Just a question that I have for the ladies.
Guys being guys, sometimes we want a fantasy outfit at the time of the appointment. I know you won't be dressed long (or maybe you will as sometimes I like to get with my provider while she still has the short skirt on or the heels or the boots) but is there a problem with accepting such requests?

Some are open. Most are not. Those that oblige simply wear a long coat to cover when the request comes to arrive in a short leather mini, or tight leather or spandex pants etc...So many get out of sorts saying "I don't DO that!" or "No way!".
It's such an odd negative response to a request from someone that is the money spending client.

Some input and your point of view? I'm very interested in your side.

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If it's in the initial contact stage. Requests like this often send up "Red Flags" for the ladies. We dont want potential clients asking about services in emails or on the phones in the initial contact stage (makes us think you're a cop)...but you have to ask to find out if she provides what you are looking for....it's a catch 22.

I think the best way to go is for the lady to put the outfit in a nice briefcase and change into it at the hotel. Looses alittle of the fantasy, but it's better than walking through the lobby half naked (or whatever).

my 02. cents

I probably should have noted that these requests come when they are arriving at my place on an outcall which is quiet and no problem.
I've had very agreeable providers arrive in a variety of modes (tight, painted on leather pants and fur coat, micro mini skirts, and much more). Even explained ahead of time, so many still get confrontational and insist on showing up in jeans etc....

The hotel angle I totally understand. The other angle is a mystery. But the input so far helps. Anyone else?

sLeEk

credibility with a lady, many requests regarding fantasies are happily agreed to. In an initial meeting, the provider picks up on this type of request as a danger sign to either LE or potential client who may be very high maintenance (is this just the first of many requests?). Either that, or the bitch just don't like to dress.....lol.

I am much more comfortable accomodating racy attire requests for our first meeting when I am at home.  Still, I  will only fulfill the request for me be waiting at the door naked and on my knees from certain people I know and like.  

I would never show up in jeans. I don't think there's a hotel in the world where a lady can't arrive in a basic, attractive skirt/blouse type of outfit, and fit in fine.  Jeans are my bumming around clothes, not my "make a great first impression" clothes.

As for answering requests on what to wear, I do incall much more frequently than I do outcall, so it really isn't a problem for me as long as I have the outfit on hand.  If I don't, I'll say so. I'd never be offended at anyone asking though... if nothing else it is established and legal that you are paying to spend time with a pretty lady, and how you want that pretty lady to dress has nothing to do with selling sex or any illegal act.  I honestly don't understand why anyone would be offended at that question... I don't get it.

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Nicole

Hey NOSC.  That is my fantasy.  Howya been Babe?

I completely agree with Sable. It all depends on what stage of familiarity I am with a person. First meeting..outcall...walking through a hotel lobby...half dressed... "No Way!" But as our relationship grows, I find myself more accomodating and open to many situations that I would have resisted initially. Also, because I prefer incall..."creative" attire requests are much more easier to provide. ~~


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Imani
"The Black Pussycat"

Purelust hit it right on the head.  I use to dress in lingerie, special request, etc. but not anymore on a first appt.  Even though I screen rather thoroughly who's to say the LE might start to passs through our screening undetected.  It is quite incriminating and makes it more difficult to fight a case in a court of law.  The DA will say look how she was dressed.  Guilty!!!  This is my reasoning for being more reserve.