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DateJessicaK See my TER Reviews 2448 reads
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1 / 37

Hi everyone.  I want to get some ideas and opinions on something I am considering.  As of right now, I offer a GFE and my website is geared toward extended dates.  But, I am thinking of adding to my services.  Mainly, I've seen some ISO for couples and I have a gentleman friend that escorts UTR but would be available to do appointments with me for those that want either an additional bi-man or just want to watch live porn.

My question to the board is:
Should I add this to my current website and add a rate for us both?
or
Should I keep my current website as a GFE and have another website for things like, pegging and doubles play? You know - One's sweet and One's spicey

crazyshit 548 reads
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2 / 37

For me PERSONALLY, an escort who makes it a part of her platform to offer another man in the equation is someone I would not find nearly as appealing.  The fact that you are talking about a bisexual guy...that's really a dealbreaker for me.

You can do what you want in your personal life and in your professional life, but escorts who I KNOW are engaged in sex with bisexual men are off my list.

clarence37 37 Reviews 399 reads
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3 / 37

Personally, the only reason I could see for starting an entirely new website is if you believe that one persona will turn clients away from the other... like those looking for a GFE would be scared away by the image of you wearing a ten inch strap-on :-)

foreroticreview 17 Reviews 568 reads
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4 / 37

As the previous post advised, this really comes down to branding.  If they are two distinct services then the two sites might make sense.  Personally, I see this as the same service for different audiences and as such I would simply have a picture of myself in a three-or-foursome with verbiage underneath such as "click here for information on couples role-play experiences".  Please let me know when that picture is available for consumption.

:-)

You stated that your male-friend is UTR and I would think that his appearance would be just as important as yours to your target market.  Maybe make him an offer that he can't refuse to have his photo on that new page (it would not be hard to sell me on this, but then you make me very weak at the knees Jess) and failing that, see if he will let you email his pic to potentially interested parties.

GreatLakes 539 reads
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5 / 37

it's better that way.

Greatlakes

DateJessicaK See my TER Reviews 508 reads
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6 / 37

This is something I am considering and have not tried yet.  I've never been with a bisexual man (to my knowledge), but he is very sexy, safe, and I've known him for years.  But, I am not interested in having sex with him just for the sex.  If this would add to my business, it is something I would try.  If it will take away from my business, than it is something I might stay away from.

jangoroncee 41 Reviews 402 reads
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7 / 37

agreed.it's not the homophobia per say.but the fact that hiv is much more wide spread in the gay community

swingsbothways 457 reads
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8 / 37

and like having everything on one web-page.  Perhaps have different links like you do now with pictures, etc...

Finding ladies who are actually interested in other women and willing to join a MFF is not easy and I think would be an addition to your business.  I don't think I have ever heard of anyone being turned off by two women together.  

What might be difficult is bi-men.  I am with crazy and am completely turned off at the thought of two men together.  My partner and I are currently trying to put together a MFM but there will be no crossing of the swords.  Even if the guys were into it, and they are not, I would be grossed out.  This is one where I think you are going to have strong reactions and feelings. And not that you couldn't grow a strong business on this fetish, but it might be an either/or kind of situation.

Best of Luck!  

BTW - I think you are really hot.    

Posted By: DateJessicaK
Hi everyone.  I want to get some ideas and opinions on something I am considering.  As of right now, I offer a GFE and my website is geared toward extended dates.  But, I am thinking of adding to my services.  Mainly, I've seen some ISO for couples and I have a gentleman friend that escorts UTR but would be available to do appointments with me for those that want either an additional bi-man or just want to watch live porn.

My question to the board is:
Should I add this to my current website and add a rate for us both?
or
Should I keep my current website as a GFE and have another website for things like, pegging and doubles play? You know - One's sweet and One's spicey

LovetoDaty 7 Reviews 428 reads
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9 / 37

Use your main website as your primary but provide a "teaser" with a link to the more kinky stuff. I'm not an IT guy but I think you would do higher with search engines having reciprocal links??

Nolklylu 58 Reviews 390 reads
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10 / 37

Just curious as to whether you are considering this new service in response to requests you are receiving or some other market feedback? Personally I would simply expand your menu and hobbyists will self select according to their interests. The fact that you may work with a bi-man from time to time is not an issue for me and I doubt you will experience a decline in business

TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 530 reads
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11 / 37

Cuckhold, videos, the works.
All of it was on the same site as her GFE stuff.
I didn't take them up on it, but it didn't scare me off either.
I do remember thinking the guy was in the next room though.
Kinda weird. Especially a bi sexual guy.
So that could be a reason to separate the two.


