Don't know if we will get a truthful answer on this one.. Guys talk about the girls. It is normal.. Obviously since it is in the reviews.

Here is my question.. If you are friendly with a provider, do you ever tell that other provider particulars, like, oh he is really good at this or that.. etc..

Just curious. Obviously it might be construed as unprofessional in a reference call, but off the books don't some of the conversations get alittle more explicit?

Oh yes! I love to cross reference hobbists with my allies...it's a safe & effective way to get the goods on a potential client & his special needs...(so very limited refs! but some & good to have, very very helpful for pros. & frequent visitors)
and see if he might cater to you. then, theres, little helpful hints of what to bring, wear & if to maybe have another cutie friend available on that date/time etc. etc..just in case of additional fun! I wish there was a board, with wind-dings, symbols & alias' to have a fun  good frequent clientchecker.
Go figure?>Kisses!

I hardly ever chat about anything other then confirming a last minute appointment reference request. I am not interested in comparing other activities since I got my own style. Plus I can't make money running my cellular phone bill up with unprofessional conversation.

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The only time I talk to another provider is when they are asking for a reference.

IF thay particular gent is great..yeah of course I will tell her.

I really don't hang with other providers, I just work with them.


Shaye

I also never talk "Specifics" on any one client, other than to say maybe, "He's a Hottie", since everyone's tastes are different and each Provider is into their own technique and way of connecting with their clients. But we do trade "War Stories" of good and bad sessions, such as, "I had this guy once that wanted me to***** and then****, but I told him****.!!!!" Names really are not important in sharing that info. Although, I will say if you are a "Rip Off Artist" we will exchange details right down to your dick size...!!! LOL

Where references are concerned, it is usually very general.  Yes, I have seen him and he is okay or very nice.  If he treated me very well, I will tell her that he is a sweetheart and will definitely enjoy herself.  If there is some tidbit that may help her along, I will tell her, ie...he likes such and such wine, he smokes, bring toys/he brings toys, so do not be alarmed with the duffle bag, or if well endowed, alert her so that she is prepared.  If my experience is bad, then I will go into more details.  Such as, poor hygiene..smells bad, had to make him shower,etc.  

I have had particular questions on experiences.  I have one lady that I confide in about particulars that has three years more experience in this than I, but even in those cases, it is..."I had a client and this is what happened....how do I, or what do I..."  The only time names come into the fray is if the client is harmful.

Lauren

Girltalk....                                     I couldnt have said it better !!
Stay Safe & Play & Have Fun!!

I get the picture... Very different then on the male side. I was curious if one provider might tell another.. he is a great f--k (LOL).

I make it a point not to say anything that would identify anybody, and I actually don't socialize with other SPs as a rule.  I guess I feel somewhat protective of my clients, I don't really talk about them much at all to anyone.

-Anya

I am very discreet and do not discuss a word to other providers but I do know that many providers contact me and say what is on their mind most are quite negative and some are positive depends on the provider. I do not kiss and tell something I have learned not to do. It is good business.In the event if I feel someone could be a dangerous person to be with or too strange I refuse service. Hope this answers your question.

                Mia of Westlake

STRANGLEY ENOUGH ALOT OF MY CLIENTS LIKE TO HEAR ABOUT WHAT GOES ON WITH PRIOR CLIENTS! ITS A TURN ON TO THEM! ESPECIALLY THE SESSION THAT ARE A LITTLE DIFFERANT FROM THERE NORM! I NEVER USE NAMES, JUST POSITIONS OR TALK ABOUT WHAT I DID TO THEM OR VICE VERSA!