Hi all,

I'm not new to the adult industry, in fact I'm a professional and known Dominatrix in the S. California area.  I, however, am not all that familiar with this specific industry protocal.

My situation is this:  At times I have clients who'd like to have a women introduced into my sessions that is willing to... well, go the extra mile or at minimum to participate in what I'd consider a more extreme teasing and denial scenario.  I would never assume or include anything that any of the involved parties would object to (meaning, I'm not asking the professional to do anything that she wouldn't do if I wasn't involved - no tying you up, no marks, not asking someone to do what isn't natural to them etc. etc.).

When I've tried to contact women in the escort industry I've been extremely disappointed.  Photos not matching with the person walking in the door, further "investigation" provides me with the fact that the ad that stated "no agency" was BS, the girl I spoke to on the phone isn't the one standing in front of me and all these questions were asked at the time of the call.  -- You are the girl in the photo, right?  Oh, yes yes... um...  wrong!

I know a few credible women in the industry (personal friends), so I know this can't be the standard for this profession.  Where am I going wrong?  Networking?  Are professionals intimidated by a woman calling?  Are "couples" discouraged?

I understand communication over the phone isn't always an easy process, as I've said I'm in the sex industry myself.

As a service provider or someone who has experience in hiring a professional for a "couple" situation, may I have some words of wisdom?

With respect,
Brandi Ryder

Boy, does this sound familiar:

"Photos not matching with the person walking in the door, further "investigation" provides me with the fact that the ad that stated "no agency" was BS, the girl I spoke to on the phone isn't the one standing in front of me and all these questions were asked at the time of the call.  -- You are the girl in the photo, right?  Oh, yes yes... um...  wrong"

What I can't understands is, do these providers expect repeat business? Or are they just trying to make a financial killing and scam as many clients as possible before moving on?

Problem is, the demand for their services is to high, so they don't care if they see you again.. Bottom line--they are in it for the bucks...

Check reviews, just like the gents do when evaluating whether someone is reliable, independant, and really pictured in their pictures. And it's too bad you're in CA, this sounds like FUN!

Hugs*
Nicole

fake agencies, not the pics, cash 'n dash, lying about available services, all are daily john traps.

PS - call Angella Faith

Build a relationship with a professional. Felicia Foxx is familiar with your gig and reliable.

email me at [email protected] and I can refer someone to you that might be more available with nearly equal credentials.

I, too, can vouch for FF because she is a quality person, inside and out. She is very familiar with the ropes (no pun intended) and a great person.
Good Luck!