Do you like seeing regulars or looking.  I am still early in the game, but I can't go back sometimes.  I feel there is something fresh about meeting a new provider, a little bit of excitement.  Even watching out for the LE gives a rush.  Maybe I will get over it.

Or do you feel it gets better session after session with a regular?

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as you get accustomed to them and they to you, things start to work out wonderfully.

I also like to see at least two or three new providers a year as well, just to keep some freshness to the whole process.

I really enjoy my regulars as they know me and I know them but I also enjoy an occasional new lady which may work into a regular.

The "excitement" and "rush" you speak of in your post are the words junkies use most often....  You are hooked.  Get out while there is still hope....  Smokey Who Knows Whereof He Speaks

a pulpit.  

People get excitement and rushes from going to football games, from driving cars, from doing a good job at what they do.  It doesn't mean they're hooked or addicted.  The guy has a legitimate question...why not just answer it?

As for the question - it can work both ways.  One of the joys of seeing a "regular" is that if it works out right, you get to see and experience more than just sex.  That might be of interest to some and not to others.

Seems to me if things go well with a regular you can explore the higher levels of sex, without all the distractions of that other stuff.  Thats the appeal to me, at least since I have plenty of relationships.

For me- I am looking for a regular excellent masseuse- (think I found one)  so that's for me the best,

If I was interested in FS, I would probably be a looker arounder, as I get all the great sex with the SO, I ought to want!

Strap-on or TS?

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I experience a little of both.  There are some ladies with whom I have had multiple visits, others just once.  Once is sometimes geography driven; most often it is (lack of) performance driven.

I have found with my ATF that everytime I see her, it just gets better and better and better.  Last time I saw her, she mentioned something to do with handcuffs for our next date.  I can't wait to find out what thats all about!(lol)

I will agree with Turk on this... it is cool to experience more then just the sex or does that just make the sex that much better?? Don't know yet still working on that one...LOL!!! I think personal I really like the ATF and mix it up with some others!!!....it keeps the spark there for me! Yea... still do get the sweaty palms and that feeling of anticipation when seeing a new gal.. That is part of the whole experience in my book...

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there had to be a first time before they were a regular. So look around and maybe you'll find a new regular or appreciate the one or ones you have.

There are some, while the session was great, I would not see them again, even if they paid me... With others (some I have seen several times) it is like seeing an old girlfriend and the session is just as hot as the first time... maybe hotter....!

And there are a couple who really are "new and fresh" every single time that I see them.... it is really like I have never seen them before.... so that is good....

So my answer?  Depends... on who it is.