Many experienced hobbiests have stated that "as long as you play it smart and be careful, you are not likely to catch anything."  Now I am a bit confused because if you are "careful" you would avoid providers who do greek and BBBJTCIM and swallows. Does this make sense?  I mean, if a provider takes part in risky behavior, she is more likely to catch something, and in turn, we hobbiests might catch something from her.  The irony is, the providers who are more careful (i.e. CBJ, no greek, no DFK) are less desired by the hobbiests.  So what do we really want?  Is there a balance between playing it safe and getting the most out of an experience?

...seriously-- thats what I have been saying lately, there is no real playing it safe if you are trying to have at least some kind of fun, because as I said they only have condoms for sexual organs. To "play it safe" would mean you have to cut out DATY, BBBJ, BBBJCIM, DFK, greek and many other joyus things that make the hobby fun for both parties. I dunno, there cant be a happy medium in my opinion, we either let loose a little (term used veeerrry lightly) or we become a-sensual, non-erotic, numb, no-fun fucks, and the whole hobby looses its appeal and goes to hell. I know for me, I certainly wouldnt feel as good just being a hole for someone; a penis receptacle; I actually like this job!no foreplay=no fun...

Where are those mouth condoms I asked about? someone better be inventing some...

Dani

Greek as long as your dick is covered. It is no less safe than mish in the pussy as long as you use a jimmy hat!!!!!

"Is there a balance between playing it safe and getting the most out of an experience?"

Yes, there is, but I don't know if it's something you could actually put a definition to.

You bring up some good points. It really all boils down to comfort level, and everyones level will be different. If there are particular acts you don't feel comfortable doing, then don't do them. If there are ladies that you don't feel comfortable seeing because they indulge in these acts, then don't see them.

On a whole, the subject could be debated until the end of time and no one right answer would ever come out. There's just to many of us here to ever totally agree on one thing or another.

I prefer providers that use condoms for everything, and in fact, insist on it.  I get my pleasure from being with a beautiful woman, caressing her, touching her and having her pleasure me and I her.  The monetary cost is secondary.  The peace of mind for both of us is priceless and is part of the respect I pay to the woman.

I agree that it is about comfort level with the other person.

The hobby that we partake in is risky...let's face it.  It's the kind of risk I can live with.....

"No foreplay no fun ". So true Dani..I would rather stay home and do it myself...

How about current HIV and STD test results and valid ID brought with you when you visit the provider like in the porn industry.