That has happened to me. We were both falling for each other though. What we did was slowly not see each other as frenquently and then pretty much stopped. It was hard, but it was best.
We still chat every now and then, but with our lives (his & mine) we both had too much baggage and on his end he needed to straighten thing out big time.

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I had fallen hard for one of my clients.  I never disclosed this fact to him, for he was married and feared my divulging that information to him would make matters worse.  I stopped seeing him altogether.  It was gradual, for I always tended to be booked up all of a sudden when he called me and eventually he gave up.  

The emotional turmoil would have gotten worse as time went on.  It was for the best all around.

Lauren

Personally, I would only continue to see him only if he knew his bounderies with me. If he could not control emotional feelings, I would let him go.

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Vanessa Sue, from Chicago

Suppose you get your wish and he loves you back?  What then?

Like it not, your job will become an issue for him, and maybe for you as well.  Would you quit for him?  My guess is that you need the money and can't make as much, or as fast, doing something else.  Is he going to support you then?  

Is he married?  A lot of us Hobbyists are.  Does he just want you for his girlfriend on the side?  Will he dump his wife for you?  Would you want him to?

Maybe all the answers will be the right ones, but you gotta ask the questions first.

If he doesn't love you now, and you don't expect him to in the future, you're in for a lot of pain if you keep seeing him.  Do you want to put yourself through that?  This is the same for all people, not just those in our little "world."  If you can manage down-shifting your attachment to "just friends," that might be OK, but it's not easy getting there, and not everyone can do it.

Love sucks when it's one-way.