Do providers truly enjoy DATy
or it's just part of the act ?

key to knowing if the response is real is to read the body. Easy to fake the moaning, breathing and squirming. Hard to fake the swelling, blushing, and lubricating (but be aware of pre-applied lubricant that can trick you into thinking "she got so wet"). In other words, be with more women, pay attention, and learn what you're doing.

I hope that providers can help
me on this, being a newbie and all.

Some providers enjoy and almost insist upon daty. Some act. Some forbid. My ex fell asleep once, and started snoring during daty, but she was smiling and woke up howling! It seems to be an involuntary muscle spasm, boinnnggg. LOL
When there is good sexual chemistry with a provider, she may love daty and instruct you in the details she enjoys most.
Some like variable 3-speed tongue on the clit with multidirectional moist motion. Some like it soft. Some like you to close your mouth over the clit, pull it out a bit, build up slowly, and then lick wet and furiously. You may need a ladder to retrieve them from your ceiling. Neighbors often beat on the walls when such vixens get carried away.
The handful of providers who've declined payment and "comp-ed" me did so because of marathon daty and nice French restaurants, although not in that order. That lasts for at most ten dates, after which you start looking like an ATM with a schlong again, and you may be ready to move on as well, if not sooner.
The comic Sam Kennison said to do daty with slow wet tongue motions replicating the alphabet. Do an A, B, and then C to Z, AA, BB, etc.
You can do numbers also 1, 2, 3. Some are tongue twisters, i e, 666. LOL
Try fractions for something different. 3/4 works well.
Too bad Sam was smashed by a truck outside of Las Vegas.
He was spreading the gospel of daty.
FWIW most vixens like you to work up to daty slowly, with licking of the breasts, tummy, inner thighs, slowing closing in on the clit like a tiger approaching a small mammal for dessert.
Don't dive in right away. Never do that.
Don't do daty as if you were painting a house.
Do daty instead as if you were recreating a Van Gogh masterpiece, with varied brushstrokes, in many different directions. "Irises" in the Getty is a challenging Van Gogh  model for daty. Get a print and hang it near your bed. "Starry Night" by Van Gogh is excellent as well, with the swirling patterns. LOL
There are books and articles here and there, lost in the infamous computer crash of May 3. One is on Amazon.com, the "Oral Kiss."
Another I've heard about is "Tasting the Orchid," in press, written by the late notorious Big Anaconda.
Another, translated from Bulgarian, is "Eating Big Pussy," but it is supposedly a bit crude. LOL.
Actually the Great Commission from Christ to St Paul was: "Go Forth and Do DATY All over the World, in My Name."
The Catholics as usual f**ked that message up in a series of mistranslations - FUBAR. LOL. Somehow the priests twisted it into chasing slow little boys. NLOL.
I've heard that daty was the main reason that Hillary stuck with Bill. He practices on her, and desserts on others. LOL
Darwin would say that selection favors guys who daty well. It enhances the pair-bond and softens a lady up for extensive and repeated fertilizing activity. Ladies certainly prefer good daty-dudes over those who are tongue-tied, or can't even find a clt in the dark. LOL


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Some incredible providers have nicknamed me the "tongue" ..lol the surest way that i have found is when their inner thigh muscles begin to quiver ... you can't fake it ... swollen lips is also another good tale sign .... but feel the quiver and she's yours .... technique vaires ... but most important take your time and enjoy don't rush ....inching your tongue along the inside of her thigh .... rolling and kneading the outer lips not even going near her clit yet .... parting her outer lips from her inner and using her own folds to rub against her clit ... just a few samples....

DATY Techniques
http://www.sexuality.org/l/sex/cunnfaq.html

Advanced DATY Techniques
http://www.sexuality.org/l/incoming/acunn.html

What does DATY mean?
http://theeroticreview.com/info/termsbody.html


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Schlong, Spinner, and Linkmeister have offered some very good advice and references.  I can tell you that I love it when the diner knows what s/he is doing (I do find that women have--to be rather cliched about it--thehome court advantage here).  While there are any number of "techniques" that will make me all a-quiver, I can tell what's just awful (only speaking for myself, of course):

1.  Barreling right toward the clitoris without any leadup.  Fast and furious is good, but if it comes too soon, it's just plain uncomfortable.  You've just got to lead up to it.

2.  Sucking hard on my clitoris hurts.  If had guys leave bruises there because they were sucking on it like they were trying to slurp a thick milkshake up through a straw.  OOOOOOUCH!

3.  Mishandling the piercing.  Oy!  I have two genital piercings, but I took out the vertical hood piercing after being an escort for about a month.  Piercings can really add to pleasure, but not when they're indiscriminately slammed about and tugged hither and yon.  

So, that's my opinion; I'm sure other women have different opinions.

Yall take care.  Bon apetit!

Love,
Anne

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that I do so - even write a book on the technique. She had never had a "o" in this manner - said her boyfriend couldn't wait to just put it in, forget the rest. Until I "came" along. Now she can't wait for me to cum over - she luvs it! It takes sometimes 1/2 hour to an hour with her, sometimes to get her off the 1st time - but when she pops - ohhhhhhhhh - & there is always another, sometimes 3 - By the way guys - shes out there - $$$ talk, the rest walk - Another friend of mine has recently "opened up" - geez - she let me in - after all these years - yikes - I never thought it could get better - it did - I have actually popped while dining on her - after the 5th or 6th "O" I couldn't take it anymore & let loose - she never touched me - it was just such a hot daty session! Previous post - yup - practice it, slow & easy, make em luv it. My buck tonight. Added - someday I am going to curl blonde Ashley & brunette Morgan/Ashley's toes.
Reading their occasional posts - I know blonde Ashley deserves to be treated royally - because of the way she is. Brunette Ashley - geez - just gotta spread those legss a little further apart. Waiting for HB & my schedule to click also. More to cum.......

is a client who became a lover.  He actually knows where a clitoris is --- imagine that!

We were messing araound in his office the other day and I was so hot for him that my legs just opened wide and he used his soft tongue like a finger...the way I would use my own finger when playing with myself...round and round the clitoris keeping it soft yet with some pressure until I "O'd"  I actually Squirted, a LOT, MY FIRST TIME EVERY DOING THAT!  

He should write a book "Female Orgasms for Dummies".  He is absolutely hands-down the most amazing lover in every way.  His tongue should be in the Pussy-Licking God Hall Of Fame.

I also notice that since getting a Brazilian Bikini Wax, the lack of hair has made me extremely sensitive and responsive to oral.  


Talisa

Hey, I've been called "Lube King", "Hoover(the dam) Luber", and "Squirt Master"... You're right about the quivering - can't fake that. Nor can you fake being "wet"... it sometimes gets rather "slippery" down there ... I've found massaging the cliterous lightly after her orgasm gives them the greatest pleasure... YMMV, some females are more sensitive than others, it takes lots of practice.

Quoting from the Schlong:

"I've heard that daty was the main reason that Hillary stuck with Bill. He practices on her, and desserts on others. LOL"

Actually, I recall Playboy quoted Gennifer Flowers:  "He eats pussy like a champ."

Didn't want to out my former client/current lover but now that you have done the honors, I will just say that Yes, Bill Clinton eats Pussy like a Champ!

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