...when the provider is more than 10 years younger than you are?

That's one reason I like more mature ladies- can you still make a connection.

For me, I can't help thinking that withuot the cash being involved no 25 year old beauty would give me the time of day let alone give me total access, while with the older ladies I can hold on to the fantasy better since it's a more realistic scenario...

I'm so old I can get cruised in a gay street!  

Or does doing someone young enough to be your daughter work for guys...?

Sully- over the 40 yard line

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I'm with you Sully.  I have a problem with women who are younger than my daughter.  Women who can't remember the Reagan Administration or life without cell phones and fax machines.  Add to that an affinity to the more mature female form, give me a woman over 35 anytime, 40's even hotter, not many 50+ providers out there, but I like them too.

Now don't get me wrong, young women are beautiful, sexy and hot too, but I need and am aroused by the company and conversation as well.

Bribite, over the 50 yard line

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Sully, I agree with you for the most part, but my ATf is only 26 (I'm in my early 50's) and we connect in so many ways that the age difference isn't even considered.  I believe that if the chemistry is there, age is unimportant, although admittedly this doesn't happen often.  YNH.

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It all depends on the woman; but given the same personality, menu, and level of sexual compe-tence in a 20 year old or a 50 year old; I’m more turned on by the 20 year old.  I think that makes biological sense, because a male is more likely to successfully impregnate a young female, and that female is more likely to produce successful offspring--just basic instinct.

As a matter of performance, in my experience, a young female will be more likely to be energetic, firm in the right places, and wetter in the right place. Of course, you’ll find all those characteristic in older women, and a much better chance for a wide menu selection, sexual competence, and a more interesting, stable, motivated and likeable partner.  But the turn on factor of young pussy is there for me.

Bob - over the 60 yard line.

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I'm in that same age bracket and prefer the 30 somethings
My ATF is only 30, we get along so well most people think
we are a couple.

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May not really be refering to me, (I'm 35 years old).

However, I'm in agreement. I prefer women that are within about 5 years of me. Also, I have no problem with older women.

I've been with the twenty year olds and they're no fun. And, usually horrible in bed.

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Well my ATF is more than ten years older than me although I would have had to be quite the stud in the 6th grade to be her dad (LOL).  It seems to work well although I must admit I would have problems with someone my daughters age (16 but then they would more than likely be legal problems too)LOL

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I just reached the 60 yard line.  I much prefer ladies that are more than 40 (at least).  I would love to meet a lady at or close to my age who is independent, still in the business, and likes herself enough to take care of herself.

dude-  like what-  

Hey nineteen- like?  She can't remember the queen of soul?

you aren't hip to Limp Bizkit? Nelly?

I am interested in that mechanics of how one makes it work without resorting to "you- the young one with the pretty face-  blow me!", heck I bet some of the sex slang is a bit different today for the under 25 set!

I am in my early thirties but find I connect more readily with the older women.  Sometimes over 10 years my senior (though the ads do not admit it). For me, that is alittle weird.

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I for one like the fact that I can have terrific looking women even though in real life they wouldn't give me the time of day.  Age makes no difference to me so long as they are intelligent.  I prefer girls younger than myself and I don't kid myself into thinking that they really like me.  While I have become friends with some providers, I don't ever see them socially, probably because of the age difference - but that's OK with me.  I like to pay for the company and then move on.

I remember about 15 years ago seeing an 18 year old but in all honesty I haven't seen a provider under a true age of 27-28 in forever.

I've seen ladies ranging from 19 to 45 (I'm just over 50) and have always found plenty of things in common with everyone I've seen. So making a nice connection has not been an issue yet.

On the other hand, I saw a young lady who has a personality very similar to my daughter. She started getting silly and did a couple things to me that my daughter does to me to try to get a reaction (obviously non-sexual things.) That was a little unsettling, as I thought about it later.

I agree ... when I think my daughter is just about her age .. wow .... 25+ is a good range for me .....

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I think it is wonderful that the more mature folk on this board enjoy the company of older providers....

It leaves more of the young ones for me!

SaveAHo

Wish I could PM you, but since I can't..

In my personal life, my guys are considerably younger than me.
The average age difference has been 12 years younger, with one being 17 years younger, and two being 20 years younger.
My two (out of 4) sisters who are married, married men 12 and 14 years younger. None of us specifically sought these differences out, rather, it was the men, and the age difference is merely incidental. In my personal life, this works well for me, for various reasons, and I see that it works well for them.

In my Provider life, I thoroughly enjoy all the varieties, and have been really blessed.

As my statistics professor used to say in preface to almost every answer to almost every question (yes we had statistics back then .. we needed it to invent the wheel), "That Depends ..."

I know gals 20+ years younger than I who are engaging, intelligent people and who share many common interests with me (I know a 26 year old who can quote NFL rosters for the past decade, knows the words to every Pink Floyd song every recorded and can speak at length about the pros an cons of Bordeaux versus Chateaunuef du Pape).  I also know 50 something gals who are full of life, joy and so young at heart that they make one feel 17 just by walking in the room.

Unfortunately the reverse is true too.  Being jaded, cynical emotionally bereft doesn't seem to have any age barriers either.

Age is just a number.  

But then I still think I'm 28 and for the life of me I can't figure out who that white haired guy is in the mirror every morning.

On the other hand, speaking of statistics, it does seem to me that the older providers seem to receive consistently higher scores for performance on the review pages.

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I have a 20 year old daughter.

No way would I go for the young things, though I can talk "young" with the best of em....

Just makes me feel like a pervy old man.

35 or above for me..

However, we mature guys will have to meet you the next time you date one of the ladies to make sure you are worthy.   What are your intentions, you young whippersnapper?  Don't forget, she has to be home by 12 and bring me the $$$ (which goes to into her college fund).  Guys like you help a lot and it's a hell of a lot more profitable than babysitting...  Harry

are gonna have to chase you through the sewers mr. lime?  Are you the third man?

