Well here I am, 5 weeks pregnant and my partner of 8 years has walked out because I will not get an abortion.  At this point I have a lot to think about, as I'm pretty much starting all over, more than likely cannot continue with my other business because I'm not allowed to do any heavy labor after the first trimester, found out that my individual insurance policy does not cover maternity costs unless you signed up for the maternity coverage and have been paying for at least one year for the benefits to kick in, so basically you only get insurance if you are planning to have a family, not for the unexpected and I made too much last year to qualify for medicaid, so basically I find that I am going to have to come up with more money and I'm not even sure how my regular clients will feel being around me with my body going through changes.  So my question to you is this, if your ATF got pregnant and she continued moonlighting, would you continue to see her?  For those of you who look for the GFE and find that a lady is well known in her area with excellent reviews, would you still book?
Any ladies on here been in this position?  Any input would help.

Thanks!

Depends on what "ATF" means.  If it were someone that I respected as a person and that gave me an emotional lift, and that I felt an emotional rapport with, then I'd support her to the extent reasonable and within my means through the pregnancy. In this respect, I don't know that it would be any different from helping out any other friend -- indeed, the history of a physical connection as well as a friendship and/or emotional connection might make the desire to assist stronger.  On the other hand, if the relationships was physical only, I doubt that I would be supportive.  

What did the Beatles say?  "In the end, the love you take is equal to the love you make."

There's something strangely erotic about a pregnant woman.  Maybe it's because everything is a little "fuller".

I assume that you are a povider.  So, I assume that you know where babies come from and how they are made.  Your post makes it sound as though this were "an accident" as well as making it sound as though you are in fairly dire financial straights because of it.  No abortion...?  Adoption?  

I know that it isn't politically correct to say this, but what were you thinking?  Was this an "I'll cross that bridge when I get to it" sort of thing for you?  Do you think the kid is going to have a lovely life if you don't adopt it out?

Since no form of birth control is 100% other than surgical, I think that providers (with a SO or not) should be preparred to abort or addopt in their mind set long before the event happens.

Feel free to contact me about this one.  

XOXO,
Racquel

I had one favored provider who became pregnant - by design in her case - and I continued to see her, although not so often.
There is 'a thing' about pregnant women. This was her second child, and she managed as a single parent provider.
A real bitch about the terms of your medical coverage, it looks like they're trying to tell you to get an abortion through your wallet. Obviously, you don't want one, or you wouldn't have asked what you did.
You have my best wishes.

Actually I was on birth control with my partner of 8 years, who knew of my moonlighting and was very supportive and relied upon that and condoms with clients.
This unplanned event is a result from my partner, not clients.
Adoption is still an option, abortion is not for myself.  I am not even asking for any support from the other person if they do not want to be a part of this child's life.  Yes I know some of you will say that is unfair, however I do not think forcing someone who  if were in my shoes would choose to abort to be a part of this child's life.  
I guess I don't understant your viewpoint, because believe it or not, many of us so called GFE are married and some even are supporting families themselves.  Are you saying that only single females ready to abort or adopt should be providers?

PS As for the financial situation, it's not exactly a dire straits, just simply have to wait for the house to sell to get my money back for one and two, I was not a full time provider, just someone who did this part time, as my regular job is actually a job I love, however it is very labor intense and I will not be allowed to do such work when my 2nd trimester begins, so I am considering for the time working more hours doing this to compensate my loss of having to hire someone else to do my other job.
I'm basically testing out the market to see what my options are

You said in one of your other posts that he is the father.  

You two might be splitting over this, but he has some responsibilities here.  INSIST that he share with the medical expenses associated with your pregnancy and INSIST he pay support if you keep the child.  Get a lawyer if this is a nasty situation:  the guy can pay that too.  

You certainly owe this to yourself.  More importantly, you owe it to your chilld.  Whatever decision you both make, the child should be the product of a relationship between a man and a woman:  not a spoiled boy and a frightened girl.  

Suck it up and make the guy do the right thing.  You will survive this and you can handle it in a way that allows you to feel proud of yourself.

I's sure some men will be happy to continue seeing you for awhile....but I think the biggest problem is not knowing how many men will be there in those last few months.

I know a provider who tried to work the whole time, and she only had one regular the last couple of months. So, prepare for your provider revenue to be basically zero towards the end.

It's too bad you have to quit your other job because it has too much heavy work (do you work at Home Depot or something, LOL?). Why don't you start looking at other jobs in the retail, secretarial, restaurant, etc. type business? They may not pay as well as being a provider, but you get the security of that weekly paycheck and you can work up until you go into labor, as long as you feel well.

Good luck in this difficult situation!

You know I would love to see a provider who is more than a little pregnant. Why you ask, well I have never been with a pregnant woman, my SO and myself have not had kids yet.

I just never found a pregnant provider yet.

If I had a regular and she got pregnant, I would still see her.  And if I fouond a girl who was pregnant, my interest might go up.  Like others who have posted, I find many pregnant women to be sexy and attractive in their own way also.  I saw a pregnant lady once.  She was very attractive.  The only reason I didn't see her again soon was because she was rushed during our session and her service really wasn't my style, not because of the physical characteristics.  She was very hot in the looks area.
I've also seen a lactating provider.  I saw her several times before she unfortunately disappeared from the scene.  So that's something else you might think about after your pregnancy is over.  Whether or not you want to market the fact that you are lactating.  I don't know if most men like that or not, but I did.

If I had seen a particular provider before and i had enjoyed her service i would continue to see her. mouth
Ps I hope that your new baby will be healthy despite you predicament as i understand that fetuses can tell if they are wanted

If you get along with the provider and enjoy her company, it won't matter.

Thanks everyone for your input and the personal messages.  Overall I find in this community a strong bond and support that one can't help but feel warm fuzzy feelings
It will definately be an interesting adventure, but knowing there is support and good kind hearted people out there gives me hope

Hugz!

A woman is not prepared to be a mother because she is a provider?  The child has no chance of a good life because her mother fucks?
Now, I personally have issues with providing while pregnant, it is involving someone who doesn't have a choice in the matter - and exposing the unborn child to potential disease and that is irresponsible in my mind.  HOWEVER, to imply that a woman CANNOT be a competent provider and parent is riduculous and offensive.