Do any of you prefer a "mature" provider (let's say 40-ish) over young blonde hardbodies?  Why/Why not?

Because many of them are VERY sexy - and they know the proper way to wear hot lingerie.  And they appreicate me as much as I appreciate them.  Mind you, these are the mature ladies I like, I have met some who were jaded and tired/uninspired.
Whicj just showed me to pick what I like, not an age.

And you thought on one reads your posts!  Dating a Grandma!!!  NO, I'm not flaming you at all.

I've been with providers as "mature" as 54 years old, and as young as 20ish.  I'm just going on 56 years old.

There's a good deal to be said about the bodily attributes of a youngster, and certainly there are some that are wiser than their years (I just spoke to one in Las Vegas this afternon).  But....

A mature woman with experience, intellectually my equal (alhough I'm not a rocket scientist), who can relate to talking about things that actually happened in the 70's (and sometimes the '60s), who knows a mature man's body and mind, can be a wonderful experience.  And for some reason, I believe that by and large they enjoy what they do more.  I don't know why I get that feeling, but I do.  Maybe they're more appreciative of a gentleman.

Given an absolute choice between youth and attractive maturity, I'd be hard pressed, but in the end I think maturity would win out.

I love 'em, women in their late thirties - early forties.  There are even some fifty-year-olds I'd like to nail.  Why?  

1.  Still have their looks, for the most part.

2.  Have the experience to know what they're doing.

3.  Much better attitudes.  Don't act like they're doing you a big favor.

4.  More of a connection for an older guy like me.

I'd leap over a beautiful young girl who thinks she's a goddess, to spend time with a sexy older woman who might actually care about what she's doing.

These mature ladies are incredible.  I've been with about 10 or so that are 40+, and with one exception (I was actually her first client) they were all simply awesome.  The newbie, probably by now, has got the nervousness out of her system and should be doing just fine.  At some point I just may find out.

I think #4 is right on...  By the mid 30's it just seems like providers are more "settled down" about everything.  They generally (not always) are more organized, more professional, more involved...  When I leave a meeting almost debilitated by how emotionally and physically entangled the provider left me, it always ends up being a more mature provider.  When I have one of those days when the physical part was so intense my legs are still shaking on the way to the car, it always ends up being a more mature provider.  And when I leave a session disappointed by how uninvolved, or how rule-intensive a provider is, it always ends up being a younger provider.

I think it's because there's two ways to be a 30+ year old provider...  You've either been doing it a long time or you were doing something else and made the decision to become a provider much later in life--and either is a good thing.

I think mature providers are usually more comfortable with the trade-off...  They either (a) like the lifestyle and genuinely enjoy the contact and the emotional exchange, or (b) don't like it as much, but still make a genuine effort to respect and care for their customers because they genuinely respect the financial contribution he's making.

Papercup is right on the money.

Mature ladies are much more relaxed in their attitudes and try to enjoy the session.

My current ATF is a hot redhead that is in her 40's. Never seen a younger woman that could hold a candle to her.

No, I am not sharing! :P

I have read tons of reviews where the provider was a young hottie and the activities described sounded very tame.Yet time after time at the end of the review the guy states that the girl looked so hot he would definitely repeat.

Why, on ads, do young (18-25) providers always emphasize their age? I think most of us realize if a provider's age is not mentioned in her ad, she must be in her late 20's or older.

When walking through malls, you guys almost break your necks looking at the college-age girls with cute figures. LOL.

Recently, somewhere on these boards a poster mentioned the ultimate fantasy was to do a hot looking 18 year old virgin (and I've heard that before.)

I'm not doubting the above posters individual comments about mature providers, but I wonder what the rest of the guys think, because what I've read and heard seems to be to the contrary.

I'd love to see more feedback.

I have to say, I absolutely love what I do and yes, i'm one of those providers who started late in this business, I believe I was 40 now i'm 43. I've found i'm more comfortable and can relate more to men in my age range and I do believe it's because we've shared more lifetime experiences and have more to talk about.  

Although success in this business has more to do with attitude than maturity and age, I compliment those younger women with great business minds and having set goals and using this entity as a way to achieve them.  My introduction into the world of touring was from a 20+ escort who taught me the ropes.

Reo you think you're the majority, though?

