I would like to know how many ASP have a size limit. I mean in size an weight. I have been turned down because of my size. If I do not mention it up front, I get there and have been turn away, or I get less than normal service compared too the studs. So I mention it up front in a email and get no response. Then send an email under a different account to the same ASP and get a response. What do you think?
Me personility, I don't feel sex is about intercourse, it's about the foreplay and as long as you have that down who the hell cares about size. I don't..
When it comes time for intercourse I'm ready and it doesn't matter if you are 3 inches or 9 inches.
Besides guys look at it this way if you have a small cock we can swollow all of you, which makes us look good in the end..
So don't be so hard on yourselves, and go out there and have fun.
I don't think he is talking about "that" size here dear...he mentions "weight", and calls himself "real Santa", so I think he is making reference to his overall physical girth...
Santa: I am a big person as well, and though I have never been turned down for an appointment, I did once have a provider tell me how pleased she was when she met me that I was somehow smaller than what she imagined me to be (this was even after I had sent her a recent photo). I have also had my most recent "date" tell me (in very unflattering terms) about a client whom she described as being "at least 400lbs". And there *IS* a reference somewhere on this very board by a provider to men whom she wishes "took being in shape as seriously as she does".
This leads me to believe that it DOES matter to at least SOME providers. Of course, it wasn't MY opinion you were seeking, so I will shut up here and wait with you for the ladies to chime in...
I've found that I've had a difficult time with some of the overweight men I've been with, not because of how they look, but because of...hmmmmm...physiological logistics. I mentioned in a previous post that I've only been in this business for two months, so I'm not exactly an expert, and other providers may have different experiences to share...Anyway, one of the things that surprised me about my clientele is how many of them are obese. The problem I had was trying to find a position that actually worked. I found that having me on all fours and the guy behind me tends to work the best, especially if the guy is VERY obese, or not-so-well-endowed. But, turning down a guy because he's overweight? No way. I wouldn't do that any more than I would turn a guy down due to age (unless he's too young!)or due to ethnicity. I'll turn down a guy if I'm suspicious he's LE, or if he's rude, or if he seems unclean, but that's about it. Cheers, all!
NO. You are a client that is paying for my companionship. No matter if your large, thin, short, tall, white, black, asian, etc etc etc. I have only turned down one client and that was because of the smell and unkeptness of his home. I couldn't take it, I had to leave, let alone let him touch me. I was out of his place in less then 2 mins. I require you to be clean and neat and not LE. Your an intelligent man and I will enjoy the time you spend with me. Otherwise you wouldn't be wanting to spend time with me.
Sorry that you are running into providers like that.
It wouldn't matter at all. We would see the wonderful qualities outside the physical. But many clients feel the sting of weight prejudice the same way some providers do. So Let me tell you a little story.
When I lived in Tallahasse,Forida I toured Orlando. I recieved a call from one of Orlandos finest telling me she had seen a gent the night before and he wished to see her again but she had a weight limit. She said he weighed about 300lbs and was just too big. She made an excuse and referred him to me. He called, was very sweet and kind and we set a date. When I got there I was shocked for a moment. He weighed 450-500lbs at least. He was about 6'tall and had the most beautiful brown eyes I had ever seen. Our 2 hour date extended to 4 hours. His brilliant wit, intelligence and passion for what he cared about were the most attractive qualities I had experienced to date. I fondly remember our time together, and still to this day exchange e-mails with him. He was one of the Best dates I have had in this hobby.
I think back to what I would have missed had I had a "weight limit". Getting to know this sweet man, laughing for hours, and sharing some special moments. I have met a couple of gents who were physically fit and GQ handsome and had the worst time due to their inability to laugh or carry on an intelligent conversation. It all depends on the person and whether or not you "click" on some level. At least that is the way it is for me.
Good Luck Santa, Keep trying darlin, I hope you are fortunate to come across one of the many wonderful providers in this business who will see yo for the person you are and not nessacarily the package you come in. But hey, I have always had a thing for Jolly Men with facial hair *wink*
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