OMG when it's going so well, the last thing I want to do is bark out the words that I know are going to bring an end to the fun.  I do know when it's gettin real close and I squeeze my butt cheeks together to get the last stroke or two...but can never really be sure...then they get pissed.

It's not that I care if they swallow, I just don't want the moment broken.

'T would seem you need to find the NQNS gals to be most happy.

I don't get it?
First of all, unless he prefers to come some other way (or save for round 2, or 3), I have every intention of going TC. I mean, isn't that the object? What fun is it if not? That's like sucking on a tootsie pop and never getting to the soft, chewy center!
If there have been any difficulties, discomforts or fears, no one has ever expressed it to me, and I certainly haven't seen it break the moment.
If you can just breathe one word: 'now', that works for me, but it's not as if it gets dropped like a dead fish once you do!
Even though I don't CIM (for my own safety practices), it's pretty dang close to it, depending on what you do.

And yes, I can usually tell when you're close. Let me know what it is I'm lost about..

For me it makes or breaks what can be a great BBBJ, BBBJ is good in itself, but A BBBJCIM no spitter is pure heaven. But saddly many don't do this, and I respect their reasons. It does up the level of risk for them. Or if they can do such a good job you don't know the difference its a close second. But no I have never given pearl necklaces or facials before either. But I have never popped without warning, or given warning. For me the physical signs of whats coming are always there and always clear. At least I never surprise the ones adverse to it.

But no it is not a pimary thing that I look for, but it is a secondary one. It can be a tie breaker for me anyway. If I can't choose between two.