I would appreciate the truth. Please email me on TER or use an alias.

As to the fa* bashing, I don't want that.

I want to know who is bi, bi curious, or realize you are gay.

Thanks for the input.

Shaye

ps. I do like bi, bi-curious and gay men. I am not out to expose anyone.

It's a fair question.  I'm not - the notion of sex with a guy turns me off physically.  I'm curious about doing an MMF threesome, but my lack of bi-ness makes me a bit queasy.

Sorry, I couldn't resist.

but there is nothing about MY gender that remotely turns me on.
EEEEEWWWW.....YUUUUCK.....BLAHHHHH!!!!.

 I'm not a homo-phobe I'm just hoplessly heterosexual.

  FR.

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Nope.
I was involved in a MFM one time, it was fun and it really turned me on to see her getting off.

The best part was while the other guy was in Mish, I wanted some action too. He evidently had his eyes closed and when he opened them there I was, LOL, right in his face, but in her mouth. The look on his face was hysterical!!!!

But I can't say as I have ever wanted to have sexual relations with another man. I'm also not opposed to another MFM. FMF, FFM is much more to my liking though!

I will admit,I have wondered what it would be like to be on the recieving end of what I normally give out. This is pure fantasy
and nothing that I could or would actually go through with,but
the thought has crossed my mind.

I have wondered what drives some hobbyist'to seek a TS encounter.
I have clicked on some handles while looking through reviews,
and have noticed some have a long list of "hetero" accounts
with a TS review or two or three mixed in. I guess some guys
are willing to go through with their fantasy of being topped
or actually giving a BJ,but can't bring themselves to see
a gay man. After all that would make THEM gay wouldn't it?
Maybe I'm wrong,but isn't a TS a gay man that has been
"tweaked,"so to speak. As far as I'm concerned if you have
a cock, you're a man,regardless of whether you've got tits
or not.

Like a lot of fellows who enjoy sex as much as we TER members do, I was sort of bi-curious at one time. So about ten or eleven years ago, I hooked up with a woman and her husband for an evening. Really enjoyed the woman. Couldn't touch the husband, other than shaking his hand. Guess I found out the answer to that one.

Thanks, Shaye, for reminding me of a funny experience.

Yes, yes, I'll finally admit it, I am a male lesbian.

I so prefer women that I will never be with a male, ever.

Sorry boys, nothing personal, but I am a male lesbian at heart, always have been and always will be.

So get use to it, you're going to have to live your lives without ever knowning me in the biblical sense!

(hehehe)

Unless it straps on. Then I might be interested.

I have never been with a guy, but have occasionally fantasized about it.  However, in the fantasies it has always been just the body parts.  Never specific men.

Never been attracted to or turned on by a guy.

So, does that fall into the "bi-curious" category?

Actually, I am much more hetero-female curious than I am bi-curious.  Now if anyone knows a way I can experience sex as a woman once or twice, that would be interesting!!!

I tend to think that if someone could come up with a temporary body-swap, this would be a very popular item.  Imagine, if you could swam bodies with your partner and then have sex.  I think most people would try this, because, lets face it, even homophobes are narcissistic enough to be willing to have sex with themselves.  

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One of the hottest things I've ever experienced was to have bi sex with a husband and wife. I was nervous about doing it but now I'd probably try it again. I'd definitely have to have a female there who was heavily into it and honestly loves it. I'm not turned on by guys. Really, I'm not. I don't walk around checking them out. Women are what gets my head to turn. But with the right woman who sets something like this up and wants to push some boundaries and explore, my head is spinning like a top! I'm your boy.

So I guess that makes me bi. Except that I'm only interested in oral. There was only oral interaction with that husband and me and I'm not interested in greek with a guy. I doubt that I could ever do that but you never know. If I did I'd have to be the pitcher, not the catcher. So maybe that makes me selectively orally bi? I don't know.

The important question is this: Shaye, when do I get to make you wet?

woman only

then we can play~

Shaye

Hi there!    :^)

know who I am because I've shared this in person.

I had an ATF I saw quite a few times and for lengthy session.  This lead us to investigate eachothers minds as well as bodies.  I soon learned that she had done just about everything you could imagine.  I would get turned on thinking of trying what she had done with others and wanted to do them with her.  As time went by we did a lot of those things, but some weren't done because they invloved having a third or forth person.

One time she told me of two guys being in her vagina at the same time.  My first thoughts were sort of OMG arrousal.  But she then pointed out that you had to be very OK with your penis touching another guys penis.  I hadn't given that part of the act any thought until she mentioned it.  It played on my mind for a few months.

Later I wanted to experience the next level and wanted to do something with her that she had never done before.  I asked what she might fantasize about.  She told me that she might get turned on having two guys with her and at some point the guys get involved with oral with eachother.

I wanted in the worst way to bring her fantacy to reality.  The thoughts of the two cocks toughing while being in her and of her doing deepthroat on a guy then offering his cock to me played through my head a lot.  

