I would really like to know if you are reviewed respectfully (i.e., not excessive graphic details) and it was a "good" review (fairly high numbers or better), how do you feel about reviews?  Do you enjoy reading them (like Mara)?  Do you look at them as "part of the business" and keep an eye on them to make sure they reflect well on you?  Are you indifferent to them?  Would you rather details weren't posted?  Or do you hate them and find them demeaning?

This subject is actually something that is very topically important to me, so any posts from the ladies would be appreciated.

I don't like to read mine.  I feel embarassed (even though
my review scores are generally high) and as I read along
I can feel my face becoming redder and hotter.
I have been occasionally surprised in finding that a
client did not like me as much as I thought he did.
Mostly, it just all sounds so nasty.  I don't really like
the idea that everyone knows everything about me.
Although, I love ter and think its great so that guys
don't get ripped off, they know what to expect and
we get clients from it.

RE: How do providers feel about reading there reviews?

     I cringe before reading my reviews, but I still do.  I have met the most interesting men because of TER and don't mind being graded, I try real hard to please the teacher.
    I love reading other providers reviews and feel better that even the best providers can "talk alot" - a thing most women like to do to connect with men.
 
   And the constant reviews just shows our economy is not doing so bad.....

It was like really good erotic fiction most of the time. I found the most fascinating part was reading what my gents came away with after seeing me. I can honestly say that there were very few and far between dates where I didn't have a good time, and those gents never posted a review. The couple of pages i got were generally high scores, but even those rated low were a great read.

I never took the scoring too personally. One guy said I was the ultimate GFE and I would see me again in a heart beat and gave me a 6/7. Another said he had a good time but wouldn't see me again cause my breasts were too small (I'm a 44d...lolol) and he gave me a 7/8. I did actually get to be the first 9/10 for a gent with some 50 odd reviews at that time. I feel special for that one.

But the point is, unless they post something that did not happen it's all in how they percieved their time with you. Guys get pissed off when their ATF's get low scores and it turns into a flame war when it hits the boards. All it means really is that girl is human and just can't please everyone. If I was seeing ladies, I personally would rather see a variance to a certain degree in her ratings rather than 9-10's across the board. The latter seems to mechanical to me, although I know their are exceptions to every rule.

Just look at it as some creative writing and you get to be the starlet, or sometimes the bad girl. Either way, it's all in what the fantasy was and if it was fullfilled. Sometimes it's just not possible.

kisses
L

Good question Mara!!!  I love reading mine.  Not only have they been informative about ways I can improve, by measuring consensus, but it really turns me on and makes me feel like I did a good thing!  The compliments I have recieved on my body has liberated me tremendously in the past year.  Despite my maturity, I am more confident now, because of the compliments I have recieved through reviews, than when I had a flawless 23 year old body. It feels so good to lay back naked, without posing, arms tossed back completely open, feels so sexy.  Some of the things I was most critical of have been turned around for me.  I know this has made encounters nicer for myself as well as my dates.