If you fall in love with one of your clients and there is no hope that he is interested in you in that way do you prefer not to see him??? OR it reallyt doesnt matter to you and you will continue to see him?

Others are more than welcome to reply. Appreciate all the replies and opinions!

That has happened to me. We were both falling for each other though. What we did was slowly not see each other as frenquently and then pretty much stopped. It was hard, but it was best.
We still chat every now and then, but with our lives (his & mine) we both had too much baggage and on his end he needed to straighten thing out big time.

Philadelphia's Tattooed Escort..

I had fallen hard for one of my clients.  I never disclosed this fact to him, for he was married and feared my divulging that information to him would make matters worse.  I stopped seeing him altogether.  It was gradual, for I always tended to be booked up all of a sudden when he called me and eventually he gave up.  

The emotional turmoil would have gotten worse as time went on.  It was for the best all around.

Lauren

Personally, I would only continue to see him only if he knew his bounderies with me. If he could not control emotional feelings, I would let him go.

Stay Safe!

Vanessa Sue, from Chicago

Ive been in the same situation before too,
In Love With A Married man,                                                                     Once your bitten by The Love Bug..
its never easy To have to say goodbye..
For me, us, It was The best for Both of us.
Remember..
To have Loved & Lost..
Is better then to have never Loved at all.
Have a Nice day!!

Suppose you get your wish and he loves you back?  What then?

Like it not, your job will become an issue for him, and maybe for you as well.  Would you quit for him?  My guess is that you need the money and can't make as much, or as fast, doing something else.  Is he going to support you then?  

Is he married?  A lot of us Hobbyists are.  Does he just want you for his girlfriend on the side?  Will he dump his wife for you?  Would you want him to?

Maybe all the answers will be the right ones, but you gotta ask the questions first.

If he doesn't love you now, and you don't expect him to in the future, you're in for a lot of pain if you keep seeing him.  Do you want to put yourself through that?  This is the same for all people, not just those in our little "world."  If you can manage down-shifting your attachment to "just friends," that might be OK, but it's not easy getting there, and not everyone can do it.

Love sucks when it's one-way.

..the right thing is usually the toughest..but better in the long run.

Sedona