The art of life lies in taking pleasures as they pass, and the keenest pleasures are not intellectual, nor are they always moral."
-Aristippus

Lately,I find myself looking for pleasure(sexual that is)
sooner rather than later. I take it I'm not alone in what I'm going through. I call it probably a case of middle age crazy being I'm in my 40's and all.. As that song by Jerry Lee Lewis goes onto say...I guess I'm just trying to prove I still can....Just looking to see what other hobbyists and providers think about periods of "constant craving"?...Is it middle age crazy and just a phase?...testosterone overload?...and how often does everyone thinks about sex?

Im thinking it is a phase, but who knows. Im not sure I care lol. I think about sex all the time and its no wonder...Driving my car, come to a red light and for some reason I think of a redlight district=sex; Shopping at the grocery store, in the produce section I feel the melons and think of breasts=sex; turn on the tv, scantily clad woman(doesnt matter what channel, within 5 minutes there will be one)=sex; Walk in the park, birds chirping, thought of birds and bees=sex; Go to the office and see my boss=sex (His wife is HOT, cant help myself lol); power up the computer, click favorites...now how did TER end up on my favorites list...hhhhhmmmm am I a sexoholic??
I think not!!! Im merely a man

Geez, I just go to the local grocery store and there were three young, beautiful ladies there with all too reveling clothing, like a very short sheer skirt that barely covered her bottom and a thong that showed through the skirt!! It is hard (no pun intended) not to  be thinking about sex all the time when you see that.

My new problem is looking at "civies" and wondering how much I would be willing to pay to f*ck them.

Now that the college girls are back, looking all sexy and still wearing their summer clothes...

MMMMMMMM

Elise [email protected]

I'm told it's hormones going wild, wanting to go out with a bang (pun intended)for women in their last decade or so of child bearing years.
It's a raging fire..and I'm in no hurry to put it out! Frankly, I very much enjoy it! (well yeah..)

Regardless of hormones and hormone levels, I have pretty much always thought about sex, just as Sparker so very well put, except it's the zucchinis and cucumbers that get me! LOL

From the time I found my first "girlie" magazine at the age of eight or nine I have been looking for it. I too am now in my 40's and figure I better get as much as possible before the effects of age or health problems set in. I figure when I stop constantly craving it that is when I should be concerned.

In my 40's also.... I want to make sure that I take care of all my sexual fantasies before I depart. I like to think that us 40-somethings are at the perfect age... experienced enough to know what to do, and young enough to follow through. hmmm, that's kind of catchy!

I can't help but think of my favorite Cher movie, Moonstruck... Cosmo has an affair and his wife is going crazy trying to figure out why. She finally confirms her suspicions later in the movie... FEAR OF DYING.

Don't think it goes away after your 40s.  It Never goes away.  It's part of what makes you human.

I don't know if it is middle age crazy or just "I want what I want." Most of us middle age guys have worked hard to raise familys. Like most people we have had to sacrifice to reach some of our goals. Now, that some of the pressure is off, maybe we just want to relax and have some fun. I still love my SO very much, however I have made my mind up to have what I want.

I find that nearing the retirement age, luckily the pilot light is still on in the furnace.  Remenber the adage, USE IT OR LOSE IT..