Some providers require a shower when you arrive at their incall. So does the shower time count towards the hour-long session? Or should the clock start ticking after the shower when the interaction begins? A shower and drying, etc can take 10-15 minutes. So what's the rule?

at the scheduled start time.  It's pretty common for the lady to have the gent shower when he arrives for the appointment. Some ladies will even join in.

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If you arrive recently showered (as you should!) it shouldn't take more than a couple minutes to scrub the essentials (pits and crack) and to mouthwash.

Don't worry about it.  There is no "rule"... some count it as clock time, some don't, just as some ladies run overtime and some will have you out the door early.  Read reviews and look for mentions of being/feeling rushed or not.  The feel of the time is much more important than five minutes either way.

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The shower is just as much a part of the meeting as the rest of the activities. If it's a big issue for you, date a girl that jumps in with you and cleans you up "really, really good." In my book, there's nothing more pleasurable than taking a shower with a really hot woman who knows how to get you squeaky clean. Good hygiene is good for you and her, so don't make it an issue, or find someone who does not require the shower.

I've seen one girl who jumps in with you and the fun starts there.  The first time was a shower and the 2nd time was a shared bath.  Both very nice.  So the time counted.

10-15 minutes???
If you arrive recently cleaned, it shouldn't take that long. Something to practice at home.

You could always invite her to join you too.

For me, I start my own 'clock' when I walk through the door, shower or not. Since I like to shower before I leave, that gives me about 40 minutes in an hour. If you book 90 minutes or two hours, shower time is not noticeable.

Look for the phrase "not a clock watcher". These ladies are usually more liberal with their time. However, be a gentleman, if you go way over the agreed upon time, you should  compensate the lady for her time. If she's a sweetheart and says "don't worry about it" than tip her.

How dirty are you?

Just wash the pits and privates, and if you been working with your hands, make sure they are well scrubbed too.

Do take the time to dry off thoroughly though. Nothing is more annoying than having a gent hop in bed still half soaked and getting the bedding soaked.

A quick shower and dry off shouldn't take more than 5 minutes or so, and honestly, are you really going to quibble over 5 minutes?

There are no set rules and it totally depends on the girl you decide to see.
do your homework and research the girl and it should be quite clear.
and go down few threads to questions for considerations for more info.


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A shower should take about two minutes in this case. You should assume that the hour starts when you walk in the door. Put the donation down and excuse yourself for a quick shower. This isn't your morning ritual we are talking about here.

You may think of it as a waste of your time but trust me, if you smell bad you are not going to have nearly as much fun as if you smell good. There is also a very good chance that you will wind up on the gal's Do Not See list for hygiene issues. It's a two or three minute investment towards getting your money's worth and having a good time.

your right it is not a morning ritual but you are so right about showering even if you showered in the am and are seeing her at noon a quick shower will make your session that much more comfortable and fun.

A provider's time is money.  Therefore, when they book you for an hour, they expect you to stay for an hour.  If you need a shower, then know that's part of your session.  There was an agency years ago that started the session after the shower, but that is rare and much more easily absorbed by an agency.

A guy can do a lot with an extra minute and a half.  Turn on the water, get wet, get out.  Hopefully she's on her knees when you start to dry with a towel.

Who wants to count minutes rather than enjoy the company of the lady you are seeing?  I can't remember the last time I booked an hour and even with a two hour date, I prefer longer.  The lady is a professional, but she is trying to earn a living as well.  I want her as relaxed about things as possible so I try always to book longer allowing for showers, chats, her confidence after some initial time together that I am neither a nut nor LE, whatever without time pressure.

The shower is a good thing! You want to take the shower as soon as you get to the ladies abode. This shower should not be a major development effort...5 mins or so, assuming you had a through cleansing in the AM at your place.

Clean is good! You & your partner will reap the rewards.

I once was a the finish of a two hour session with a lovely lady.  She asked if I wanted to shower before I left, and I decided to do so.  She announced she wanted to shower to as she was going to dinner after I left, so she jumped in with me.

That led to a nice playtime shower session, which ended up back on the bed for another 30 minutes.  Then another shower session with some cooldown fun, and she invited ME to dinner, but only if we went Dutch.

So for my two hours, I got 2 1/2 hours and a dinner companion that turned everybody's head in the room (she was gorgeous).  Not a bad day, overall.

Now do you really want to quibble over a few minutes of shower time with a lady....or just get in that shower, freshen up and have a good time ?

Showering just assures her that you will be nice and clean...allowing for her to be able to truly get into the expereince with you....

Used to have a lady, Carrie,  back in New York City in the late 80's, that added a whole new dynamic to the shower time, and went out and bought everything from soap crayons, to soap foams and everything else to make the shower time part of the whole playful exploring each other experience.

She never seemed to have dry hair because of her having such a good time in the shower with the clients, but no one ever complained about having to take a shower with her.

But she was unique in the fact that she was just her and didn't care if one saw her with no make-up or with wet hair,she was actually quite sexy that way... where other ladies may decline jumping in the shower with you because they just showered, spent an hour or so doing their hair and make-up to look beautiful for you....

It really is an individual thing...and while most agencies now do count shower time as part of the time, it is simply because it is in the end the ladies time..... not just the agencies.