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Re:One hour or two
Bemis1965 18 Reviews 3016 reads
posted
1 / 17

If you book two or more hours with a provider (instead of the usual 1)what benefit do you feel you obtain from the increased time and do you feel it is worth the extra cost? Do you feel it sends any message if at all to the provider?

mrfisher 115 Reviews 1219 reads
posted
2 / 17

Assuming that you like being with the provider that is.

More time can allow you to get another cup or two (depending on your stamina) or just time to relax, cuddle, talk, maybe give and receive a massage; basically whatever you and your provider mutually agree upon.

You can even opt to go on dinner and movie dates and even overnights with some providers.

Try it sometime, if your budget allows, and see if you like it or not.  First be sure it is with a provider you enjoyed the first time anyways.

Not4lng 58 Reviews 1401 reads
posted
3 / 17

I'm pretty much a single-pop guy these days so an hour is appropriate for me.  I'm into the GFE fantasy for as long as the sex is going on.  After that, it's back to reality.

wormwood 17 Reviews 771 reads
posted
4 / 17

I prefer two or more hours because I want to get to know the ladies I see. Also, at my age, 52, two cups are usually out of my range in one hour. As for a message, I'd like to ehar what providers say.

dakubes 33 Reviews 3094 reads
posted
5 / 17

I have always felt that 1 hour is rushing it.  I probably only really need 1 hour, but it just seems rushed.  In the door, get your clothes off and go for it.  That is fine but in a perfect world, for me, I'm generally a 3 cup guy and 2 hours is the perfect time for it.  Massages and generaly taking it slow is perfect.

Oldmember 36 Reviews 1106 reads
posted
6 / 17

I don't book for multiple hours unless I have already met the lady and know that we click.  Have had a lot of first meetings where I was darned good and ready to see her leave at the one-hour mark.

The benefit of multi-hour with someone that you really click with is: multiple cups (for either or both of you), massage, or just basking in the afterglow with someone whose company you enjoy.  It's worth it if you know that you and she click together.

Bemis1965 18 Reviews 1820 reads
posted
7 / 17

The replies so far are what I expected. Was curious if I was the only one which felt an hour didn't really give you time to relax and enjoy some intensive 4 play. Don't get me wrong I love to O, but the longer the 4 play the more intense the the climax for me. I hope some ladies chime in on this. Real interested in what their take is.

Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 1081 reads
posted
8 / 17

...is that you enjoy her company. I'm rarely a two pop guy but I don't like to rush things. I love DATY and enjoying exploring every part of a woman's body. I only re-book with ladies who share my approach and enjoy slow passionate encounters. I also prefer to be the ladies last appointment of the day as I find things in general to be a bit more relaxed.

ShakingtheSheets 189 Reviews 1178 reads
posted
9 / 17


I have arranged only one two hour session. I was on a business trip and wanted some company while I ate a room service dinner. So two cups were served and we rested in between cups by enjoying our dinner. It worked out fine as the conversation flowed nicely during the meal. Usually, I would only recommend an hour. I hate the idle awkward chatter during recovery time. But if I am still wanting more after the first cup, I'll engage in the useless banter in anticipation of round two. But you have to be able to serve two cups in an hour

SensualJamie See my TER Reviews 1959 reads
posted
10 / 17

Yes I think you have to get to know her first in order to go for a longer session
I loved the idea that someone wrote about dinner in his room, take a break, play, eat, play, eat, drink, play....MEOW!

Turkana 1623 reads
posted
11 / 17

that you'll know you enjoy the company of.  Two hours with a deadhead is wasted time and money.

standupguy29 1056 reads
posted
12 / 17

Seven years ago, back in college I used to do the 2hr. appt. when seeing a lady for the first time, but I never felt satisfied after the session. The ladies would waste the first hour by "talking & feeling comfortable" & 2nd hr. the fun begins' but felt rushed due to time. I don't know if it was an age thing w/ me & being pretty young at the time or what.If I wanted to talk that long w/ a lady I can do that with my civie lady friends. Since my recent return I only do 1 hr. sessions & it's much better, less talk more action.

beaner542 100 Reviews 1716 reads
posted
13 / 17

I try for 1 1/2 even for a first time meeting.  I enjoy meeting someone new, and since I am older, I like to relax.  If it's a real dead head, I've lost 1/2 hour fee, since I leave when done.  If we click, I might go for 2 hours next time.  I enjoy repeating with providers that click, and I find in some cases, the "relationship" gets better.  I know it's business first, but in some instances, it goes a little further.  You ladies know who you are.

HerrZunge 74 Reviews 2500 reads
posted
14 / 17

The benefit that you get from booking more time with a provider is that she has more time to get to know you (and vice versa.) It can be worth the cost if it leads to an increased intimacy between the two of you.

The best example is the dinner date. If she is spending that first hour with you, enjoying the conversation, and visualizing how she is going to eat you alive when you get back to the hotel, that's money well spent.

I often look a a provider's rate structure. If her hourly rate is $300, and two hours is $600, then one hour is probably the best choice. If her two hour rate is $500, and her three hour dinner date special is $550, I think she is sending a message that she enjoys longer dates and does well at them. The times I have selected the dinner date option have all been worth the extra cost.

Does it send a message to the provider if you schedule extra time? Hard to say - the one thing I do know is that the message you send when the hotel room door opens is probably the most important message.

lilli 1422 reads
posted
15 / 17

it truly depends on the man. for some an hour is just right, for others 2 hours is not long enough. everyone has a different pace, different needs/desires, etc.

personally i am more comfortable with 2 hr or longer visits when i've seen a man before and have developed a comfort level with him. as for the issue of relaxation, i'm honestly much more relaxed during erotic activity than i am just sitting and chatting. when i'm in a sexual state i get very cozy and mentally at peace, outside of a sexual state, i'm extremely shy and nervous. but then some of my clients seem to like that shy nervous state and will intentionally hold off on getting physical so that my discomfort lasts. sadists i tell ya. :)

falla 1215 reads
posted
16 / 17

I always go for 2 or more hours.  I can't perform when I feel rushed.  
I also like to schedule the last appt of a providers day (most don't like to go past midnight.) It's amazing how lonely many providers really are and welcome the after-hours company.

andreeuh 1506 reads
posted
17 / 17

I love long dates, and as a mature provider... 37 , most of the regular guys I see are very into long relaxing evenings. But then I never book more than 1 man a night.

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