I have read a lot of reviews lately, and lots of guys write that they experience BBBJ or CBJ as well as full service during a session, but they then close out with a hand job.

My question is: Why?

When I was in high school, I was dying to meet a girl who would put out more than merely a hand job. Now I'm with a beautiful, sexy woman, but instead of finishing inside (covered) or in a hot, moist mouth (covered or uncovered), I choose to go with something less.

If I want a HJ, I have two to choose from without shelling out hard earned cash. So I'm just curious to  know what I'm missing here.

Thanks

different strokes i guess

the one's that I've read seem to be suggesting that they were not able to pop with a condom on, and/or during bbbj. The handjob was a last resort. Though, I've heard from some guys, here, that a good handjob can be just as pleasurable as any of the rest of the full service menu. Different strokes for different folks.

Literally! Lol!

Some cannot (or do not like to) finish covered. Many ladies who offer BBBJ do not offer CIM, so an HJ is the only option for an uncovered finish.

-tessen

Check out the GOD of all reviewers, he always prefers HJ finish.

Yeah, maybe I should have just asked him..... But I've seen it wity others as well. Maybe a PM or two are in order.

personally myself I prefer to finish in the "hot, moist mouth" as often as possible

The 'why' of the CIM is as complicated as the HJ finish preferred.

Got to tell you though, a hand job by the right hot lady is hot as hell. I won't knock it.

an expert on all things 'physical'?


Try him within a pm and see how/if he responds. This is all fantasy. Just because he fantasizes more than the rest of us isn't an invite to his home alert code.

How many pm's would he receive if everyone wished to know the why's/wherefore's of a nefarious activity?

I am on the north side of fifty, but I still like to have sex two to three times a day, more on ocassion. It is physically impossible for me to finish inside a condom more than once or at the most twice in a day. The only way I can finish is with skin to skin contact. Often times a hand job is the only way to generate enough friction for me to cum.

Back in High School, I would never dream of getting "only" a hand job, I still wouldn't dream of "only" getting a hand job, but a BBBJ followed by thirty or forth minutes of sex, followed by another BBBJ, culminated in a HJ to completion while DFKing the whole time, is a pleasure not to be missed.

In many cases that's the only way some guys can finish in the allotted time.  Don't forget we are booking for a set time here. Things can only go on for so long and some guys, due to age, medical conditions, the condom or the use of ED meds simply may not be able to finish inside a woman's vagina or even uncovered in a woman's mouth.  Even on longer appointments it is unrealistic to expect a woman to submit to unlimited pounding or to give herself a sore jaw trying to get a guy to finish.  There are reasonable limits to what she can do and what will get you put on her DNS list!

That's just the way it is.  If that's not a problem for you I would say go ahead and finish in whatever way you prefer.

BeeFEater500 often finishes with a HJ.
Unlike you, he didn't make an off the cuff idiotic remark.

Stop making me sneeze!

I did not suggest that. However, I do know the Beefeater fairly well and he might just fool ya and respond to PM's.

Yet, he does sometimes post here, not as often as us two crazies, but he does.

Speaking of Non-Hand Job see link...

Because very few providers know how to give one and very few hobbyists ask for one. You are much more likely to receive one (an excellent one) at a massage parlor. Why? Because they do more of them.

OK, so why do some guys like an excellent HJ? Because they FEEL better. The pleasure received from orgasm during covered intercourse is very much mental. Some guys can’t even orgasm that way because the sensations are so attenuated. So one would think the next best method would be oral. Warm, moist, slippery. All good sensations. But the maximum points of contact are limited compared to a hand job. With oral there is the lips and the tongue (and maybe the back of the throat).

Compare that to 3 moveable joints per finger plus the palm of the hand, I count 16 points of adjustment and contact per hand. That’s 32 adjustable points of contacts if using both hands. That is WAY more surface area for friction. Plus you can still add in the mouth on top of it. The moist and slippery is easily duplicated with the correct lubricate. Friction quickly adds the heat. I prefer baby oil. It’s messy and not very edible unless unscented is used. There are several other substitutes. Certain oils like Almond oil are good. Water based lube is terrible because it dries out to quickly.

