What does "open minded" imply?  My impression was that when providers state this they are more sexual open. One provider I recently saw whoes site states she is open minded limited activities to no BJ, covered or otherwise, CFS only in the missionary position, no fingers, no kissing, etc.  Is this "open minded"?

I was attracted to her and the during the initial contact I felt comfortable with her and I thought the feeling was mutual.  However, quickly after things progressed to more intimate activities she started telling me her DO NOT list. The longer the session lasted the sooner I was wishing that it would end.  It did end with me closing my eyes and thinking of some of the beautiful providers that I had been with previously.

I understand YMMV and that sometimes people do not click or maybe the client is repulsive due to hygene, appearance, etc.  Hopefully the problem was not me.  Do I have the wrong idea what "open minded" implies or do some providers include this language on their web sites or posts just to get more dates?

Speaking for myself, I think that the concept of "open mindedness" is subject to individual interpretation.

The provider in question no doubt, honestly believes that she is, in fact, "open minded".

However, from my point of view I would be curious to hear her definition of "sexually conservative" or "close minded".

You can file "open minded" right along with "truly independent" and "tired of rip-offs?" and "the girl in the picture is really me" under the heading, "Things contained in provider ads are often times fictitious and designed for one purpose and one purpose only.....to get me to go see her, not necessarily to guarantee me a great time."

Follow my golden rule of successful hobbying and you won't have any more let-downs.  Become a TER vip member immediately.  Read reviews constantly.  Learn who the guys are who write great, honest reviews and follow their lead.  See only providers with a minimum of 3 reviews (preferably many more), and unless it's a sea of 8's, 9's and 10's in the performance categary....bu-bye!!!

TER is designed so that the sweetheart providers who love men and love sex prosper and the ladies who do to you what just happened toil in relative obscurity.

Better luck next time,

Jacksonlips

I think it's one of those useless statements that has no particular meaning other than to make the product somehow seem more appealing.

I always thought openminded was a suggestion for full service and not much more in terms of a GFE experience.

I have always described myself as open minded even before I was a escort and I think i do have that phrase on my website, yet I am a massage escort and don't offer Full service

I guess what I meant when I use the term "open minded" is that I'm open to suggestions.
I won't frown upon anything even through i reserve the right to turn down requests that I'm uncomfortable with.

I think you answered your own question in the second clause of your last sentence.

If in a review, it's stating that she is allowing x,y,z, and she only does x with you, I would say that it is a ymmv moment. I have to also agree, that reviews should be taken with a grain of salt. There have been times, when I got a review, that I did things that were not even in my vocabulary, and I could have sworn, that I was in the same session with this gentleman, and don't remember doing those things lol

Mel

I'll take your word for it, always be carful and have fun!


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"Open minded" is a nebulous term that has no formal definition.  I think it means something different to each person.  Reading the reviews is much more helpful in choosing someone, in my opinion, than looking for nebulous terms in websites.