I am a single man, but I am surprised that the survey shows almost half (48%) of the hobbyist are married.  What excuse do you use when you go see your local providers?  How do you do it without the wife knowing?  In case I got married somedays, I want to have your wisdom.  Thanks.

You need an excuse to leave the house??

it helps if you are in a sales type job with freedom over your work day...able to come and go from the office as needed for outside appts.

It's a pretty simple answer my friend, most of the providers I see say they are busier between the hours of 11:00 AM and 2:00 PM during the week, as opposed to evening appointments.  Lunch time appointments are always nice, just make sure your meeting is close to work, and you won't be missed.  As far as my wife not knowing, well let's just say a quick shower after the appointment does wonders. As far as your stats go (48% of hobbysits are married) I've been told it is more like 99% married. Just my thoughts...Happy hobbbing.

and don't deal with it.

jBugs.

I tell my wife I'm going to the gym.  That way I have an excuse for being away for two or three hours, on a regular basis, and come home smelling like I just took a shower.

Coming to this site is not necessarily cheating, I don't think.  The question was whether we were married or not.  I suggest you choose a right partner that you can be sexually and emotionally be happy with.  

If your wife founds out, there is no guarantee that you can come out of it in one piece.  Remember Lorena Bobbit was kind enough not to put it through a garbage disposer or flush it down the toilet.

and that makes my grocery shopping during the day much more exciting!!!!

hey Explorer....please elaborate on the "exciting grocery shopping" for the benefit of the rest of us...thanks!

(EOM)

Staying faithful is NOT why we're here, bud.  I know you've taken this tack before, though I don't know why you bother, unless you want us all to give up the hobby and join "Promise Keepers."

And no, I don't think coming to this site is cheating, by any stretch of the imagination.  Why am I even responding?