This is my struggle when I decide to spend my hard-to-come-up-with hobby dollar.  Youth vs. Experience.  I have had both and enjoy both.  But both can have their downsides.

Youth:  what is more exciting to any male than a hot, tight, firm athletic body.  Admit it ladies, she is desired and envied by both men and women.  To have that young thing, climbing on top of my cock and see her pretty body bouncing up and down, pony tailed hair bobbing to and fro.  I have also had the joy of the 'what-is-happening-to-me' expression when giving the young thing her first anal experience and taking it slow to help her through.  But the downside is that most are not really into really pleasuring the guy, and many dont know how to pleasure.  And I have to admit that there is a tinge of guilt to corrupt a young girl, more so than a mature provider.  Young hottie's are also more likely to be costly and when you don't have tons of disposable cash, sometimes I just need to get my rocks off, and end up seeing a not beautiful gal who I can afford.  Is 3 visits to a so-so provider, worth the 1 visit to the "10"

Mature women are more comfortable in their bodies, and in my experience know how to pleasure their man.  I also find it very very erotic, when a women enjoys the session herself and older women are less inhibited and are more apt to ask for what they need.  Downside?  Seeing that roll of stomach fat, sagging breasts.  Young or old can be fat, and thats a choice the hobbyest makes.

If I had tons of $, I think I would see many more young girls than old, but not exclusively so.  I love the variety and experience women definately offer pleasure.  As it is, I think I spend more of my escort $ on what I consider less than beautiful girls, cuz I'd rather go 3 times than only once.  But I have to say that the best memories (overall) are the sweet young things.

Wish I had the answer.

Mature providers are more likely to be patient with us old codgers, and experienced enough to help us through the embarrasing times of lost erections.

Sexual attraction happens for me without regard to age.  I've had the pleasure of being with women in their 20's, 30's, 40's and the age of the provider is of no importance to me.  Their physical beauty and sexuality is what does it for me.  If one or the other is missing than I don't enjoy them.

I'm sure this has been talked about a million times before, but here's my 2 cents.

My biggest concern laying out $400+ is about performance.  No matter how hot the girl, if she's lousy in the sack, or lackluster in her attitude, I am going to feel the money is wasted.  If someone wants to point out a young hottie who is also a great performer, I'm all ears.  But my experience has been that a 19 year old who really knows how to play is a rarity.

If a woman is great in bed, that takes me most of the way there.  I am absolutely shallow enough to value looks, but I don't agree that youth always = beauty.  There are plenty of women in their 30s and 40s who are quite beautiful.  

My appreciation for women is pretty broad, too, so I can find a wide range of types attractive.  Probably the only major downer for me is when someone lies about her appearance, and I show up to find a provider who does not meet expectations.  There was a related post about this recently, and all I can say is that providers would be doing everyone a favor by consistently being honest about their looks.

Beyond that, I have to say age is pretty low on my list of priorities.  Yes, I'm piggy enough to admit it would be fun to roll around with a feral young hottie -- but it's almost never going to happen, because someone that young is usually not going to be that wild.  It's not a money thing -- I just prefer better sex over younger bodies.  My best memories are with the most talented, not the youngest providers.  And same for my fantasies.  I fantasize a lot more about my 40+ MILF friend than I do about the 20 year old hottie who lives across the street.  I bet my MILF friend would really holler.

I'd rather tool around in a sexy Jag XKE from the '60's than a new Hyundai any day.

Nothing like objectifying people, I always say.  

Age is not a major factor, although physical health, mental alertness, sanity, and a youthful zest for life are important.

I look first for a woman who enjoys my company and who can respond naturally and passionately to my efforts to please her. Usually this means she also knows how to move me and to draw close to me intimately. I look for a woman who can share an experience, rather than just provide an experience - no matter how dazzling an act.

I guess shared passion, carnal knowledge, intelligence, curiosity, love of life, wit, conversation, laughter and beauty would come in that order.

Margaret Mead was not usually held up as an icon of youthful beauty. But I had a professor in college who was a dashing lady's man around Boston and Cambridge (tall and movie star handsome) who came to class one morning to announce to us he had dined privately with Margaret Mead (somewhere in Harvard Square) the night before. Wild Bill Green (as he was called) told us Margaret Mead was the most powerfully sexual woman he had ever met.

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I just saw a new 19 year old this week. Pretty, sweet... got 6 on performance. My most mind blowing experience recently has been with a girl about 30, saw her 4 times in a week. but... my ATF will turn 21 next week! I agree that finding a young one who rocks your world is rare but when you do find one hold onto her for dear life.

Like you, I have seen ladies from both age groups, but my best memories have always been with the older women. My memory of a woman's appearance starts to get fuzzy after a few months, but I never forget the way she made me feel during our evening together.

Oh, and one other thing. Even with my poor memory for appearance, I'm positive I didn't notice that "roll of stomach fat and sagging breasts."

When a man gets old, like me, he may want to experience and enjoy a girl young enough to be his daughter...but *not* his grandaughter!

So, if you're 70, a woman 45 is terrific.
But one who's 20 can actually feel ridiculous.

Providers who are decidinig whether or not to retire might keep us older men's preferences in mind.  When you're 45-50, you could specialize in helping out us senior citizens.

Just as older providers have a lot of experience and sensitivity to offer customers... just possibly some of us older customers have something special to offer you providers, too.

And, heh, heh, heh, we older guys, quite often, have more money than those younger ones. So it's not at all a bad specialty for you ladies to look forward to.

Trust me: getting old is a lot better than its alternative.

Sometimes the marks of a woman's life...the signs of child bearing or nursing...or the crinkles around the eyes from smiling...or the curving belly...add a beauty of a different kind. Anyhow, once my wonderful woman and I are close up looking into each other's eyes, her stigmata melt into the background. I can only hope my own body also is not a distraction. LOL.

Has anyone seen Frank Cordelle's exhibits from the Century Project? His book is out now.

Right on, bg.  I'd love to find a provider in her fifties, even though she could still be my daugter.

Thank you for sharing this...it is refreshing and wonderfully candid!

Then you'll see why!

It's pretty steamy.

I have experienced it again and again.  I prefer ladies in their early to mid thirties.  These ladies still look young, sexy and gorgeous, yet  possess the talent & experience to rock my world.

ladies are faced with the same quandry both here and in our real lives.

For me, I will continue to prefer experience and keep my cuttoff age at around 30 to 35 at the youngest.

What good is that hard young body at his peak when he has not a clue as to how to use what he has?

Sweetie, you've been looking for love in ALL the wrong places....I've seen MANY providers who have it all....do a search of mature escorts....or just google me sometime.

the hard bodied young ladies are a treat to the eyes but it's a bit hard for me to relate to them...if that's your bag go for it. However, there are many wonderful mature Ladies that combine experience with a special sexiness & they'll get my vote every time!

There are quite a few of us mature ladies with hard bodies....not bragging or anything, mind you. Most of the guys who ask me for dates (some clients too) are age 21-28 and tell me women their age can't hold a candle to me. AGAIN, not blowing my trumper here, just stating a fact. So, my whole point is, if you want the hard body+maturity it is out there if you look in the right place.

You make it sound as if the choice is between an 18-year old and a 50-year old.  There are dozens of lovely, youthful-looking, experienced ladies intheir late 20s, 30s, and early 40s who can give us the best of both worlds.  Open your horizons ...

THANK YOU! They apparently weren't taking my word for it!