I am getting ready for my first overnight, with a lady I have already seen a few times for 2 hours sessions. I'm taking her to a romantic place in the mountains. Any advice/suggestions from gents and/or ladies, which mistakes to avoid etc. ?

Plan a nice dinner, wine by the fire, breakfest in bed andmost importantly; get plenty of rest before hand.

...whether she needs any personal time -- or personal space -- during your trip, depending on how long this trip is going to last.  If I'm going to be with someone for 24+ hours, I need to be able to have a couple of these hours "solo" to workout, get a little down time to relax between rounds, have the space to shower and makeup alone at least once, and "check in with the office" to address any issues that may have come up in my absence.

BJ, Palm Beach, Florida
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Once I did that, she viewed it as a romantic date, not a fun weekend of sailing ... a complete disaster ... business is business, pleasure is pleasure, and mixing the two needs to be well planned and understood!

The best advice any one can give you, I just did.

Dont fall in love !!

Oh, in that case, just plan on stayin close to the fireplace,

Baby.

(VBS)

very big snicker

I have a question about overnights, I have had one bad experience, girl thought we were boyfriend and girlfriend. But, my question is about price, I see a lot of ladies post $1500 or more for an overnight, is that the hope for rate or is that what guys actually pay? I would think that this is negotiable, but i have never asked. Just curious. John

However, if one is offerring to fly the lady to Paris or Hawaii for 5 nights, that is probably entirely different, and should be viewed as a starting point in the discussion.

Similarly, if one is a well known regular client, and wants to discuss an arrangement that can be reasonably accommodated, where the expectations are clear, it might be negotiable.  Say, for example, that a lady has an overnight rate of $1500.  She probably set that rate with the expectation that she might have to work all night to earn that amount of money.  But if it is known, for example, that it will include a pleasant night out, with dinner in a nice Restaurant, and no more than 3 pops, it might be somewhat negotiable.  Say once at the beginning, once later in the evening, and once in the morning, and that the lady could expect to get perhaps 6 hours of uninterrupted sleep, then she might consider $1000-1200 to be still a nice bit of compensation for the effort.  However, I wouldn't anticipate this if the lady didn't have a set of reasonable expectations that it WASN'T a 12-hour straight fuck marathon.

In my experience, the local overnight rate is probably not negotiable with a first-time client.  With familiar regulars, and also with travel, in all honesty, everything is negotiable, especially in the context of difficult economic times.

I would also offer this bit of negotiating advice:  It is ALOT easier to negotiate MORE service for a specific published rate, than it is to negotiate a lower cost for a known service, and it generally only works when the lady knows you, and knows that time spent with you is not at all unpleasant.  When that's the situation, it's quite possible to get things like 6 hour full evening dinner dates for 3X her hourly rate.  Or, maybe negotiate 4 sessions with an agreed-to cost that would be the same as 3 sessions for new clients.