Is this happening to anyone else? Twice in the last two weeks I have been stood up by incall providers.
I tend to like the young spinners, which may have something to do with this, but I don't know what.
I have made the initial call, talked with the provider and headed off for the appointment. Arriving near the location, I call again, only to be put off for 15-30 minutes beacause she is not ready. Then, when I call back, I get voicemail and for the next hour or so I try to make contact only to get voicemail again. Finally in frustration, I head home, losing a couple hours and a "window of opportunity" that I don't get that often.
This is not good customer relations. Is it the rudeness of youth? I don't seem to have a problem with the older (over 25) providers.

she can continue her unprofessional habit.
I sympathize with your situation because this kind of things happened to me before in the past 4 years. And I remained silent and did not post about these flaky ladies.
I would wait a while like a few days after the agreed appointment so she could have a chance to contact you with a good excuse/explanation. Otherwise, do what you think is right.

the most popular and respected providers are over thirty, and you just vindicated it.

Like anything in business, some just arent good at it.. Young girls, think its about nothing other than a romp in the hay for $$$$.. They dont realize professionalism comes with it..

You answered your own question.. If you dont get stood up by older gals ? Why bother trying with younger ?

Do you really think 18 19 20 21 year olds know what good customer relations/service is ?

and it was all with seasoned "mature" providers.  Best just to shake it off, keep plugging away until you find responsible providers and let it go.

happen with any age group. Some gals are Ditzy, some on drugs, some lazy, some drunk, some air heads. It has nothing to do with age.

Don't worry about the flaky types and as you state, gals under 25 are about as reliable as advice from this board.

This happens all the time and it doesn't seem to be age specific.  The only difference that I see is that the younger ones will just not answer.  The older ones have enough experience to give you creative excuses like I over slept, my period just started, my cat is sick, I'm sick, I just got into a car accident, I have a cold sore, I lost my cell phone, I can't handle your big cock unless I'm gotten ten hours rest and other such bs.

For the longest time, before I started using atfs, I would always have a standard backup lady who I could trust.  Then when I got stood up, I would call ol reliable.  She actually became my first atf because she always made time for me.  It would help a lot if you would let us know who this flakey person is, because there is no downside for her blowing us off when she feels like it.....

Possibly the girls are getting freaked out by something that you do.  I may be totally off base, as many providers have a flake gene, but almost all are concerned for their safety.  If you give off a bad vibe, it's gonna go bad regardless of the age of the provider.  The more experienced will just pick up on it quicker, so you'll never get close to the door.

Replay the conversations in your mind OBJECTIVELY, and see if it could be taken in a bad way.  If so, fix it and things will go better.  If not, work on your screening a little better.  Either way, it's fixable.  We've all made a false step.  The trick is to learn...good luck

just attending college was hard enough, actually getting dressed and made up for a date took 4 hours as I went through 12 wardrobe changes.

the prom took two weeks of planning

If a young girl is late for a date by an hour, consider yourself lucky ...it takes longer to paint our face using every type of makeup than it takes to paint the Golden Bridge

I have got the routinue down now and use less makeup too. I let things slide a little....I don't need to buy a new outfit for friday anymore....my clients have their favorites

isn't that 2 call system 101.  i had a client call me 10 minutes after his appoinment was supposed to start or 25-30 minutes after he was supposed to make the first call then write a lousy review (the only kind he writes) beginning with that i started late. if i knew what i knew now, i never would have seen him.  

i don't know if you're trying call on the dot or what. but calling ahead and waiting 10-15-hopefully not much more than 20 patiently is sort of customary.  

Most likely the provider(s) in question double booked appointments for the same time slot.  You were the second to arrive, and therefore the odd man out.

Due to the logistics of incall, providers offering incall are able to do this, where as outcall providers general can't.

I'm sure the provider(s) in question have to deal with many no show clients, and don't like to lose out on the potential income.  For example, a potential client calls and books an appointment for 7:00 pm.  She's available at that time, so the date is set.  A little bit later, a different potential client calls and also wants an appointment for 7:00 pm.  If she hasn't seen either one before, she just might book that second guy also.  Based on experience, she figures that at least one will no show anyway, so then she'll have a "back up."  If both show up, she'll just take the first guy to get there, and second guy will be SOL.  

If you think I'm being unreasonable, I didn't make this stuff up.  I had an incall provider admit to me that she does this.

You are making bad choices of the provider that you call. Call ladies that have numerous good performance rated reviews and your luck will change. Your luck in this business is only as good as you work to make it.

your next ride is free.

Sometimes shit happens.  Life is too short to dwell on it.  Move on.

My "previous ATF" did that to me a few times when her business was slow. She called me a couple hours before my appointment saying she was sick and wanted to see me the following days. How do I know she was seeing someone else? I had recommended her to some members and they all came back to me thr PM saying "thank you, I had a great time with her yesterday afternoon..." That was when I was supposed to see her!!
After a few of these, she is no longer my