I am incredibly interested in a mature provider,  a Ms. Robinson type, if anyone could give me some feedback on a name or two or three..that would be great..

thanks guys...have a nice afternoon

The "right" physical features certainly attract a man's attention. It's made several magazine publisher's succesful.  It sells countless products.

I've observed the bees-to-honey action when a new, young, provider with an hourglass figure appears on the scene (often with higher-than-the-norm rates).

I believe there's a range of personal preferences, and our preferences may be influenced by our experiences.  I believe I prefer a more mature provider because I've had "empty" or shallow experiences with babes who had only a body to offer.  And, for me, there's a little more to the experience than a 5-second event.

Only about myself.  For me the ideal would be a 20 year old with 20 years of sexual and worldly experience.  But I’m still searching for her

In the mean time I’ll settle for a 30-40 y/o who takes care of herself, can hold her own in interesting conversations, and understands her body (both how to use it and how to excite it).  [But I’ll keep looking for her.]

Whether you're 23, or 43 - who cares? I just looked at your pictures - HOT, HOT! A body to die for! (and a beautiful face)

I would think you'd shout it at the rooftops! Just to hear people say "What!? No way you're 43!"! LOL


Sedona

experience of being intimate with a woman, and that brings so many other things into play, as others have mentioned.  

Female sexuality is complex, and it's far more complicated than being given a youthful body with all the right parts.  Many women, even highly sexual ones, seem to take years to come to grips with the various aspects of their own sexuality.  Being "hunted" like sexual prey by every guy in the world probably doesn't help develop the healthiest attitude toward men either.  But as a woman get older, her maturity and experience makes her more comfortable with herself and her partners, and increases the enjoyment for both.  

Maybe it's the very fact that she's been replaced in the "prey" category by the next young crop of hard bodies that relieves her of the pressure she felt when she was only being viewed by every man as someone with whom they wanted to have sex.  Whatever the reason, I've known too many women that have said they didn't really learn to enjoy sex, or become orgasmic, until they were older to think that there isn't something to this.  By extension, it's only natural that if mature women are having more fun in bed that their partners will be enjoying themselves more too.  

We all understand the advantages of a young body, because that's where we start out when we learn about sexual attraction as young adults. .  But that alone makes for a pretty one-dimensional experience, and frequently not enough to satisfy a more sophistactated man's needs.  After all, we're not just selecting pictures on a web site, we're selecting a real live person, and unless you want an experience that is as one-dimensional as the photograph you are viewing, you should look beyond just the body.

Reo you think you're the majority, though?

Maybe not.  And yes, I too check out the young hotties at the mall.  Eye candy, that's all.  Maybe good for whacking off to later, but that's about it.  Don't have the desire to hit on them and would probably never contact a provider who looks too young for me.

You're always finding time to express such wonderful thoughts, no wonder you're one of the top rated escorts in San Diego!

Hugs!
Tygrlily

A Woman of 20 knows she's suppose to dance.
A Woman of 30 knows how to dance.
A Woman of 40 knows *why* to dance!

This is also true of Men

I just turned a very fit and functional 60 -- will take an older woman every time over a younger woman.  The business takes a while to learn how to do it well and ladies who last have something they can be proud of.

And beautiful You are at that age, Tygrlily

I just looked at your pics, and you are extremely beautiful!!!!! I, myself, am proud to say I am age 34, and I am looking forward to aging with grace/beauty/style (with you as my role model)

Mel..meow

What a wonderful thing to say! If you ever come to San Diego, I'd love to show you what a beautiful city it is!

Thanks, Tygrlily!

Kisses,
Sedona

Reo you think you're the majority, though?

With respect to age what I've found with providers isn't any different than what I found with 'civilian' gals.  I definitely prefer gals who've reached 30+.  

Realizing that there are certainly exceptions to any generalization such as this is, but all this is based on my personal experience.

There is no reason that physical beauty has to vanish at age 30.  As long as a woman takes care of herself she can still look as good at say 35 as she did at 25...I've known several who've looked even better in their 30s than their 20s.  But sexuality goes much deeper than simply looks, its comprised by everything about her..& while looks may be as important as any other single thing, it's less than 50% of the total of all.  The best times I've had, in either 'civilian' life or in this hobby, have been with gals over 30.    

Maybe if I was a MP only type of guy, or one who disdained meeting more than once, I'd feel differently.  As it is I prefer to repeat seeing the gals who can stimulate me in many ways...much more than simply getting my nuts off.