To date, I've been told by three women that they would prefer men older than 26yrs. old. Is that true? They said the youngsters don't do it for them.

I imagine the women who told you that know from experience that older men tend to be better in bed, having had longer to perfect their performance!

I tend not to judge by age.  I've just been on holiday and had the most amazing sex with a 24 year old.  It really depends on the individual concerned.  But, as a general rule, older tends to be better!

You and I have the same problem brother.

Mine is $1K/day - what do you think the avg 26 and under has as an ATM limit?  J/K  - Was I once a callow youth, with boundless testosterone and semen adding very little to a romantic interlude, however brief and ultimately pointless [I dont believe even higher volume providers are wholly indifferent to those they take within the most private sanctums of their selves; its a female trait, and quite understandable].  Worse, I was a frat rat, a mentality that lingers in the male psyche for quite some time.  Some men never grow out of it.  After a while, wisdom teaches that manhood is something that doesnt require constant proof, but instead is something to be offered for the enjoyment of the female and to be shared mutually male to female and female, responding with her womanhood back to the male, for the pleasure of both.  And wisdom also teaches that the experience of sexual satisfaction involves the enjoyment of the entire person, not merely discrete body parts; the whole IS greater than the sum of the parts. Do you need to be older than 26 to know this? Not necessarily.  Let the providers weigh in as to whether it is their experience that 26 is a bright line of distinction.  [hey, its still just IMHO]

Yes, I would say that that is true - most of the Providers I know prefer appointments with older gentlemen. I think the youngest I might be interested in seeing would be 30 and probably that's right on par with the other ladies. It's just more 'comfortable'.
In my personal life, my 'bf' is in his early 30's, and that works very well for me and my personal plans.

But we love you all,
Sedona

"Except for an occassional heart attack, I feel as young as I
ever did."
           --- Horace Benchley

..the women that I was told this by are more concerned with the lack of respect that the younger guys had for them. It wasn't the "erection" that they had issues with. But when the lack of respect was combinded with the lack of experience, they wished that the guys called other providers. I swear that I did not know a single thing (life and love) until I turned thirty.

Age means nothing to me, but in my case, most 20 year olds aren't interested in what I bring to the Sandbox anyway so it's not much of an issue. The few that do enjoy a curvier, more mature woman, have usually had extraordinary experiences, early on in their lives, with an older woman, that set the bar a little higher and the younger girls just can't touch it. Once they taste the "Prime Rib" it's hard to go back to "Ground Beef"...*wink. Hey, if they want to play in my Playground, I say "Bring it on".!!! But they need to know,going in, they just may be the one crying "UNCLE", so don't under estimate the stamina of an older woman, if you can't go the distance, stay out of the race. LotsO'Licks on the Pink Parts, Robyn

Ultimately it is about the Benjamins. Guys that are older have had more times to build their businesses and careers, and are going to have more disposable income.

Emotional maturity is also going to vary between younger and older guys, but there has to be a reason other then money, that some ladies prefer clients over 30..........

As far as the performance issue is concerned, just because there's a little snow up on the chimney, doesn't mean there isn't any fire down below in the hearth ( : MfSD.

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Men aged 20 to 65. That's mostly because I just happened to have two very young clients who were absolutely two of the best clients I've ever had!

Hugs*
Nicole

I am Goldilocks..
..and YOU..
are just right..

Sedona

You don't realize it until you experience it, but as a man ages, his sexual response becomes more compatible with a woman's.  Let's face it, when you're in your 20's, lovemaking (or should I say power-fucking) is pretty physical.  And worst of all, the male/female sexual response tends to be way out of synch.  

As you get older, the male and female responses starts to merge and can make for more enjoyable sex.  I'll admit it, sometimes I miss being able to do what I did as a twenty something, but I know (because women tell me) that I'm a better lover now.  I thought I was really respectful and conscious of a woman's needs when I was younger, and I certainly read up on everything I could get, but the reality is I was always ready to explode and it was hard to disguise.  So while it's been a while since I've made a partner too sore to walk, I don't think too many ladies miss tthe athletic performance in which I once took great pride.  I know they feel like I connect with them more now, and that they're not simply a body for my use.  

Lot's of young guys have money, so I'm not cynical enough to blame provider's preferences for mature guys on the mercenary instincts of women.  But enough women have told me that I believe it to be true, they just find it more pleasurable to be with a guy who has gotten a little more sophisticated in the way he relates to women- both in and out of bed.  Sex can take on a lot more dimensions and start to be more satisfying for both partners if you start to think outside your own pleasure.  Learn to relate to a woman in the totality of her being and you'll be a pretty popular guy- regardless of how much you can bench press.

