Out of curiousity, was wondering if any Providers or Hobbyists remember their first time in this activity? I remember mine to this day, felt like I was a virgin all over again, especially with the awkwardness. Nevertheless, the provider was very attentive and made sure I was comfortable. After shaking off the jitters, it felt like old hat.

Any feedback welcomed.

Yeah I remember..Scared to death.............lol

I posted on this a while back.  I remember my first time, it was through an agency, I met the agency owner in the hotel bar, she gave me the room key and I went upstairs and had a glass of wine from the mini bar while waiting for my client.  Then: total panic!!  In my excitement/nervousness etc I'd forgotten to bring condoms!!  I called the agency owner and she bought some from the toilet in the hotel bar and brought them up to me.  Thankfully, my client was stuck in traffic and was late so was unaware of all this.  We had fun and he wrote me a good review. The review was funny because I was advised not to tell him it was my first time so I said I was fairly new and he said I was 'new and loved sex'.  I'm pleased to say the second part of his statement hasn't changed!!  )

I think more interesting would be to here from the providers what they did do virgins? Love to hear how they were when they left..with all the juicy details..

Did you ever a client die on you during it???  God forbid.. But I am thinking Private Benjamin?? What would be the proper etiquette in this ackward situation?? Especially if the client is married?

I remember my first time like it was yesterday. And it was 3 years ago. I drove from Galveston, Texas to Houston. That morning I think I took 2 baths and changed my clothes 6 times . I popped so many breath mints on the way there my mouth stared to ache. LOL

I remember getting there and feeling as though I was going to faint. I wasn't worried that he was going to like me, we had talked on the phone quite a bit....but I had been very sexually in-active for a very long time.

I sat in the car until I was 10 minutes late and I didn't even realize it. He opened the door with the Biggest smile on his face. He called me a "Goddess" and it turned out to be one of the greatest afternoons of my life. He was gentle and patient, knowing I had never done it before and he helped me on the road to great confidance.

I never saw him again but we still talk every so often. I thank him all the time for being the incredible gentleman he is because it could have easily gone the other way.

And I have had my share of intellectual worms in my 3 years who feel a woman should be abused because They are paying for the time....but the majority have made this business an extreme pleasure. But I always look back on my first with such fondness and adoration. he did so much for me and I hope he got alot in return.

xoxox
lass

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Especially when the girl’s first booking is made in advance by the client; it can be a very nervous time for them.

We had an Aussie lady who told me after her first booking, which she was told about 3 days before it occurred, that she would have preferred to have had 1 or 2 hour notice for her first booking.

She said that she had a couple of sleepless nights leading up to the booking!

but he was fun!!

I have seen him still over the year a couple times.

He was one of those guys who loved to please.

I was not nervous about being with him. I had no problem with that.
I even remember what I wore that night. Green skirt, leopard shirt and hight black boots.

I have definatly improved since then, but I feel the same about the business, I love it.

I remember it well.   You're so freaking nervous, and certain that you're going to see a woman who is the complete opposite of you, or you're going to get busted.

In my case, I think she was the PERFECT fit for a first timer. High class and clean location, very sweet, and made me feel like an old boyfriend.

Based on subsequent experiences, I would have been one time and out if I wouldn't have met her.  Talked to her tonight.  I miss her smile and kindness.  I'll never forget my first love, and I'll never forget my first provider.

That's a great story.....pays to be kind to everyone always.  Nice to have some great sex and meet the occasional sweetheart in the process.  Happens to me often.  I wish you continued success and happiness.  That guy (your first) should be proud of himself.

It was with a streetwalker in the Times Square area of NY around 1974. "How much for 69?", talked her down in price, "registered" in hooker hotel under the name of "John Barfey", did the deed, wham bam thank you ma'am. Was my first real piece ever. Wasn't that good. But I did feel like a man.

And it is classy ladies like you that make this business the pleasure it is for all of us.

In 3 years. Both multi hour appointments with guys in their mid 20's. And I tell ya...those were the hardest multi-hour appointments I have ever had LOL. They wanted to be totally and completely active the enitre time (I am talking 6-8 hours).

I found it fascinating and wonderful that they picked me to be their first time. One still writes to me and asks advice on various subjects involving his life and we always look back fondly on our time together. The other was in Law School and I jokingly asked him how he was going to explain to his father that he spent an entire semesters worth of entertainment money on one evening.....he blushed, smiled and replied.."My dad is the one who told me to call you".

*sigh* You got to love this business

xoxox
~L~

I remember my first time. I got lucky! I was very naive to this business and didnt ask fo references. Hardly did any screening at all! Luckily, my first client sensed how new I was. He was a long time hobbiest, one of the "good" ones. He was very nice, respectful, sweet, and fun. Also gave me some advice. I was very lucky!

Ivvyy, reverse the provider and hobbyists roles and that sounds exactly like my first time ... and I found her here at TER