So, to answer the question.  I came very close to getting into that situation.  I would have done it for her as much as for me or more so.  It never happened and I don't know if I'd be able to do it if the chips were down, but I sure spent a lot of time contemplating it.

i am NOT gay , not that theres anything wrong with it ......................................................absolutlly no intrest here but to each thier own , dont preach or impose your views on me and i will respond in kind.
  that being said , im a 100% female lovin rug muncher !
  that being said i find lesbians or girl on girl soooooooooooo erotic !!!
  that being said ,it makes me a hyprocrite.......flame away......

:>)

I have had a couple MMF encounters...a married couple who enjoyed giving the wife a variety.  It was mostly about him watching his wife with me.  We had a good time, but I was definitely not interested in doing anything with him.  Let's face it, I'm a flaming heterosexual.

That said, I have discussed the possibility of an MMF encounter with a provider who said it would get her off if we BOTH got paid for the encounter.  She's not particularly interested in seeing two men together, but she has a fantasy of being penetrated by two men at the same time.  Might be fun!

Yoda

I will start off by saying that given most men's ridiculous attitude about this subject (as is indicated by how many men very pointedly posted on here that they AREN'T bi, when the only thing Shaye asked was who WAS bi...and made cute remarks like "male lesbian"...gosh, that was funny, what, 30 years ago?) there is NO WAY I would post this without an alias. As I post regularly, I would never hear the end of it, and I don't want women I might be interested in questioning seeing me (which is totally unnecessary anyway...see below). However, Shaye, I will PM you and tell you who I am for real.  I just wanted to post this to rock the house!

I am totally bi.  

I could go into a long speech about how I mostly prefer women, could never kiss a guy or be in a relationship with a guy, and fantasize about women 99 times as much as about men.  However, for that one percent of the time, I absolutely love thinking about sucking a guy's cock, or about having his dick up my ass.  I have used a vibrator sometimes for years, and it feels great!
I have not had a full bi experience in quite a while (almost 13 years), and the main reason for that is I am too health aware.  Unless it is a guy I KNOW is safe, I would never try it, and most who I know that well I am too familiar with to go that route with.  My last expereince was at a nude party, and only involved mutual masturbation.  However, 13 years ago I had a bit of a time with a gay man I worked with (and therefore knew was safe). Unfortunately, to put it bluntly, his cock wasn't very big, and it didn't do much for me.  However, I loved sucking on it as much as I did, and I would have a cock in my mouth tonight if I had the chance.  My bi-sexuality tends to only go so far as "sexual acts" (nothing affectionate, really... doesn't spark me at all), but the sexual part makes me seriously hot.  I have never done it, but I would absolutely LOVE to have a guy come in my mouth...I think the feeling would be awesome...and I feel the same way about being on the receiving end of anal sex.  I have had girlfriends fuck me in the ass, and we both loved it.  It didn't feel demeaning at all...and I would never ask a woman I was with to do something I couldn't do myself.  However, I am not insecure with my masculinity.  I know I have strong male and female sides in me, and sometimes they overlap.  There are too many things in the world that are enjoyable to not do them if you enjoy them.

I'm bi.

I suck cock and like to be fucked by a top
or TS.  I always use a cover when receiving
greek.

I prefer women - 99% of my
sexual encounters are with women and
(except for an occasional TS girl) 100%
of my hobbying is with women.

But occasionally I like to have fun with a guy.
Or groups of guys. I don't get turned on looking
at guys by themselves, but watching gay porn does
turn me on.  It's the thrill of doing something
totally taboo, and the sensations.

Being fucked feels nice if the guy goes slow
and uses a lot of lube.  Similar to being fucked
with a dildo by a provider.

I would love to do a MMF encounter, however its
very hard to find and arrange.  The idea of sucking
cock and getting fucked while a lady watches with
excitement, excites me.

I am using an alias also, because I would not want to
get razzed by other hobbyists, or turn off providers
who are not into the idea of bi male sex.

[email protected]
Minneapolis

Just curious (no, not bi-curious) do you tell women your intimate with that you are bi.  I believe most (just about all) women are very much turned off by a bi guy.

Now, I'm not saying it is your responsibility (afterall, I'm not telling my wife I see providers) to tell but just want to know if you stay ``in the closet'' to be able to see women (to be blunt, most women don't want in them whats been in some guys ass - IMHO).  

In contrast, it seems that the gay/bi guys you see would not care ????

I only mention it to those providers
who seem unbiased and into it.

I since I bottom with guys, and use
covers, I think there is no issue about
where my tool has been. If you do greek
with female providers, it should also be
covered. Going bareback from one ass to
another is wrong, no matter what genders
are involved.

Du7de-

most chicks gid it!  Or am I hanging with a avant garde crowd?

Just wondering which of these lesbian roles you prefer to fill.  Or perhaps it's both?

Yeah, gotta agree with this.

As far as I'm concerned, sex should have only one penis involved --- MINE!