "suited me up."
Ugh. Buzz kill.
Why would this bother you?
Nothing ruins a review more than " she teached for the cover " or "suited me up."
Ugh. Buzz kill.
"I rarely have been turned down for bbfs.
Tbh, most women prefer bbfs.
Condoms/lube cause stinky pussies.
So why do some escorts act crazy of a guy requests bbfs?
We all know they ard all doing it. Denying it just looks bad."
So perhaps the reviewer wasn't being honest. Or maybe he wanted the rubber despite the Provider's preference. With your track record and your knowledge of how many Providers offer it, this shouldn't be a "buzz kill" or a hindrance.
I don't care about the sex part, since I can't relate to it. What I really want to know is if for her incall is if she was ready on time, is she in an area that is fairly easy to find, is parking available, if the session was at her hotel do you need a keycard for the elevator, etc. Pretty mundane details that will make my visit less stressful if I know them in advance. Just the facts, ma'am 😜
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I have to take a majority of reviews with a grain of salt, mainly because of the way they are written, and because of things that are excluded from the review.
However, out of several examples, I can cite one clear instance of a review that really convinced me to see the woman.
She was someone I had been with a few times before and we always had a very good time, the sex is really hot. When TER showed she had a new review, I was glad to see that another client was writing about a woman I already knew about so I wanted to see what his perspective might tell me.
One thing included in his review was a sex act that she had never done with me, and I didn't know was available with her. He wrote that she had swallowed his entire load. Not only didn't I know that she swallowed, I didn't even know she did C.I.M.
So the next time I was with her, I asked her if she would do it, and she said she loved doing it and that yes she'd do it with me. She told me she had never done it with me before because I had not asked for it nor told her I was into it, so she assumed that it wasn't something I wanted.
Sure enough, when the moment arrived, she swallow my load enthusiastically. It was really sexy.
Lesson learned: seek and ye shall find, if you don't know, ask.