TER General Board

request for photo
emsjhs2009 971 reads
posted
1 / 24

would you supply a photo if requested by a provider as a condition of an appointment with her ??
have been in contact with a provider that I am interested in seeing, but that is one of her requirements
no photo = no visit

jaydalee See my TER Reviews 344 reads
posted
2 / 24

Some guys are going to say no way would they ever send a picture.
And there are a few guy that would send a pic some will send it even without being asked.
How bad do you want to see her?Either send a pic or move on to a provider who does not ask for one.

octavia.lexa See my TER Reviews 256 reads
posted
3 / 24

but it is her right to request it i guess, and if you are no comfortable they are plenty of providers who will see you as long as long as you money is green and those providers pride themselves on not discriminating based on any characteristics  

maybe $ is not the most important and she wants to only see guys she has attraction too...

mrfisher 115 Reviews 257 reads
posted
4 / 24

and in each case, I had been in touch with them through phone or email enough to feel comfortable about them, so I sent it in.  One gal, Chinese interestingly, said she needed the photo to find out what kind of eyes I have.  She said that I have kind eyes, so I was OK

GGxo See my TER Reviews 223 reads
posted
5 / 24

More common than you think especially nowadays. Just provide what you're comfortable with or move on perhaps. Good luck!

Posted By: emsjhs2009
would you supply a photo if requested by a provider as a condition of an appointment with her ??  
 have been in contact with a provider that I am interested in seeing, but that is one of her requirements  
 no photo = no visit

lopaw 29 Reviews 238 reads
posted
6 / 24

....and if that isn't good enough then I will attempt to work out an alternative way for her to satisfy her curiosity. So far that has worked out. But if we couldn't come to an agreement I would politely decline and seek out someone else.

5xfd7k63y7k 4 Reviews 253 reads
posted
7 / 24

If you decide to send a pic, just make sure it's one that is not already posted on any social media. In the wrong hands, your pic could be "google image searched" and matched - then your real identity could be exposed. Or perhaps send but blur any identifying features/marks...just like many providers do.

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 210 reads
posted
8 / 24

I wouldn't see  her. That's BS in P4P

Posted By: emsjhs2009
would you supply a photo if requested by a provider as a condition of an appointment with her ??  
 have been in contact with a provider that I am interested in seeing, but that is one of her requirements  
 no photo = no visit

MasterZen 34 Reviews 190 reads
posted
9 / 24

with the right precautions to make sure it is an original picture and only 1 copy exists, no EXIF or geotag or app data, maybe a little photoshopping. Nothing to tie it to the "real you".... unless she has your real info to tie it to you.  

A puzzling, and one-sided dilemma if she wants real ID data AND a pic.  

But, maybe doable in some cases.

Fancy8888 See my TER Reviews 171 reads
posted
10 / 24

How bad do you want to see hooker?Do you feel comfortable sending a picture?

Posted By: emsjhs2009
would you supply a photo if requested by a provider as a condition of an appointment with her ??  
 have been in contact with a provider that I am interested in seeing, but that is one of her requirements  
 no photo = no visit

cspatz 68 Reviews 151 reads
posted
11 / 24
gl_quagmire 25 Reviews 161 reads
posted
12 / 24

Who don't require a picture. Probably won't matter, but if it does go sideways you'll wish you just moved on.  

Posted By: emsjhs2009
would you supply a photo if requested by a provider as a condition of an appointment with her ??  
 have been in contact with a provider that I am interested in seeing, but that is one of her requirements  
 no photo = no visit

Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 161 reads
posted
13 / 24

Or you could just send this

Posted By: MasterZen
with the right precautions to make sure it is an original picture and only 1 copy exists, no EXIF or geotag or app data, maybe a little photoshopping. Nothing to tie it to the "real you".... unless she has your real info to tie it to you.  
   
 A puzzling, and one-sided dilemma if she wants real ID data AND a pic.  
   
 But, maybe doable in some cases.

Jensen36363 58 Reviews 168 reads
posted
14 / 24

Or send what is exactly out on the social media and have the out of saying "It's in the public domain" anyone could have grabbed it.

GeorgeSpelviniii 285 Reviews 183 reads
posted
15 / 24

..... and most women I see have P411 as well so not an issue for me.  Though I think I recall doing it once before.

impposter 49 Reviews 202 reads
posted
16 / 24

Posted By: mrfisher
One gal, Chinese interestingly, said she needed the photo to find out what kind of eyes I have.  She said that I have kind eyes, so I was OK.
I'm not sure if she said that I have kind eyes or if she said she liked the kind of eyes I have.

impposter 49 Reviews 235 reads
posted
17 / 24

Some of the justifications include:
1. Ethnicity check. (Some K-gals refuse to see K-guys. Etc.)
2. Who will be on the other side of the door or peephole?  
3. Others ...

but many Qs can be addressed with  

1. "look a like" descriptions: "I kind of look like Tom Cruise but with a bald head and a wart on my fat cheeks." "Do you mean to say that you look like Telly Savalas?"  

2. A verbal description: "I'm clean shaven (today), wearing an ANZAC hat, herringbone sport coat and carrying a large potted plant."  

If she needs a picture of me to see me, I don't need to see her

ValuedCustomer 172 reads
posted
18 / 24

That said, if you do know my real name as part of screening, it will take about 3 seconds to find my picture off my web site.....  maybe another 10 seconds to find my facebook page..

ValuedCustomer 159 reads
posted
19 / 24
Gemma Coreana See my TER Reviews 182 reads
posted
20 / 24

I've never heard of anyone asking for a photo other then an ID from a hobbyist...   Interesting ....

lopaw 29 Reviews 152 reads
posted
21 / 24
beccablossoms See my TER Reviews 177 reads
posted
22 / 24

I have never requested a photo. I've received lots of them.  I find gentlemen volunteer them often when they don't want to be screened.   obviously there's no screening info in a photo so it doesn't work with me.  What scares me is it DOES work with some providers.  

Posted By: emsjhs2009
would you supply a photo if requested by a provider as a condition of an appointment with her ??  
 have been in contact with a provider that I am interested in seeing, but that is one of her requirements  
 no photo = no visit

Dallas_texan 164 reads
posted
23 / 24

So if you're ugly she won't see you?  Must you pass her looks test? Seriously, I wanna know the true meaning behind asking for it? Seems odd to me

castiron 150 reads
posted
24 / 24

if I already felt comfortable with/about the girl.  But, what exactly does me sending a photo do for her?  I don't get it.

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