you ladies can kiss with such passion and not have it affect you emotionally. ( as in attachment )
I see now why some providers don't kiss. ( or at least kiss like the ladies I've seen )
For the guys who only see a lady once, could not getting attached be why??

Enjoyable if your partner has no skill. But most of the people I have met are ok kissers.

The only reason I asked is because, I have yet to find one who didn't kiss with the same passion as some of my GF's. Lucky I guess??

Then I suspect you'll know why he asked his OP  

When he has to kiss the old lady (who happens to be him anyway)

Close the eyes and think of "Fill In BlanK"

but booze helps too

As a guy who's here for the whole experience more so than for just basic satisfaction, I appreciate a good performance.   It's the same reason I like magic.  I know full well that quarters don't come out of my ears, and that doves don't appear from silk scarfs, but that doesn't make the whole experience any less enjoyable. It's fun to step out of one's reality for a few moments every once in a while.    

Since Dungman only uses these...

I can kiss like I love you. Do I really love you, no, but I want you to feel as if I do.

Not every client you click with and some are just awful but the money is good. I thought what if I could get hold of some percocet and take one about a half hour prior to the less desirable guys. A little numbness might not be so bad. Then I realized, yeah crap idea, those things are not to play with. Booze you can smell and it just makes me want to go to sleep.

For me it's not coincidence that the best kissing has been with the ones I had the most fun or the coolest conversations.  

She said her Boy Friend did not approve.  

I am sure it affects everyone to some degree.  It is an emotional, attaching act.  You can still care for someone but not hold onto them.  That is possible because of the upfront, tacit understanding.

You have chemistry it happens . Its like having a great one night stand . I was with a girl who had feelings for me , not because of what we did , but because she told me it felt like a real date and she liked the way I held her . Yup I got her # . Treat a lady like a Lady and she'll treat u like a king !

If your providers kiss you as well as your GF's , you have never been kissed with skilled passion .  

And because you can make them feel like you love them, they probably repeat. Bottomline we gents just want to feel loved along with the hot sweaty sex (lol)

I totally agree. For me kissing isn't any more personal than anything else we do. I give it my all, make it awesome then move on. Job done!

I prefer not to kiss, as I come from a dental background. Dental hygiene is as important as anal hygiene and many, but not all of my clients just don't get it.  I can smell periodontal disease as soon as a client opens his mouth.  I would rather eat rotten hamburger. Floss, brush and see your hygienist every 6 months and it is that easy.

will do whatever I need to to do to avoid DFKing a man without minty fresh breath.

sharing positive sensation feels good, and it makes me happy.  i love to kiss, but soft, sensual kissing and love are not inextricably linked.

The downside is they can get very attached and then actually think there is a relationship, wanting "off the cock" time because "we have a connection".  

I know many providers who refuse to kiss at all, and they do just fine in the non-gfe market. It amazes you that we can pull this off with men we don't know and might not be even remotely attracted to, but what amazes me is how some of you can kiss a chick that just took a nut down her throat an hour before you got there bwahahhaa. Just saying.

You recognize what's going on and try to manage the situation. There are some who might see the opportunity to leverage a gent's vulnerability for greater financial gain. Just like some guys might want some off the clock time, there are ladies that look for some "help" appealing to gents that just can't resist a damsel in distress.

That's it. I'm not kissing providers anymore.

I have had to talk to certain clients also about becoming attached. I usually adore them initially, but yes, they start to exhibit mild stalking behavior.  It is tough because I do enjoy seeing certain people ( and they are the ones who take measures to be clean ) but I don't feel comfortable with the intimacy outside of our allotted encounter.  Ugh, it can become troublesome and I don't feel our relationship should be anything more than what happens in the time we spend together.  But on the other hand I do have clients that I feel comfortable with OFC. What to do?!

Dear Ms. Rayne:
Would you say that your like an Academy Award winning Actress who is in character when you are in a call? Thus, when you said that you would never kiss a client like one you would in your personal life, would the character "London Rayne" have a certain passion that she lends to the session that her real life alter ego wouldn't?Also is everything you do within a session done minus your heart although your mind is there? What is it like when you explain the psychological dynamic to friends who might not understand this concept? Thus you have a new chapter in your book: Rayne vs. real.

Just like I never understood dancing. While I done the latter more and mostly after drinking.
But the kissing I done too and most times if not all the few times with providers. Yeah. some don't want it. Some if they do it I follow. Most probably just to experiment. I remember this girl that had the flavor of Starbucks in her mouth. See, I'll never forget that.

There is certain things a person can believe it is passionate. For instance, if a woman would only share a passionate kiss with that special someone then she will not share that with anyone unless she wants to experience that. That goes for many other things and different aspect of passionate to someone specific.

I could not live with myself for doing that. I mean these guys are my regular guys and I give them something they need. I do realize their vulnerability and instead of leveraging it, I give them what they need but will steer them right when I feel they are going off track.  

I am saying that I am not all that great of an actress, but I don't have a problem kissing guys with good dental hygiene. Though they might think I am kissing them like a past girlfriend, they will never KNOW how I would kiss MY boyfriend/husband. Kissing is very personal and intimate, and many providers refuse to do it. The very same women who will swallow your cum and lick your ass, might not kiss you because it's too personal. A blow job is about the least intimate act I can think of, as I can do it for anyone.

Teddy Bear for sleepover with just an illusion , check.

" a nut down her throat "............thanks for the visual London.    
If you ladies weren't so damn gorgeous and good to us when we get there, we wouldn't want to kiss...............so there, it's your fault.  
 

No you didn't say that. I'm retiring now! LOL

This.    

I don't know what anthropologists have to say, but I do know that years back I got really turned on by prolonged kissing with my ex. The longer the kissing, the hotter the sex seemed to be.

we're talking p4p business, of course.

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