If she doesn't have incall or doesn't have it available on the day requested?

Hugs,
Tammy

only if she intends to keep it after the session, or at least half the room..I used to offer that I would pay for half the room and I kept the room, this was when I had no incall location...

it seemed agreeable on all parts

sasha

I don't think so... if you don't have an incall loc, they don't have an outcall loc, then MAYBE you should split the room, but IMHO the gentleman should pay for it...

I don't think you should pay for the room on a 1 hour appointment.  If the appointment is 1.5 or longer then yes I think it is fair for you to pay for the room.  IF the gent insists on incall for a 1 hour have him get the room and you can do an outcall to him.

On the other hand if you have an incall location but it is just not available on a certain day and the gent insists on that day you should NOT get the room.  He should either get one or see you on the day that you are available for incall.

It is fair for us to be flexible but not to have to spend $ when we have an incall pad or we end up with only half our session fee because the appointment was only one hour.

Take Care,
Kelli

In my neck of the woods (Long Island, NY), I have always paid for the room (I am a client) for any amount of time, with a provider that advertises she is outcall only.  So if you don't offer incall, the answer would be that you do not pay for the room.  If you do have an incall, and the appointment was an incall date, then the provider would pay if that regular incall place were unavailable.  There are providers up here that set up an incall day and rent a room for the day, having a number of clients in that same room that she paid for.  Hope this helps.

If it's an incall appointment the lady provides the location. If it's an outcall, the gentleman provides the location.

simple

i think there may be regional variations on this, but i think the real topic here is: being up front about the costs and the services.

in the sf bay area, outcall means the lady will come to your room, if you already have a room, and she will charge extra for it. incall sometimes means you meet the lady at her hotel room, and she has rented it for the day, and you don't pay for the room. either way, the terms incall and outcall code for the room payment issue, and there is no discussion about it.

as far as i can tell, the girls have already rolled the cost of the room into their advertised donation. (an escort told me she hadn't rented a room yet, and asked me to do it, offering to give me a $50 reduction on her $300 donation.)

Usually incall is more than outcall.  Some women it is the other way around.  Did the client want to meet you at a hotel, but was afraid for it to show up in his name? If so, he should pay for you to rent room.  I do not know where you do incall (home, apartment, or somewhere else), but if a hotel room needs to be involved, then the price should be reflected in the donations you post. That way there can be no argument over the cost and can keep you from a difficult situation.  Take care and have fun.

I'm not sure I understand....

If you don't have incall, then that means you are going to the guys location...his home, office, hotel room, whatever. If it is outcall, then it is up to the client to provide the location.

If you are doing incall (which you say you are not doing) then it is up to YOU to provide the location. Your home, a hotel room, whatever the case may be.

I say establish what service you need to provide on that day and price accordingly. I would treat any questions from a hobbyist regarding who was going to pay for the room as the insight you need into knowing what a cheapskate jerk you were dealing with....

I think a lot of this confusion is caused by some provider advertisements.  Her website will say that she offers incall and outcall and may even give the price per hour for each.  She does not have her usual incall location that day or in some cases she has no real incall location and will probably not have one in the forseeable future.  You book the incall appointment and when you show up at the hotel she hits you up to pay for the hotel room.  At that point I will usually leave.  If you pay the $100 for the room you will feel like the guy that books an escort appointment for $300 and after collecting the fee are told it just covers a dance and if you want her to take off her top it will cost you another $100.  I find it hard to enjoy a meeting if I feel like have been played for a sucker.  After a guy has been burned a few times he may ask about who pays for the room without being a cheapskate.  Let's face it if you knew in advance that your $300 appointment was really going to cost $400, you might decide to book an appointment with a different provider for the $400.

In simple terms I agree with Riker.  If nothing is discussed in advance an incall location is the responsibility of the provider and an outcall location is the responsibility of the client.

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I got burned on a credit card deal, once. I paid cash, but got charged something by mistake. Luckily, I caught it before the wife did. So, the last time I did outcall, I asked the provider if she would get the room, and I would pay her back the cost. I just wanted her to make the arrangements. That worked great. I not only paid her back, but tipped her generously for the trouble. Yes, it cost me more than if I had rented the room myself, but it was worth it for peice of mind.

Of course, you would probably only want to do that with a client you already new. In this case, I was setting up a session with a provider I had already met once over lunch.

When I do incall I make sure my fee covers the cost of the room or I don't do the call.Thats why I only book 2hour min.when I do incall.For outcall I will get the room with only clients that I have seen before,And I meet them in the pking lot to get the money for the room.I don't get it a head of time.It works out for the guys that don't want that paper trail.