First, a little background.  I am 33 years old and a paraplegic (both legs) since birth.  Although the physical aspects of sex are, for a large part lost on me the desires are still there becuase my brain is quite normal.  For the last several years lapdances have been a perfect outlet.  Erotic, yet not entirely sexual, contact with attractive women.  A recently passed law here (L.A.) will take away this outlet once it goes into effect in a short time.  I have thought about turning to providers, and, after reading reviews on this board, found a couple well reviewed providers I would be willing to try, assuming I could get into their trick pad.  My question is, have any of you had a physically challenged client like myself, what did you think about it, and what advice would you give?

I have seen a client for many, who like you is paraplegic. My advice is to be up fron with the provider and to get creative, you'd be surprised of what you can come up with

By the way I am thinking about coming to LA next month...

Dave, I can offer you my own personal experiance...
I dated a man (my personal life) for well over a year that was paraplegic.  His desire was there and he was lucky enough to also have the physical ability.  But I never questioned the fact before our first venture into the bedroom, i just figured if he had restrictions he would let me know.  
Be honest with the girl upfront, what you want out of a meeting.  Im sure she will be respectful of your wishes and if she is not...  Contact another girl that will be.  Remember, it is the journey, not the destination.
Good Luck!!!

I, too have personal experience with physically challenged. My mother was handicapped before we were all born (yet she had us anyway) and my mother in law also.
I took care of a Quadriplegic Vietnam vet for a little over a year.
Unlike PJ, I don't have any intimate experience, but I think that as long as you are upfront with the lady beforehand, and can guide her during, I think you'll find many who are willing to accomodate you in the best way.

If you stick to high quality and well reviewed ladies, I doubt you'll have any problems.  Simply be up front, tell them what you wish of them, and let them know what, if any, limitations you may have.  Then relax and enjoy.

BTW, you should lose the term "trick pad".  They're now referred to as "incall locations".  Just a bit less derogatory.

Happy hunting and good luck.

F.

I am a provider and have seen 2 different clients in wheelchairs. Tell her upfront how it is for you, what you can do and what you can't do. Tell her upfront what you would like from her. Also, the LAST thing she will want to do is hurt you, so make sure she knows that pressure here, or touching there is ok

Find yourself a caring provider and you will enjoy yourself very much! Even if what you are able to do is kiss and play with her and cuddle, that is a lot of fun!! That is how it is with one of my clients, and I really enjoy it....he plays with me and he watches me lay there and enjoy it and wiggle around on his fingers until I come. Doesn't sound too bad huh? *wink*

*smiles*
Jan
Kansas City

Thank you all for your replys.  InterestingWoman your email has been sent.  Jan that scenario (DFK+FBSM+DATY/fingerplay) sounds perfect, and your rates are in my range too ($$ 1/2...$$$ if we hit it off well while setting up the first session), to bad we are so far apart.  One other question, how do I balance being "upfront" with getting to specifics to fast?  I would prefer not to waste any time "on the clock" if I don't have to, but I also realize the need for discretion.

Hi Dave, have we met???
Either way, I have seen someone just like you and I had a GREAT time. I was mostly interested in what was between his legs.
You should mention it ahead of time but I doubt it matters.