question for ladies -- if you have a boyfriend, hubby, or SO -- would you expect him to be faithful? and does seeing other providers count against that (assuming no freebies).

If you are a working provider and seeing other men than why is it not okay for your SO to see other ladies. Is it because you are making money while he is spending money? Or what?

I asked a hobbyist once (as he and I were contemplating a "civvie" relationship), how he felt about my still working.  HE told me that he understands that this is what I do for a living, and this is what he does for FUN. He respected the fact that I wouldn't dream of asking him to support me.





-- Modified on 6/5/2004 5:20:56 PM

He can't have fun with other ladies? Or do you really not enjoy your "dates" and they are strictly business with no pleasure involved? Definately seems to be an arrangement totally in the providers favor.

-- Modified on 6/5/2004 6:38:10 PM

If the bastard did not have the courtesy to invite me along, his ass belongs in the toilet.

I am all for the variety, but hey, what is good for the goose is good for the gander.

So why should the lady insist on monogamy (sp?) when she is is regularly seeing other gents because it's only business? Is there a difference?

-- Modified on 6/5/2004 8:03:12 PM

And why would you have to be included? I'm sure he would not be included in any of your outside encounters. Of course that date is only work right? And you really don't love your job?

mind if the guy went off on his own.  Geez.  I would want to be included. In fact, wouldn't mind if you wanted to be with me and my client, that is if he didn't mind.  Now what do you think of that?

-- Modified on 6/5/2004 7:21:42 PM

Please forgive me for the over generalizations to all ladies. I'm only endeavering to surface a continuing double standard I have seen frequently before.

Provider works and sees other men..ok!! (male accepts it because it's her profession)..SO tries other ladies (providers) or not because he likes variety and it's not ok! Get my point?

I'm not bashing anybody. Just asking questions

I know several providers that work with their SO'S. It's not too frequent though that kind of request is desired by the client.

to your question is.....  My love of my job depends on the client.

-- Modified on 6/5/2004 7:41:46 PM

you will ether invite him along or guarantee him you’re not enjoying yourself. Right.
As the original poster headed, it’s ok for the provider to be with others (I don’t care if it’s her “job”) but not for her SO to be with another? Women really are from Venus!

Provider has another man’s cock in her mouth, swallowing his shit or maybe his dick moving between her legs and her SO’s not supposed to be bothered by this?
“It’s OK dear; it’s just a business transaction.” Unless it’s him giving the money to another woman, then he’s being unfaithful.

It doesn’t take a special man to be the SO of a provider, it takes an idiot!

Maybe you feel trapped by your so...don't know

get some tissues.  eom

OK... I will admit that I am single. Before I was an escort, I broke up with several boy friends because they 'cheated' on me. I remember the emotional and even physical pain I wallowed in over just the thought!

Being an escort has opened my eyes a bit and helped me change and grow as a sexual being. I've met married men who are madly in love with their wives and want to spend the rest of their lives with them. What he and I have together is not love. It may be personal, but not love.

Maybe a person really enjoys a 'Happy Meal', but his wife hates McDonald's and won't even sit with him at the restaurant. He can go enjoy an hour or so at the restaurant and enjoy his 'Happy Meal'. He will go home to his wife and enjoy what he has with her even more because he doesn't have to feel resentment for never getting to enjoy his happy meals.

Infidelity is NOT a deal breaker for me anymore. If he is out of town and visits with an escort, I will only be jealous that I am not there to join in. In fact, I will be the wife who suggests we invite one of my girlfriends over as a 'Happy Meal' we can share! If none of my girlfriends are available, I will just check out TER reviews and choose a new playmate!

-- Modified on 6/6/2004 3:39:02 AM

Awesome attitude Cindy.  Do you ever travel to Florida or Atlanta?