What qualifies a provider as an ATF?  I realize it's a personal opinion but I'm interested in some of the qualities that make up an ATF.  And do any providers have ATF hobbyists?

The list is long and varied for a number of reasons.

One gent that I had the pleasure of seeing in Vegas will always be my absolute ATF. We can spend hours talking about any given subject. He taught me how to play 3 card poker, loved to just hang out in a coffe shop and chat and he respects my right to privacy and I know beyond a shadow of a doubt I can trust him. He aint too shabby with his tongue either *wink* It is these kinds of things that make the physical so much better in my book. The intellectual connection can make the phsyical so much more enticing. But the best is even now in my retirement we still connect, talk about our lives and families and give each other advice. He was a true BFE in every sense of the term and because of his respect and true caring about the women he sees in this hobby he and I will remain friends for a very long time.

My other ATF is the first gent I ever saw in the business. That date determmined whether I was going to continue with this business or not. He was kind, gentle, romantic, a great lover and has turned out to be one of my best friends. His attitude and his thinking and the way he conducts himself within this hobby makes him an ATF for alot of ladies.

I lucked out in so many ways. Maybe it was my insistance that I have a connection with the guys I saw. Maybe it was the guys who came to see me for more than a body to bang but for the conversation and companionship...I dont know. But what I walked away from this business with was a large number of men who I could classify as ATF's but hopefully will always be my friends.

xoxo
Lass

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Even I have met some ladies who are more beautiful, have more connection with or offer more services, my ATF is still someone I think about from time to time.

I am glad but also sad to know that she will probably leave this biz in a couple of months.  A few special ladies do leave indelible memories in my heart.  She is one of them.

... that one day I find a provider who can be my ATF with your articulate intelligence, sensuality, love and compassion

When you have seen the lady twice or more in the last month and you are champing at the bit to see her again.

My ATF's are those who I choose to see regularly.  By the true definition there should only be one, but then your ATF would change all the time.  

XOXO Charis

Certainly some men stand out in my memory a lot more than others and I look forward to seeing them and talking to or receiving their emails.  My favourites are always those with whom I've 'clicked' mentally as well as physically.  I can think of one guy who was adventurous and very good in bed and my nights with him were great but I wouldn't consider him a 'favourite' as there was no real mental connection (great physical one, though

Well as I have said before I have had several ATF's.

My first was my first provider who gave me greek and used to hang out in the hot tub with me at the massage parlor.

My second was the first one to get me off the bed and onto a couch or a chair.

My third used to give massages using her rather long nipples everywhere.  I haven't seen this one in 13 years and I still think about her.  What a turn on

My current is more of an intellectual connection.  She is also the most beautiful one but she taught me how to smoke a cigar, introduced to a whole new style of music, e-mails me and calls me.  I enjoy the sex with her but I enjoy her companionship everybit as much.  She has opened parts of her life to me and as the others have said, it just makes the whole experience more enjoyable.

So ATF's for sex and ATF's for companionship.  There is someone out there ready to be your ATF.  You just have to know what you want.

I have many many favorites, and not enought time or cash to see them all again, and the those very special ones know who they are, so I guess I'm still looking for that ATF and when I truely find her I'll leave these boards and we shall never be heard from again......

I have a few ATF's, all for different reasons are that all ATF's.

One tha comes to mind is a wonderful gal I met in Las Vegas.  We learned 3 card poker together (she doesn't remember, but we learned from a crazy but lovable Mexican tennis pro and his twinkie GF). Hanging out in the coffe shop just talking about anything and everything was totally rad.  No inhibitions in or out of bed.  And her tongue ain't so bad either *wink*!  She's also totally trustworthy.  I tried to be the good BFE, and she turned out to be the total GFE.

And even now in her retirement, we are still in contact, and we are still very much good friends.  And we will be for a long time to come.

An ATF is someone that makes you stop trying other women and maybe even think about leaving your wife for.  You're miserable when you're not with her and you wish she wasn't so popular with the other hobbyists.  I've had a few ATFs in my time and my current one is the best.  I am out of my mind with happiness when I'm with her.  She returns some of that feeliing, but no doubt thinks I'm crazy to be the way I am.  I know I've improved myself tremendously trying to get her to adore me in return and those benefits will always be with me.  I doubt that I would ever go back to trying out just a bunch of different girls for variety ever again.......