That was the only time I saw a site like that.
I can't really answer your question. I don't know that much.
In my personal experience I didn't care.



bluepillman 552 reads
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12 / 37

Grossed out? Really? Shouldnt you be in history class like all your other 7th grade friends? I am beginning to think you are a plant. You cant be a real person. You rip Melissa from Minnesota because she dare backs the 2nd amendment, you want to boycott half the companies in America, then a few threads down you back sensoring the board and kicking people off that dont meet your approval and now this ridiculous comment? Seriously, you need to grow up. Fast. Or get some meds. Or do something. You're pathectic. So lets review. You have a problem with the First Amendment and the Second Amendment. Any others we should be aware of????????

harborview 10 Reviews 398 reads
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13 / 37

but links.  
I know a gal who does GFE & Dom Mistress.  She has separate sites with links.  That way you know it's there but it's not "in your face" if you don't swing that way.
HV

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 511 reads
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14 / 37

and don't want others to know about the cheaper rate so you don't lose your gfe rate, no need to not list couple and double rates. I do the very same thing. My single rates are listed, and then I just do the basic "couple" rate for 2.5 hours. Any longer duration, they can email me for a rate. I like the way Sarah Prescott does hers with the tables, so that's another idea. You can put your single rates on one side and double or couple rates on the other.

swingsbothways 466 reads
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15 / 37

I prefer men but like to play with women as well.  I do not have a problem with men being Gay.  Obviously do not have a problem with it considering I boycott businesses who make financial contributions to anti-gay groups.  But yet I am turned off by two men having sexual contact.  Cannot watch gay porn and do not want to be in a room with two men going at it.  Just not my thing.

Does this mean you like having sex with other men and watching them?

swingsbothways 493 reads
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16 / 37

I do not know if a woman is serious about seeing couples if she does not include a rate for it.  There are many that read "really - bi" but I do not take it seriously if she does not address this service specifically.  Instead I assume she is playing the ratings game on here.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 520 reads
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17 / 37

Yes, that might be a good idea to keep separate, but who knows. I believe Sarah also has a male partner that she does doubles with. Just put "FMF-xxx," and "MMF" xxx." The two Ms together signify that the men will in fact be TOGETHER, but if you put MFM, that just means two guys on one girl and not interaction between the men. It can get tricky, so I would just put that you offer couple play with both sexes, and have a male partner available.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 463 reads
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18 / 37

Why is that so odd? MANY people are turned on by two women, and not two men, myself included. I don't "judge" those who are gay, but I can't help what turns me off...that's called a PREFERENCE, not a judgement. I don't find gay men "gross" in itself, but I also am not turned on by watching them have sex. I am however turned on my watching two women, and I am NOT gay.

DateJessicaK See my TER Reviews 534 reads
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19 / 37

So, I think I will use her model if I decide to offer this type of encounter.

bluepillman 449 reads
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20 / 37

And we are all quite relieved that you "do not have a problem with men being gay." Dont expect any medals from GLAD anytime soon, though.

bluepillman 401 reads
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21 / 37
London Rayne See my TER Reviews 462 reads
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22 / 37

Licking ass also grosses me out. You can't help what turns you on or OFF. Many guys think fat women are gross, skinny women are gross, etc. One can't help what they are not aroused by. I think that's all she was saying.

DirtyDaego 11 Reviews 405 reads
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24 / 37

What the fuck is your deal, assjack?

Is it your goal to do nothing other than hijack threads and turn everything into a cluster-fuck?
What kind of board addict, whack job, toolbag brings up shit from other threads for no reason than to jump someone else's ass?
You have serious issues.
Seriously...take your own advice and get some meds...or a life. Throwing every post off topic just to argue with people makes you look like the childish worthless douche-nozzle that you probably are.

Calm the fuck down, shove a blue pill up your ass, get laid, and see if you can *not* fuck the board up for 24 hours. That would be a good start.

swingsbothways 405 reads
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25 / 37

and for continuing to be a whiny little bitch.

JustGopherIt 2 Reviews 436 reads
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26 / 37

Sounds like maybe a word choice issue ("don't have a problem with").  I think swingsbothways has demonstrated that she has a very open mind based on the posts I've read.  

As LR said, you can't help what you are turned on by and what you are turned off by.

DirtyDaego 11 Reviews 447 reads
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28 / 37

Seriously...isn't there *anything* you can find to do in Philly that would give you some semblance of life??

Your posts under your real handle actually had some value once in a while. Why the need to change and hide?
Did Mommy not hug you enough?
Did Daddy hug you too much?

swingsbothways 433 reads
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29 / 37

I know you are used to acting like a jack-ass on here and people putting up with it.  But you started shit with the wrong woman.  I even gave you several ways out.  To stop the silliness without me making you look like an ass - but you didn't take it.

bluepillman 470 reads
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30 / 37

You are fucking despicable! And find me ANYWHERE I called ANYONE a bitch or a whore???? You just self immolated! I am DONE with you and your lies! You owe Melissa an apology!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh lemme guess. Someone hacked into you computer right?

bluepillman 429 reads
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31 / 37
mnjohnny247 19 Reviews 413 reads
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32 / 37

....You think this person swingsbothways is "open minded"?????  Have you been reading the same board as I have?  This woman has demonstrated that she can be rude, judgmental, self righteous and nasty and very far from open minded.    

Posted By: JustGopherIt
Sounds like maybe a word choice issue ("don't have a problem with").  I think swingsbothways has demonstrated that she has a very open mind based on the posts I've read.  

As LR said, you can't help what you are turned on by and what you are turned off by.  

swingsbothways 395 reads
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33 / 37

Although I am sure you will still miss the point.

swingsbothways 302 reads
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34 / 37

It was rude of bluepill and I to hijack the post.  I shouldn't have allowed it to drag out.

DateJessicaK See my TER Reviews 414 reads
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35 / 37

I don't think I'll change a thing.  I've never done MMF or MFM and for now, it will have to wait.  I'm still keeping an open mind, but for now I'm just going to keep doing what I do best...and that is one man at a time.

crazyshit 517 reads
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36 / 37

That this is something you normally partake in.

That might not be appealing to your heterosexual client base.

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