That's how old I am duder!  I can recall that film- and the Kim Philby scandal that followed

it really depends on the individual lady as I believe generalizations are fraught with peril. I think my recent review of Sophia sums up my feelings on this specific issue.

Although I may have a preference for more mature ladies (since I am just a click below the half-century mark, myself), there is a lot to be said for younger ladies as well.  It takes all kinds!! Why limit yourself anyhow??

Ike?  I barely remember Ike!  And hardly anything of his presidency.  

I have a business associate who just married a 24 year old hottie, sure the sex will probably kill him.  However, after the sex what do you talk about, what common interest could you possibly have?  Mind you this girl is a poster child for dumb blondes, I'm sure there are some pretty mature in spirit young women.  I just don't want to use my hobbying budget to find them.

I had an older woman when I was 16, she was 38 (my girlfriends mom and both were babes).  After the sex, she really had no use for me, she had an older boyfriend (50ish) to socialize with, all she wanted was sex from me, I fucking loved it!  But she kind of ruined me for girls my own age, none of them could suck and fuck like her, not even her daughter!

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i hope this is not surpose to make me feel old. my birthday is in nov. i will be 45. when i'm with a man i feel like 25 but then when i'm by myself i feel my age in bed at 8:00....

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No not wanting you to feel old- just wisihng someon like you was here in LA with a strong desire to massage frisky dudes- I'd be there often...

go to work for an auto dealership. I have never concerned myself with the mechanics of making it work (what ever that means). Although I have never said it in quite the same exact fashion how you so elequently phrased it above, I have always been able to get a "blow job" while only using the most minimal of words.

Basically I am in the minority on this board. As such, that I really could care less if the escort is a "g.f.e." or not. The only mechanics I am predominately interested in is - how deep can she take my cock down her throat. As well as the mechanics, I am also intensely interested with the area of physics, whereby, I like to see how much action is required from her tongue to cause the expected reaction from me.

I don't really require any type of "connection" from a paid companion. I can get more than my fill of conversations with an intelligent and well-articulated female perspective, either from my wife or from several scholarly women associates who I work with. I don't have any voids that need to be filled in that respect.

Getting on point, I prefer the older lady....ooops I mean the more mature, sophisticated, experienced lady. The only reason being is that typically they give better head. Of course, there are exceptions. I was seeing one paid lady for a couple of years who must have been 25,26--but man, could she suck a mean cock. Other than my wife she was probably the best I had. I really don't discriminate against age for someone who is going to be strictly a bedmate. However, I do require that beyond liking sex she really must love to give head. Unfortunately, regardless of age, there are only a select few that fall into this category.

Using your football analogy, I am a yard over mid-field. Typically if dining out or some other social situation that requires varied conversation, I can relate better to those who may have been at Woodstock in '69, than those who attended the Lollapalooza Festival a few months back. Other than my kids or a couple of my direct reports, I don't usually spend much idle time with those under 40.

I hope in your given situation, that you can eventually work out the mechanics(whatever that means).  

   

-- Modified on 10/10/2003 5:21:41 PM

I think I love you, too! Wink. Mature ladies also rock!

Hugs,
Ciara

thanks for reply-

I need to chat a bit and empathise before I can get frisky- so I wondered about the "mechanics" of the situation.

If you don't need the verbal intercourse- it is so much easier

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Hey I am in this "hobby" for one reason and it isn't for the chance to connect with a women intelectually or certainly not emotionally. No I don't want someone who is really inexperienced but I have had as many disapointing sessions with the over 30 provider as the early 20's type. (No turn on for me if they are much over 30). Since I was not very outgoing as a teen or in my early twenties the "hot young ones" are definitely a turn on for this dirty old man.

I used to think that I could not relate to women more than 10 years younger, then I decided on 20 as I got older.  For a long time I stuck to women around 28-35, who are usually appropriately experienced, opftern very horny, and still great looking.  But for the past year my favorite SP has been a precocious 21 year old woman (37 years my junior).  She knows about almost nothing that I hold dear (old songs, movies, books, etc), but we have great sex, great conversations, and laugh at our silly jokes.    
   Just today, after a fantastic romp she asked me out to dinner.  We actually discussed the topic of older clients.  We are her favorites, not just because we are a dependable source of income, but because we know how to make her respond physically and emotionally so well.  Before she got into the business shortly before we met, she would never have imagined having sex with an older guy.  Now she thinks we are the best.  So what's weird about great sex enjoyed by both parties?

That's MR Duder to you.  

I am actually the love child of Harry and Lottie Lenia (she was briefly separated from Brecht and they had a torrid affair).  

The Third Man was my father's favorite film.  I was a kid when it came out.  I have been in Vienna, but not in the sewers.  

Since you know your history, you probably also remember that Philby was "the third man" in the MI5 spy scandals.  For extra credit, who were the first, second, and fourth men?  ...  Harry

It's called a learning curve.

I completely agree with " if the chemistry is right" thing. A young beautiful woman who is intelligent, interesting in other ways than just her looks, and provides stimulating conversation will definitely win me over. Compared to some of the women I've seen who are older, 35 and up, a matureminded younger lady is fantastic for me.

I have encountered some younger ones that are quick studies!! Just look at my last two reviews. Again, it is all based on the individual lady. Generalities aside, each of these ladies are very special in thier own right and therefore, should be appreciate for what they have to offer. That is what makes our time with them special.

I wish to add that each encounter is what you want to make of it. I have found that if you invest a bit of yourself, then you will be richly rewarded by your lady. (Unfortunately, it doesn;t seem to work with wives for some strange reason).