For me, hand jobs are much more about the sensations than the mental aspects. But with the right woman talking to me, saying the right things to me (remember her mouth is now free to do this) while giving me a two fisted hand job, lasting maybe 45 to 60 minutes will produce an orgasm that surpasses any other, period.

Duh!

Yep, runs in the family.

and yes, i've been declared crazy before.lol

With two hands to use, one can take care of Dick and the other hand take care of his two nutty friends.

After pounding her in all positions for 30  minutes, she's tired, and I can't come inside the condom she put on me, then a hot DFK with a pretty face and a HJ by her is awesome.

After all, I've already pounded her pussy for 30 minutes and she's given me a great BJ and I've  DATY her. So, I've already enjoyed the JOURNEY. At the end of the journey, a warm hand and kiss will do.

As they say, "enjoy the journey, not just the culmination of that journey"

Hate to make a bad day worse...

Sorry pal, I had to do it. But I did give you kudos!

I am not giving out handies on hump day this week  WINK

I have NO clue how to do a hand job.  That's NOT on my menu...weird, huh?  LOL....

I think it's hot to watch her jerk it like there's nothing more that she wants than to get me to cream all over her (name the body part). I like face or tits.

A good HJ also can include some BBBJ. Get a duo involved and voila!

I like to sit in a chair to watch her do her thing...

Well, for one, it appears no one has ever given you a world class HJ. In my humble opinion, HJ's are a severely underrated art form. But that is just me. Trust me when I say mine are are far better than what you do yourself *smile*

More to the point of your question though. Some guys simply cannot finish inside a condom. So for them, finishing inside just isn't possible. Not many women allow CIM though, and most guys really hate the ole switcheroo from mouth to hand right at that particular moment. So for some men, finishing by hand makes sense.

You aren't paying hard earned cash for those 10 seconds of bliss. Its also everything else leading up to those 10 seconds that you are paying for, and you cna't get that with your hand no matter how drunk your get Rosie

One of the best things about a HJ finish is that she can finish you off while you're kissing.

Interestingly enough out of the thousands of times I've had sex I think I've only had one HJ finish, and that was with a provider that didn't do BBBJ. That really opened my eyes to how good a HJ finish could be, and I think I'll request it more in the future.

it seems to be a dying artform.  Put your cock in the right set of hands, the BBBJ will be what you think is less!

However, I had a date not long ago that her BBBJ skills were so mechanical, and dull, she would have been there all night.  So I asked her to finish it with a HJ, just so I could cum for my money!  Wasn't great, but did the trick!
Not all BJ's are all that hot either.  However, if she knows how to use her hand with the BJ, well, just take a look...the queen of hot BJ's

http://www.xvideos.com/video216909/jenna_jameson_pov_sucking_cock  

If you are willing to learn, I can teach you (no charge)

I think a good HJ has it's place in intimate sex.

anything other than WONDERFUL!!!

She did mention to me however that she was now closing in on completing her 'community service' time. LOL

You've now experienced true 'oscar time'. What are you gonna do now?; go to Disneyland????


I don't require any kudos. Too grainy for my taste. lol

embarrassed to admit it, but i do not exactly know how to give a proper HJ either. it is just not one of those things that have come up in all my sexual experiences. i won't even put my hand "down there" without being told to do so, as i don't want to risk doing something a man may dislike. also my Husband's ways have tainted me...while giving him oral he has a very strict "no hands" policy, so i do not know how to go about combining oral with hand action either. so deep throating for a solid hour...no problem. but a simple HJ or oral/HJ combo?? no clue, it's like i'm a virgin. *adjusts halo*

lol

That would explain the orange jumpsuit in the closet. I thought she wore it because it complimented her red hair? lol!  

Yeah well, 'Oscar time' or not, it's kinda like when all these people go back to see a movie over and over again?

Had comedic moments, a little drama, some sweet and tender scenes, a tear jerker when she, well, I can't get into that, but most definitely a delightful performance.

I give it two thumbs up!