Guys, if given the opportunity to enjoy the company of two beautiful ladies for an overnight date would you, A) cater to only one of them and ignore the other, B) enjoy the company of both equally, C) prefer to watch the two of them and jack off, D) none of the above.  Would you engage in a threesome with a woman you have or had feelings for? Consider the feelings of both ladies when answering.

I'm contemplating doing a 3-some next month with a porn star I know & one of her friends....I told her I have no interest in watching them together, I want all the attention, & she had no problem w/that & even said that is what most men prefer.....So I would enjoy the company of both equally...

I'd enjoy both of them equally, and expect to get overwhelmed!!

I have only once had the company of two ladies.  I was in lust with my ATF at the time and we had spent many happy hours together mostly weekends and always extended time dates.

She had a very good friend in the biz whom I had gotten to know just because of the friendships, eg. I'd call my ATF and she occasionally would pass the phone to the friend.

On one of my trips to their city I raised the issue of meeting the friend.  Of course it went to the suggestion that we have a session.  Doing what I do, we all went out to dinner then had fun later.

Now to your question.  I guess in retrospect I felt like I had to make the friend not feel left out and in doing so I devoted most of my attention to her.  Later I felt sort of odd that my ATF was essentially left to watch.  She did participate some, but the friend got the bulk (pun) of my attention.  ATF was really OK with it since we spent the rest of the weekend together, but I suspect mostly because she is a professional and would never let it be known that she felt any different.

You forgot mutual, chain reaction pleasure!  The end result is wobbly knees and the loss of most motor coordination, but well worth it.

Any guy, given the opportunity, would go for the "un-chartered territory" first and foremost. It's like being a kid in a candy store, he can't get enough of it and wants as much of it as he possibly can knowing it'll all be gone soon.  As a professional escort we understand this and don’t make a big deal over it.

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and yes, I've feed the SO to a lady; next up maybe is a guy provider

In a threesome, I feel that it is important that all the participants enjoy each another's company equally (Option B).  I also enjoy watching the two ladies enjoy themselves together and masturbate while watching them (Option C).  I feel the key to making all this happen is to try to ensure that each of the ladies want the experience, that they are turned on by each another, and that they are truly bi and enjoy being interactive.  Otherwise, time will drag and there will be many awkward moments.

Option A is not an option - It is a threesome, not a twosome.  Option D - None of the above??  Does that mean you just get a good night's sleep while the ladies listen to you snore??

That's my .02,
Ken

find two ladies who are really into each other. I've got a lifetime of happy memories from one encounter with two fabulous ladies.
Treat them equally. Go with the flow.

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Enjoyed a threesome recently with two lovely ladies and B was my choice.

I've done this once.  Its funny because unlike most guys, its not one of my fantasies.  It just doesn't turn me on really (girl-on-girl action).  I've been offered this on four separate occasions (all different women) and only accepted once and then only because I didn't want to be rude.  I would have loved to have seen the hestitant look on my face when she asked me!  The one time I accepted, both were providers.  The other three times were strippers (two former pornstars) that I wanted to see alone.  I'm pretty sure they were proposing it so they would feel more comfortable having a friend with them as they were not ordinarily providers.  Anyway, it worked out ok but keep in mind that it was mostly alternating BBBJ.  If much FS had been involved, it might have been complicated.  Two girls...twice the performance anxiety (just kidding) LOL

I'd go for option B, and I probably wouldn't do it at all if I had feelings for one of them.

Funny timing,for this question.Just had a threesome this past weekend,with ATF and her friend she introduced me to last month.I did pay a little more attention to my fav,but I tried my best to share equal time with both lovely ladies.Will maybe do it again,but not in the near future.Just had the opportunity this time ,because both were in the same city at the same time.

I have never done a threesome. To be honest I don't have the desire. Part of the turn on for me is pleasing the person I am with, and I just don't think I could concentrate on more than one person at a time.. There is just so much to explore with one person,and so little time.. I rather save my money and see each of them seperately.. Just me...

That changes things in my eyes.  With an extended amount of time I believe you could easily hit option B with no problem.  Even an ATF after 5 or so hours of undivided attention would need a break.  It could become a nice relay lay - handing off the baton - so to speak - to the next runner.  Then in the end all three falling asleep together.  Wow - shades of SUMMER LOVERS.  Can this be set up easily???

Fulling knowing you're going into a date as a threesome and all parties are supposed to enjoy each other's company equally the outcome is always controlled by the guy who is fully aware of his actions.

...as I would presume most men have at one time or another, and would see myself wanting to enjoy both women equally well.

Funny thing though, about those feelings you mentioned…kind of changes those desires and fantasies that we may have held onto for so long, waiting to fulfill.
As others have posted, these types of arrangements don’t always go so well, and “considering the feelings” of one special lady involved, I wouldn’t want to mess with a good thing.

Besides, she satisfies my desires and fantasies just fine, all by herself…

SM

I'm certain that she would be happy to oblige if she knew your true feelings.  Why don't you get honest with her?  

If you like her and she likes you, I'm sure she would want to make you happy. Particularly since she is in the business of pleasure.  And obviously you cannot go to your S/O for this.  

I think the gents before us made a wise comment though ... choose two women who like/trust each other.

Bon Appetit

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...that I have no desire to be with another woman, other than herself. She hasn’t stepped in and kept me from fulfilling any needs or wants, she simply has brought about a change of heart. A change I might add, that I am very comfortable with.  

And as far as being honest with her, we communicate very well together. It’s getting past our own insecurities that seem to be the reason we don’t always believe what we hear. Telling her she makes me happy is a whole lot easier than convincing her she makes me happy. But we’re working on that one too…

Thanks for the input; you sound like a real sweetheart  

SM

The question bespeaks a certain amount of pique.

As a very infrequent flier, I cannot expect to know any provider well.  Accordingly I have reservations about booking a threesome with two ladies who already know each other pretty well--and two ladies who don't are unlikely to accept such a booking.  I have done a threesome just once (for my first session of the internet age), and I found I disliked that odd-man-out or new-kid-in-the-bed feeling.  Still, the fantasy persists, so my plan is to book with one provider for two hours and have her friend join us for the second hour.  Has anyone else here tried this approach?

I would start by watching them together while jacking off and then end up catering to both and being catered by both.

This is a similiar situation.  I go to a club and have 2 (or sometimes 3) of my favorite girls with me. Paying attention to the 1 or 2 dancing is hard.

Had just such an experience last week - my first.  Not all night, but a couple of hours, or more.  B & C.  Watching them was a treat, although I helped.  Having two girls share a BBBJ is a wonderful experience, especially when they love it as much as you.  DATY while being CG'd is a wonderful experience.  Doggie, with mirror, while watching the other pleasure herself is fun.  All that having been said, will probably not do the threesome thing again.  I really prefer to give all my attention to one person.