sometimes i wonder what do guys think when they say they are going to spoil and please you. and they are talking about DATY. to spoil and please a women means-nice clothes, car,and BIG bucks. haven't anyone of you learned that yet? not just DATY.

I think it's safe to say ... if you follow all the threads around here ....  that DATY is part of the plan to give her superman-induced orgasms so that she's love him more than the guy she'll be seeing an hour after him.

But on the other hand, what do I know?  When I want her to orgasm I buy her an emerald.

DATY is for me, not her.  I truly enjoy it, and I know that with providers you're getting a good response regardless.  All the reviews I read with "she was cumming so hard from me licking her" makes me smile.  I like a good show, and I know I can't make a woman cum from 30 seconds of DATY.  I quote an 80s band when I say "lie to me, but do it with sincerity."  Make me believe that you're into me, and I'll be back, without any false senses of attachment.

Does that sound too crass?  I hope not.  I was going for realistic, but now after reading what I wrote, I'm not so sure.  I'll let you decide...

If I so desire I can buy get my own nice clothes and fancy car.  

I certainly can't do DATY on my own so guys I see are welcome to 'spoil' me anytime they want!

I doubt that I would ever say those words to any female, why even say it.  
For any female that I find myself caring about I would just try and make her happy.  With little things like flowers, candies or find something that she enjoys and surprise her with it. Let her know that she has someone who cares and appreciates her for being a kind and terrific person that she is.  Let her know that she can count on you being there for her if she needs you and always let her know that she's beautiful.  That's how I would spoil her and then on with the DATY and other acts to please her.  
I know it's corny but hey that's what I think or maybe I'm just delusional.  
Oh and why the hell would you want to spoil and please a money grubbing female with those types of gifts that the poster listed anyhow.  
Just my corny thoughts, everyone enjoy the rest of the weekend and take care.

                                 jammers

ReATY every time

Lol!  You read my mind!

xox
Morgan

A lady I've seen a few times was visibly touched after I gave her a gift of a rare Pink Floyd CD. Another provider I saw just recently, commented on my thoughtfulness in trying to find a type of flower she likes. A now retired ATF, on our first date, stayed 3 hours longer than originally booked just because I surprised her with Haagen-Daas although she had only briefly mentioned it in our pre-date conversations.
To some, it seems to be all about possessions and bank accounts.
For me, its been the little things that show you've been paying attention.

Oh, and by the way, some of us guys really ARE that good at DATY!! (wicked grin)

If you're worth it, you'll command the big bucks.  Just that simple.

Any woman who thinks like "wet lady" is no lady...she is a golddigger.  

There are a million ways of spoiling someone without spending "big bucks" (including DATY...just ask a few of ~but not all of~ my ex-girlfriends)...but they have to be able to appreciate something besides money and materialism first.  

We all need money to survive, but just because someone isn't a high roller doesn't mean they can't spoil a woman who has a broader palette.

Most of the ladies I've had the pleasure of meeting like a nice touch of a little something extra.  Maybe its candles or flowers or a nice card for a special occasion like her birthday.  To expect more material things is called "gold-digging."  Just my 2 cents worth.

...last time we visited, my favorite girl and I watched her favorite TV show and cuddled on the couch.

You'd have to ask her if she felt spoiled, but I know she felt respected, appreciated and cared for.

She is.

Yoda