Interesting. My current partner in life, with whom I have been for nearly six years now, formerly was an escort but stopped long before we met. We hardly ever discuss. For about six months 15 years ago, I had a relationship with a woman in London who I met as an escort date. Whenever I was there, she would move into my hotel room or flat; there was never any charge, we just liked being together. We finally ended it because going back and forth across the Atlantic just wasn't viable. To the best of my knowledge, she married a guy a couple of years later and they now live in South Asia.

This is really going to depend on the individual. I don't think you can use other people's perceptions to figure out his.

Some guys "get off" on dating a hooker and want to hear all about her/your day fucking other guys. Other guys like myself really don't want to hear about it except in the most general terms like "Honey, my last appointment is at 6PM, so if you want to grab dinner, 8Pm should be fine"

 
I know I am trying to read a lot into a very short post by you, but it sounds like your new guy is not a "soft swing" kind of guy and unless he starts asking about your sessions maybe you shouldn't volunteer too much about the day to day details of your life as an SW.  

 
There really is no universal answer to your question. Every guy and every relationship is different, some guys LOVE to hear all about it, other guys just kind of "tolerate" knowing about it, and then there is the other group who secretly, or not so secretly really resent the fact that their GF is having sex with other men, even if it's just transactional sex she is having to pay the bills. I know this might sound obvious, but HE might be the best person for you to be asking this question to, the rest of us can only speculate what's going on in his mind. Either way, congrats on the new relationship and good luck.

and my mate (now wife) was nonchalant about it as well.

 
She never told me whom she was seeing, and I would never ask.

 
As for scheduling, she would let me know she was "busy", and that was that.

As I have related on these boards before, I was married to a provider for 25 years and we had two sons.  She was killed in an auto accident or we would probably still be together.  

She was a young provider when I met her as a customer.  I saw her as a customer for a couple of years before we started the dating game as two actual individuals. About a year later we married.  She continued to work as a provider for the 25 years of our marriage before her death. The biggest change she made, especially after the kids arrived, was becoming more of a 9-5 weekdays provider and with very few night/evening appointments.  

During the years of our marriage she serviced something over 17,500 or so. Usually 11-20 a week. More during the early years and fewer during the later years. And, lol, seldom was a client the first for the day as we both enjoyed a early morning fuck before she went to work.

We treated the situation as her job. Only vaguely discussed it, with the exception being the really funny or very strange encounters she some times experienced. Yes, on occasion, a nearby known neighbor would show up at her work/office (lol) door. That tended to be a bit delicate, but no major disasters occurred.

You, SweetMelissa, have to treat it as a job, my opinion. He, has to do the same. Be comfortable with it and not looking for sexual thrills from you providing all the little secrets and nitty gritty of each appointment.  If it looks as if your guy is looking for the thrills of being with a whore/escort, then you would probably be better off not considering him anything more than another John.  

PS: Very lovely profiles.

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I with a super high volume Korean prositute in the early 1990's at her townhome in La Palma.  I believe she has some reviews here.  I found the relationship rewarding although I knew it would never go anywhere because I didn't have enough money to satisfy her incredible gambling habit and retail spending.  The first time I paid for sex with her it was bbfs cip so obviously she extended that service to her other clients. The sex was always good and I liked it once it became free but many times she'd  service 8 to 10 clients per day.  She ended up owning two amps and was making a few hundred thousand per year.  She would talk about her clients but never the actual sex.  I didn't care.  Eventually she was caught by the authorities and our relationship ended.  I loved living with a prostitute and regret I could never find another live in.    

...being open and honest is the key....im a touring drummer...should i tell my partner if i had 3some with college roommates?....yes i would want to know about appts...yes i would tell her about my adventures..and YES...i would hope we would share and explore all the experiences we went thru....."FUCK ME THE WAY YOU FUCKED HIM!"....and i will do the same....biz is biz...if your partner does not get it....move on.....personally... i would try to make enough$$$ so you would not need too  

I would love to hear how you fucked the guy, and how he made you cum..  May be if you can share a video or two, that would really make my day.. More the details the better.  

 
Now how you want to proceed in your relationship with this dude is up to you guys... Like one of my old boss used to say.. "Talk it out amongst yourselves.."   The only rules are the ones you make..

are you bragging again that you're young and handsome compared to most of the guys here?  Lol

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2 we're great in the begining but when she starts to ask to borrow money that's the first sign of get out now!

Plus, if the relationship goes south she or he can use it against one another and rate each other out since they know
all your personal info (ie: real name, where ya live, bank accts and expensive watches,cars and safe in the house with yur guns and cash) plus it can also be used to bribe you.

Last one was mutual cause she got deported (kgirl).

I know several fellow TER guys who went down this road and it was a major failure!

All kinda scenarios that can expose he or she also.

Thank you. The best to you. If you decide to go through it, it will not be easy but is doable. It is a mind-set thing. And, it is very much a situation where too much information is not helpful.  

The more you disclose, the more there is to ruminate over.  I suggest keeping specifics confidential.