Note:  I should add that 1-Way seems like a sincere guy in asking this question and my response is directed to men in general and doesn't mean to imply that he's doing anything wrong when he hears women state their preference for older guys.


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but at the end of the day, chicks prefer us because we are more dependable with THE CHEDDAR!

Even the women seem to be wiling to delude themselves, till we get our friend from London telling us what??? On Holiday, (FOR FUN) she boffed a 24 y.o.!!!

Now that it's time to go back to business..bring back the gray hairs...and greenbacks...

Cheddar baby, it always about the cheddar.

I don't mean to discount the value of what you are saying.  Its just that we have beat this dead horse over and over again on the boards.. In some flavor or another..

I am 35 years old and frankly I feel that I hit it off with those 30yrs+. I have never been into younger guys I still remember when I was in high school my boyfriends were all in college. I can not speak for anyone else however I think I click better with older men. I feel that the younger guys are more into the younger or the perfect 10's(body) girls so I have nothing to worry about.
It takes all kinds.........
Kisses & Licks.....
Mara of San Diego

I think that seeing really young guys for the most part is really unpopular for some of the reasons stated but there are a few others...

Now since I am being paid for my time... I want to spend it with someone who ideally interests me as much or more. Ok, this isn't hard for me but you know what I mean... I am not sure what the average age of providers are but I can assure you that most are out of college, except the ones going back in like me...lol Having said this and purely speaking for myself, mental stimulation is very high on my list. I don't care if I talk to you for 10 minutes, the vibe I get from a gentleman is very important as to how my date will go. GENERALLY, really young guys are a bit too nervous or not very confidant in themselves and it comes across as this is going to be a great f&*k and another notch in thier belt.  However, on the other hand, I have and still see a few young professionals who are in their 20's and are really great. I really enjoy them actually. I agreed to see them because they were respectful, sincere, and genuine. I wasn't about the bennies, I can promise.

If you are young, be patient, and try to find someone who you can connect with which may take a bit of effort. I am sure it will be worth the effort!

xoxo
Brooke Butler

I was putting the question out there. Actually, most of the ladies say that as long as a guy is clean, respectful and above 30 he can expect a good time.

That's why I asked them about the 20 somethings. Of course, this does not apply to all of the younger guys.

Sorry,Couldn't disagree more...."Cheddar" means nothing, if the client is an ASS...I've refused to see clients of all ages, just because their not a "good", "quality" person. Their money was all the same color..!!! If you see Providers, that see clients only for "The Cheddar", then that says more about you, than her. As far as the original posting is concerned, as others have said here, it's more about attitude and where their head is, which can be up their ass no matter what age they are...!!! I got a call from an eager "Puppy" of 28, last night. What a Sweetheart.!!! During our conversation, (which usually involves questions like," What are you looking for during our time together.?", "What attracted you to my ad.?".) he said"I love to kiss, and most girls don't like to kiss", and also "I love to take my time, licking, sucking and melting into your body, that's why I love older women, because they seemed to love that too..!!" Now do you honestly think I'm going to refuse to see this Love..??  No Way Baby..!! I'm not missing him for the world..!! Kisses, Robyn

I recently had a 20 something guy contact me about a lady I see back east. This gal is mid 30s, an absolute doll, and a way over the top GFE, not to mention one of my favs.

But this poor guy was so worried about her being an old bag, he even said that her voice didn't sound like it matched her pics (LOL). I assured him that she was the real deal. He took my advice and saw her, she rocked his world, and he waited a grand total of three weeks before seeing her again ( :

As for 40 something Marco here, I'll be back east in exactly 31 days(but who's counting) to spend lots of quality time with this lady...............MfSD.

and I'm glad you did! I can't imagine accepting an appointment, or staying in one if he's being a real jerk. Outtadere!
Woohoo - sounds like you got a sweetie - good for you! That's when you don't turn them down!
Have fun!

Sedona

But, I understand where you're coming from as well.

Peace,

BK

It's true that most older men are more gentlemanly, or at least more polished, than very young ones.  It's also true that they generally have more experience as lovers (but not always!), but it's the case that they are somewhat more likely to have performance challenges, especially beyond 60, which they quite reasonably expect me to help with.  On balance, I do prefer to see men over 35 or 40.

While older men usually are interested in me anyway, since I am also mature, I also seem to attract the occasional younger guy with a fantasy -- he wants to play the naive lover, and be educated (a la Mrs. Robinson), or he really is a naive lover who wants training, or he has a fantasy about his mother or older relative.  The former types are fun, the latter I've stayed away from, just because I'm not sure I could pull it off.

Abby