As I was finishing up an incall appointment with a provider, I noticed an empty e.p.t. test containter in the trash can in her hotel bathroom.  E.P.T. test is an instant-answer pregnancy test. What does this mean?  Is she practicing unprotected sex?   She was visiting here for four days and I was her last appointment.  Maybe she does this routinely for security measures after every trip here, i.e. "just in case."  What does everybody think?

Ever think that she may have a boyfriend or husband? Maybe they would like to have children? This scenario is much more likely than a provider having unprotected sex. You could always have asked, you were on the way out.

Although I can be naive at times, I'm pretty sure she is not involved with anyone seriously. Again, I saw the container in her bathroom right as she was checking out of her room.  I think she used the pregnancy test just to be sure, even though she uses protection.  No provider is foolish enough to allow bare fs.  Still, need some more opinions.

I would imagine she would have been very embarrassed to be confronted with this information. I would say nothing if I were you.

Most likely she has a boyfriend, husband or a dating relationship with someone who she is not so careful with. Maybe they're playing "pull it out in time" and he didn't. Maybe she just started the pill, switched pills or they haven't kicked in yet or maybe in spite of taking the pill she is late. Maybe a condom broke at some point. Maybe she is trying to get pregnant.

At any rate, it's probably not info she wants to share with a client. She should have been more careful and not left such a thing lying around for a client to see.

Even though I always practice safe sex and I'm on the Pill, if I was a week late for a period, the first thing I'd do is take a preg test, just to eliminate the possibility.   Although it would be really unusual, nothing is 100%, not even condoms and the Pill.
It's just a girl thing.  I wouldn't worry about it if I were you.  If YOU always practice safe sex, you should be fine.

All of these maybe scenerios maybe her last appointment was a salesman and he gave her a sample to try.  They can also be used in prostrate screening for men.  My suggestion is to quit digging in the trash at hotels if you are afraid of what you may find.

A pregnancy test can only detect a certain hormone in a woman's body about a week after she misses her period. Therefore, she's late I assume. You CAN"T take a pregnancy test "right after" to determine if you got pregnant by your last "encounter." It just doesn't work that way. Even a blood test takes a few days after conception to work....

Okay, would it be proper for me to ask her the next time I see her?  Or should I just forget it.   I really like this girl and it would bother me a great deal if she had a "real" boyfriend on the side.  I have seen this girl quite a bit for a year now, sometimes I don't even pay $.   From my end, I believe she is a firm believer in safe sex and used the pregnancy kit while late in her period.  Should I ask her though?

Maybe she is wanting you for her baies Daddy? If she is giving you near freebie rates and you are a long term guy?

Alot of girls are married/SO/live-in hunny. If that is important for you ask, and be prepared for the "real" answer. Good luck Keepitreal!

             CD

"I really like this girl and it would bother me a great deal if she had a "real" boyfriend on the side"

You my friend, have lost perspective....

The fact that you SOMETIMES don't pay means nothing. Didn't you know that MOST providers of a vice (of some sort)SOMETIMES give a freebie just to keep you coming back? If you EVER pay...and certainly if you pay more often than you don't...then it is still a business relationship, no matter how friendly it has become.

Perspective my friend...perspective. You are a client, she is a provider.