The post below got me thinking about something I like to do and have had some reservations about asking for.

I like the extended dinner date for several reasons.  For one, the comfort zone kicks in and I think we both have a better time (for a first date with no familiariety).  Second, I'm not as young...and the multi pop is available on longer sessions.

But another thing I seem to have developed a kink for is public play.  I was introduced to this by a lady who gave me no idea what was about to happen.  At dinner she did things such as flashing me a nippple and slipping off her panties and it was very risque and arrousing.  And in the elevator she did more things which were in a similar vein so that as people got on and off the elevator we had to be very careful.  Exciting and fun!

I enjoyed this so much that I have wanted to repeat the experience with others.  I usually mention my desires after a dinner date has been made and we are more comfortable on the phone than prior to the securiety checks.  I always mention the experience I had as an example and let it be known that I liked it a lot and would like someting similar to happen on our date.  Then I tell them that I will let them decide if and what to do and will not mention it again either before or during the date so as to not make the lady uneasy in any way about her decision.

I have been pleasantly surprized on many occasions but not all. Some have done some mildly stimulating things such as rubbing me at the dinner table or placing my hand on their breast as we kiss on a street corner waiting for a cab.  Others have done some wild things that have actually gotten me a bit concerned that we might be detained if caught such as giving me a bj between parked cars in the lot of a high end hotel.

So the question for the ladies...do you find this sort of public play naughty and stimulating or just a very bizzare request from a client that might make you think twice about canceling the date?  And gents, does anyone else have this kind of fun in mind when you see a provider?

It hadn't crossed my mind yet but my new Hobbying goal is to find the girl who gave you head in the parking lot!  Reminds me of a movie I saw the other day where this group of people are at a club and they all start pairing up and there's one guy and one girl left and they're at the back door next to a fence and he just dives right in.  She put a leg on either side of his head and just rode his face. Hottest scene in the movie (even better that Tara Reid's nude scene).  Thanks for the idea  funny how I have done stuff like this with girlfriends and my wife but never thought about it with a provider - must be that jail in a strange city fear that I have that keeps getting in the way!

I like the idea of asking and then dropping the subject.  The possibility of a spontaneous action on the lady’s part later in the night is titillating to be sure; however, I’m not really into the date for myself, I get off by pleasing the lady (a client as pleaser?  Now there is a topic for a thread).  Still, I think it has merit if it pleases both.  I don’t think it is weird at all.

The thrill of being caught or even noticed is a total turn on for myself.

 I would not cancel a date upon such a request.

 So remember "it never hurts to ask"

 Have fun and be naughty.

 Tammy

I had a similar thing happen to me in public. I was at a strip club this weekend and had a young hottie ask me to go up to the VIP for some semi-private time. We were hot and heavy with both of us grabbing each other. She finally started pulling at my zipper and looking into my eyes. I reached down and unzipped and she reached in to pull me out. Nice HJ right there in the club wile I played with her kitty under her g-string. My mind was reeling.

I kind've like the out in public thing, I had an experience recently while I was out of town, in a grocery store wearing a short skirt while my friend/client took advantage of cramped quarters and said short skirt.  Very stimulating, I must say!

Having said that, I think there's a fine line to be upheld between doing what you can without being caught, and being just tacky and vulgar in front of people who really don't want to see it.  I mean, I don't want to offend anyone or do something that children, for example, might see.  It's all good between consenting adults, but beyond that realm I think you need to be careful.

-Anya